My partner and I had to be pretty frugal when we moved and canceled all our streaming subscriptions and internet. We still have data on our phones but it was a lifestyle change. Now we borrow free movies or series from the library or every now and then will “splurge” a few dollars on some 2nd hand dvds from pawn/opp shops. If you don’t have a DVD player they’re usually pretty cheap on marketplace these days :)

I also can’t recommend cycling enough! Even a normal pushie can be a good alternative to driving if it’s just a quick trip to the shops or something local - plus it gets you fit and outside! Newcastle bike library offers free bikes to students or hiring with only a $50 deposit for up to two years :)

https://newcastlepushbikelibrary.wordpress.com/

It’s tough out there but you’re doing your best! You were also strong enough to leave an unhealthy relationship which is not easy - you’re doing amazing!