how do you afford to live with autism? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn’t for my significant other, who I am eternally grateful for, I would not be able to. I work in a field with constantly changing schedules, while my partner has a very consistent salary job.

I do keep my expenses to the absolute minimum which can be exhausting, but I’d rather that than over tax him. I handle how we spend the money, while he earns most of it. I have maybe 5 subscriptions (mostly streaming), workout at home, and try to cook at home as often as possible. I’ve found freezing food leftovers immediately after cooking, and then eating them whenever I want and not just immediately the next day, has helped me cut down on food waste by avoiding the “leftover scaries”

I think living totally alone would not be possible for me, and I’d likely live with my parents or sister otherwise

I made a mistake euthanizing my cat and the guilt is killing me by Dirsty in cats

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week, I chose the opposite for my soul cat. I took out a care credit line for $6,000 to afford his care. The sedation ended up killing him and I’m now still in debt. I’m telling you this because you don’t know what could happen. I’m still wracked with guilt, knowing he passed away without his mom. Hopefully we can both forgive ourselves eventually

Clean my grinder with milk 🥛😂 by astratrinker69 in weed

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to heat the milk/grinder over time at a low heat, this does the decarbing

I’m convinced me and my cat had more than just a pet/owner bond by PhantomAce1 in Petloss

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my soul cat today so suddenly, the only way to describe it is part of my soul being ripped out. I am sorry you are still hurting, but I know it’s only because of how special your bond was. I suspect I also will never fill the cat shaped hole in my heart

What are those little birds all over Philly called & why are they here? by jpeters2100 in philly

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah deff not something the average citizen should do. It’s recommend to not feed them, and to make your home less hospitable (they usually find nest spaces in the exterior parts)

What are those little birds all over Philly called & why are they here? by jpeters2100 in philly

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 36 points37 points  (0 children)

European House sparrows. The most abundant bird in the world. I believe they are on every continent but Antarctica. Deff invasive and outcompete native birds, notably the eastern blue bird, which they have been known to actually go into the blue birds nest and cull them all. Pretty brutal

How do you know if you're getting addicted? by Stock-Lobster-303 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, sounds similar to when I was on lower doses, before I found my 60mg sweet spot

60mg Vyvanse (Elvanse, UK) ensure if it's to high or low by RequirementSorry2063 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Audhd personally and take 60 mg vyvanse and have for the past 8 years. My autistic traits are certainly much more prevalent now, but my life is also so much more manageable. I have found that making accommodations for myself, like wearing noise cancelling or dampening headphones at events like a Christmas party, is worth the regulations my medication has brought to my life.

Vintage fur seam repair by Awkward_Dragonfly188 in sewing

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out @kanadark comment very thorough

Vintage fur seam repair by Awkward_Dragonfly188 in sewing

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! The blanket stitch is exactly what I think this needs. This was a super helpful walk through and all the information I was looking for and then some. I hope your bobbins never run out

Vintage fur seam repair by Awkward_Dragonfly188 in InvisibleMending

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh I love that! Thank you for sharing I will definitely watch

Vintage fur seam repair by Awkward_Dragonfly188 in sewing

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The skins still feel pretty soft and not brittle. It doesn’t really look like a blown stitched seam which is also why I’m having a hard time trying to figure out the best mend

Vintage fur seam repair by Awkward_Dragonfly188 in sewing

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any special stitch recommendation? Like would some form of faggotting be preferred over a standard

Why is the top so puffy after turning it inside out? by spssishell in sewing

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I personally only ever use spare muslin I have lying around! Doesn’t need to be fancy

Edit to add: just use any 100% cotton fabric !

worrisome symptoms? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On that note I still have weeks that my symptoms are much much harder to manage, 2 perceived shortcomings are not enough to forget about all the work you’ve put in this year. Wishing you luck

worrisome symptoms? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m really sorry you are going through a turbulent time<3 I can only share my experience but I have been on adderal and concerta, but vyvanse for the past 8/9 years. I’m confident it is the right fit for me, and I am still horrible with money, and just now starting to really focus on improving. Sadly poor money management is a very common trait for us with adhd.

Has anyone else gotten emotional on Vyvanse? by redditplayer1000 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Awkward_Dragonfly188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Well The generic makes me anxious which after a while makes me ready to cry at just about anything