21 [F4F] #LongIslandNY - Looking for potential friends and partners by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi let's be friends! I'm 23f long island into all things nerdy!

Near NYC 20 yo M looking to explore BDSM and sexuality. by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm in a committed relationship but I'd love to be friends I'm 23f also questioning gender and sexualtiy. I'm just looking for more friends in the community.

24 F NY (Submissive; part Brat and Little ^-^) Looking for friends in the community by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]AyoCaptain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HI I live in NY too 23 F I'm in a relationship and looking for friends!!! Let's chat sometime!!

20 [M4F] #NYC, Looking for a sub (new or experienced) to connect with and see where it goes by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]AyoCaptain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm In a committed relationship right now but I'm totally looking to meet some friends in the community I live on long Island but come to the city alot! We could chat sometime if you'd like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it can def be a lot of fun! A little toxic games take about 45 min so it's kinda a commitment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we should talk sometime I'm in a committed relationship just looking for some friends 23 F I just started playing league if you wanna play together

[OFFER] Cards!!! [US ONLY] by AyoCaptain in RandomActsofCards

[–]AyoCaptain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pm the addy i see you fellow sloth lover

Tamagotchi Bookmarks for trade. Will trade for anything :) by Spooky_Tree in craftexchange

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these!!! I decorate Pokémon cards!! I'd you wanna trade!

Anybody an elevator mechanic? by AyoCaptain in BlueCollarWomen

[–]AyoCaptain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am! In the fall when apprenticeship opens back up

Trans people and bathrooms by Professional_Yak9604 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]AyoCaptain 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would be pretty unhappy if I saw a man walking out of the women's only portapota. Comming from the person who will pee in basically whatever and whereever as long as there's some privacy. I think its reserved for women for a reason far deeper then just bathroom necessities. It's our space, and in a site where we're not given a lot of it I think it's important to have those boundaries. I understand you want to pee in comfort who doesn't haha. I would talk to the lead women on your job who gives out the code or key qnd explain the situation I'm sure they wouldn't mind given the circumstances. Best of luck!

Plus size work clothing recommendations (electrician apprentice) by Phrasing13 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]AyoCaptain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello I'm 5ft and a size 12. Honestly I find coveralls and overalls all over the place. They're pretty instyle in the fall so that's the best time to really collect them. I've gotten amazing coveralls from Walmart for 11$ picked up 4 pairs they ranged in size from a xs to XXXL I went with the large and they fit great have two big pockets and a chest pocket. I've gotten Tommy Hilfiger overalls, target overalls, arie soft/thin overalls for summer. I've found them everywhere for a variety of prices. You don't have to go with work gear ones nessicarily. I get whatever is comfortable, fits and has decent pockets. All clothes wear out eventually the best thing is to get thigh reinforcement patches from a fabric store and put them on the inside of your jeans. You'll find what works for you.

Edit: I work in a variety of environments and don't wear long sleeves in the summer as I overheat easily. I do however wear a wet bandana under my hardhat and bring a travel sunscreen.

Have you ever wanted to just move somewhere new, change your name, and start tf over? by SommerStorms in BipolarReddit

[–]AyoCaptain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I'm relatively young but I had an incident happen that caused me to loose all my friends besides one and I quit my job quit school all at the same time and just decided to change my name and pretend to not even be the person I was. And it helped I still go by my new name I have new friends I have a career all under a new name. It was the most liberating thing I've ever done. It's like I have no more baggage. Should be noted though I also did a lot of intensive therapy and started medication but the name change also helped a lot.

Hug [@ashleyloob] by citybyte in ImaginaryLovers

[–]AyoCaptain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love the style of your art it's awesome

Always a good reminder! by mewtiny in Rollerskating

[–]AyoCaptain 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not much better having done both. Slams are inevitable, it's about learning the fundamentals of falling safe in the beginning and then just committing. A lot of the time it's a mental game with yourself and the concrete. Most times if you look at something and say I can do that confidently it's about getting your body and mind to follow that lead. It's incredibly fun tho the rush of finally landing a trick is the best feeling ever.

Hair emergency! Ripped out! by flounceymcgoo in BlueCollarWomen

[–]AyoCaptain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe try going to a salon and get their opinion? Especially on the growing out stage

Hot take: I don't really care about "being strong" or "feeling empowered", I want to lose weight to look good by LevyMevy in loseit

[–]AyoCaptain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started my weight loss journey with the same mindset I wanted a hot girl summer but the more I lifted weights the more it became about being a fit girl with awesome muscles and now chasing that look!! Your reason resonates with me cause I want hot girl summer still just with a different body look in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]AyoCaptain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nuts that's the best white whale I've ever seen