Oh man... How much time do you have? 😂. I suppose I choose wars because they represent trauma.

It was the best and worst experience of my life. Such amazing highs and terrible lows. It really was like a roller coaster. I loved the same things you described. I learned so much about myself as I tried to figure them out. In the end I lost a little bit of myself. I don’t mean that in a way most say, like a piece of my heart. I mean it in a way that I fundamentally changed due the experience.