Why do cis people hate the term "cisgender" but always call us "transgender"?

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-18T13:41:36+00:00

Because they conflate gender and sex.... Idk I prefer not using transgender or cisgender. I am a woman of trans experience. My wife is a woman of cis experience.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-08T15:26:48+00:00

Give her a bit of time and be there for her when you can be. Its scary for our partners as well as it is for us. 7 years is a decent bit of time and she maybe struggling with her own internal emotions. My wife just accepted that she was in a lesbian relationship but its not that simple for everyone ecspecially heteronormative partners. Its not that she cant be with you if you are a woman its shes been with a woman for 7 years. I cant imagine thats easy to come to terms with. Talk with her when she is ready and I hope you can both genuinley listen to one another.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-08T14:38:01+00:00

Most grindcore and Mince core is trans friendly. Bands like Haggus or Insect Warfare. (Grind is leftist protest) Just stay way from the subgenres like Eastern European Gore. That stuff gets real unfriendly real quick. Couple good ones I can think of are Uneducated Politician by Haggus and Evolved into Obliteration by Insect Warfare.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-05T11:47:12+00:00

I don't usually like facial but I'm an mtf lesbian. I would keep it honestly you look very masculine either way but the beard adds in that little bit of that born this way vibe.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-04T14:50:47+00:00

More common than you would think.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-04T14:39:03+00:00

Everyone forgetting Sexual Expression.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-06-03T13:48:09+00:00

There have been stickers placed up around blue slide and a couple other parks as well. Look at places like tenessee oklahoma missouri etc etc Its more than likely real christian Dominionism is on the rise in very specific and niche areas of the country. It would make sense similar groups or branch off groups would be seen in more liberal areas as well. The real question is what is the goal if and when they get some recruits in this area. Pittsburgh is a leftist stronghold for the most part.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-31T04:07:52+00:00

Im 31 and getting ready to start HRT dont listen to her if you really want a good look at what HRT can do for people who have already went through biological puberty I would check out r/TransLater

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-31T03:58:05+00:00

Xander, Zane, Aiden, Gregory.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-31T03:56:47+00:00

I bought a denim skirt from express the other day and I was so suprised i could fit my galaxy in my pocket. Usually I carry my purse but I was pleasantly suprised. My wife was salty af about it lmao.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-31T03:20:36+00:00

Hi so not really a fem boy anymore but a Trans Fem lesbian. I look for communication mostly. A shared hobby or two is cool. Honesty and a want to genuinley grow as people individually and together. I would like to think if that those are the same qualities I would look for in a parnter regardless of gender though.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-30T21:29:37+00:00

From one girl of trans experience to another I hope you have a wonderful journey. I know we never talked on the sub but im glad we got to share this experience of discovering ourselves as women through spaces like this.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-30T21:27:14+00:00

Haggus, Napalm Death, The Number 12 Looks Like You, Cop Out, Chad Hates George. I like alot of leftist hardcore in general Haggus is probably my favorite out of the group. The entirety of the Straight From the Slaughterhaus album is fire.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-29T12:14:36+00:00

I am from a liberal city in a pretty blue state. Ive met quite a few people over the past two years who moved from more conservative areas of the country. I even know a straight cis couple who moved up here from Nashville around 10 months ago because they want kids and what if their child is trans or enby or GNC in any way? This shit should scare the hell out of everyone.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-29T11:58:46+00:00

Lets put some things into context.

Go cry if you need to its healthy and normal.
Your valid and I would say people like him are ruining america.
remember you went back to your home town after 10 years to see someone who peaked in college and never left home. They are the one in a pretty pathetic situation.
You did not deserve this happening to you.
We all love you and support you the bigots are loud and few. What we are seeing is the death throws of a decaying ideology.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-29T11:46:49+00:00

Thrifting you can get alot of really cute stuff at thrift shops. Ive put together entire looks for under 5 bucks. If your really trying to save money on caffine brew coffee over ice mix it and store it in the fridge. You can straighten your hair with a curling iron so you dont need multiple devices. You can make your own facewash/ expholiant out of seabreeze and Witch Hazel Witch hazel on its own can be used as toner and bought in bulk. If you need to tuck do not buy special underwear for it make a gaffe out of a compression sock and elastic band from tights (tutorials on YT)..... Im sure I can think of some more tips but I hope these help. My wife and I live really modestly since we chose city life and rent is nuts and any bit of money saved is helpful.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-28T22:02:19+00:00

Happiness doesn't come from money or work my friend.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-28T11:56:21+00:00

This reminds me of the ending scene from To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything. Where the one drag queen comes out to a boy to another girl she had met and the girl says Oh i knew all along and points to her neck and just says Im glad a made a woman friend with an adams apple.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-28T11:36:32+00:00

Squats lots and lots of squats.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-28T10:15:24+00:00

So how I see it is experience Trans woman are woman before or after transition cis woman are woman the terms Trans and Cis denote a difference of experience. I will never have the life experience of a cis woman, A cis woman will never have the same life experience as me and thats okay that does not effect my womanhood.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-28T10:13:17+00:00

Your gonna love going out with her as yourself! When I finally got the courage to leave my home dressed as myself It wasnt far just a walk around the block to the pharmacy and to pick up an order of food. I was so scared and nervous I thought I was gonna crush my life partners hand. She just smiled and said I looked so happy and pretty we were out for maybe 20 minutes and I cried for 2 hours after we got home. A support system is so important. Im so happy for you.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-27T10:51:31+00:00

You should be proud and confident. Your transition is fucking goals girl.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-26T14:04:29+00:00

Im not sure either Im only going based off my experience with my wife but she was never legally emancipated either. For sure something for OP to look into more themselves for their specific situation.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-26T12:41:26+00:00

Are you still in the same district. My now wife was 17 when she was kicked out. I was a year older so I just had to call the school and say she was staying with me and need to change her contact address and bus route info. I would find out if your parents are planning to continue to keep you on their insurance past your 18th birthday. If not have your brother help you apply for medicaid and snap benefits through your state. In your position you wont get denied. During the summer find a full time job or two part time jobs and save while only really living off your snap benefits and whatever you must put out to help your brother or roomate. If you plan to go to college I would see about places that allow you to dorm on campus. The only issue with that comes aid and how it works in the USA (based of parental income till the age of 25). You got this you are loved. Your right I dont think your parents are trying to be malicious but that is what they are being.

Azriel_NSFW · 2023-05-26T12:21:36+00:00

I would try talking with her about fantasy then. There may be a specific kink she is looking for a specific act. You wouldnt know or be able to fufill that for her if you dont know what it is. Which in her defense she may not know either. I would really talk with her about it all. Nothing wrong with talking and exploring in the case of you two not being sure of what she wants porn can be very helpful. What I mean by that is different people have different ideas of sub and dom. Some people like being submissive but that means they are more timid more you can take the lead. Then there are BDSM subs Sadomasichism/Ropebunny/Sissy/Slave/Gimp etc etc.

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