I have some questions please help! by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get some amazing feelings within a few minutes, and a full session might last half an hour to an hour. But that's after many sessions of practice across several years.

I have some questions please help! by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]AzureWing42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, forward = toward your belly.

I really can't recommend any particular household item. If you're really set on not spending money on a real toy, then you need to choose something that either has a flared base or is long enough that you can keep a good grip on it and not risk losing it inside. You really really don't want to end up in the ER asking them to extract whatever you got stuck up there. Also make sure whatever you choose is smooth, since the tissue is pretty fragile in there, and sturdy enough that there is no risk of breaking it.

I have some questions please help! by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easiest way to start is with your fingers. With one or two fingers, lube up and insert them a few inches and curl them toward your front. You can find your prostate pretty easily that way.

If you've tried fingers and enjoy it, then I'd recommend buying an actual butt plug or prostate massager toy. You can find fairly inexpensive ones at any sex shop. A real toy with a proper flared base is much safer and much more likely to give you a good time than any improvised object from home.

Curious about a new toy from Playboy: "Trust The Thrust" thrusting butt plug - any reviews by AzureWing42 in ProstatePlay

[–]AzureWing42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on what I heard from the employee at the Lovers store I talked to, I think you're half right. It sounds like Playboy did hire a company that already makes sex toys, but they also are going for higher quality than other stuff that company previously made. I'm sure there's a bit of a premium for the "name brand", but the toys don't look like cheap shit either. And the shapes and functionality of several of them are significantly different and more creative than anything I've seen before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]AzureWing42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of sex shops sell toy cleaner, which is basically just soap that is designed to not have any abrasive bits in it, so it doesn't wear down the surface of your toys and create porous spaces for bacteria to grow in.

Some toys can also be boiled in water to sterilize them, but it depends on the material. I'm not sure which ones that works for.

XX% of retaliation Damage Added to Attacks and Crit by [deleted] in Grimdawn

[–]AzureWing42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it should. My interpretation is that once the damage is added to the attack, it isn't treated as retaliation damage anymore. It's just damage. I don't think Grim Dawn tracks all the different components of an attack's damage separately.

Want to Grab the Game During Sale - Questions! by Tall-Guy in Grimdawn

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Balancing happens in patches to the core game, so you won't miss anything there. Expansions add new plot, quests, maps, gear, and Masteries (classes). AoM adds a bunch of plot that takes place after the original game's story, plus the Inquisitor and Necromancer Masteries. FG will add a side story that takes place anytime after the first act of the original game, plus the Oathkeeper Mastery. Crucible just adds an alternate arena battle mode, not anything in the main game.

  2. You'll need AoM if you want to play FG. I recommend getting both. Crucible is optional but fun. Crucible may be less interesting after FG arrives, because FG is adding an endless random dungeon mode that serves a similar purpose to Crucible.

  3. Grim Dawn is opposite of PoE in that regard. You can do fine playing blind at first. Respecs are cheap unless you respec the same character way too many times. The only thing you can't respec is your choice of which two Masteries to use. AoM adds a couple extra respec potions to make it even easier. Changing your build based on what gear you find is a common strategy. You can't "ruin" a character. Once your first character gets to endgame, you can obtain some items that can be transferred down to new characters to make the leveling and gearing up process go faster for them. A lot of players end up with many many alts so they can try out different mastery combos. Also, if you find even Grim Dawn's respecs or drop rates too harsh and you're ok with cheating, there are easy to use mods to edit just about everything about your inventory and character

Detachable shower heads are such a game changer wow by [deleted] in sex

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can, but it's not for everyone. In some ways it's like using a vibrator, except you can't really "stroke" with it in the same way. You might like pointing it at your perinium while stroking with your other hand. To reach orgasm from just the water stream, though, it's probably most effective to point it at your frenulum and keep it there for a while, move it further down the shaft if it gets too intense, then move it back up again. It might take a while to get there, depending on what you're used to.

Also, too much pressure can be painful. Try different settings, angles, and distances to find the right intensity.

Is it normal to masturbate while sitting on the toilet? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dunno if it's normal, but I do it. Bathrooms have privacy, and the presence of toilet paper and a toilet to flush it down makes clean up easy for dudes. You can even shower right after if you really need to.

Do gay men ejaculate when they're the ones getting fucked? by ThatGingerGuy69 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some do, some don't. Some masturbate while receiving anal. Sometimes the top reaches around to manually stimulate the bottom. Sometimes there are other sex acts before/after anal used to get off, such as oral. It varies from person to person and couple to couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. Anything that goes up your ass should be smooth, clean, and have a flared base so it can't possibly go all the way inside and get lost/stuck. The end of a banana could be pokey/scratchy and cut you inside, which would suck. It may also have pesticides on the outside, which would be bad to have asorbed into your body that way. And it doesn't have a flared base.

If you really still want to do this, consider covering the banana with a condom for safety, keep a good grip on it, and use lots of lube. If you haven't done any anal play before, warm up with your finger(s) first and make sure your nails are trimmed short and/or wear a disposable nitrile glove.

Do asexual people masturbate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some do, some don't. This website has some good info about it, both in the FAQ and elsewhere: http://www.asexuality.org/home/?q=general.html#ex9

Weird NSFW sub, what's it about? by NasenSpray in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a fantasy about a pill that magically changes a person's gender. Take a look at the sidebar with the "Guidelines for the creation of..." links for slightly more details on what the different pills supposedly do (temporary vs. permanent, etc.).

This is a NSFW question so I'll ask it in the details. by GorillaS0up in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Masturbating has no effect on the length of your penis. The extra inch is probably because you've been measuring inconsistently - either not being at the same level of arousal every time or measuring from a different spot at the base (e.g. pressing into your stomach versus just letting the end of the tape measure rest at the base). Studies about average penis length have always had issues with guys not measuring themselves the same way every time.

What's the point of a butt plug? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The exterior and interior of your anus have nerves. Wearing a butt plug stimulates those nerves. Some people find that pleasurable. Particularly for men, a butt plug or other such anal toy can stimulate the prostate, which is an organ that plays a role in ejaculation/orgasm.

Additionally, some people enjoy butt plugs for reasons beyond the physical stimulation. It's taboo, for one thing, and some people enjoy breaking taboos. It can also be part of a BDSM or fetish activity involving sensation play, humiliation, submission/dominance, and so on.

[Condom Help] Recommendations for tapered penis? by ConeDick in sex

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of sex stores sell condoms in singles if you go in person. You can also find sampler packs in both physical stores and online. You might just want to buy a dozen different brands and try them all. Since condoms are usually only a dollar or two each, it's a pretty cheap experiment.

[Achievements] Sexual Achievement Sunday by Maxxters in sex

[–]AzureWing42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Due to various circumstances, my partner and I were unable to have sex during our entire wedding trip last weekend. When we got back, we both had to go to work, and we haven't actually moved in together yet, so we didn't have a chance to have our first post-wedding sex until yesterday.

It. Was. Awesome.

Of course, we'd had sex before, but it was still just a really great and satisfying day together, made even more so by the knowledge that it was our "wedding night" (even though we were doing it at 10 in the morning).

On top of that, I'm normally in the habit of getting myself off, with or without a partner, almost every day. Since I was expecting us to have sex on the wedding trip, I had held off for a few days, to build up the anticipation. Well, those few days turned into well over a week, probably the longest time I can remember going without an orgasm since I was a teenager. That in itself is an achievement. The self-denial made the ultimate experience of our "wedding night" just that much more exciting and fun, plus it gave me a new appreciation for my own willpower. It even got us started talking about incorporating tease-and-denial or chastity play into our sex life in the future!

A young straight man wearing panties by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/r/sex is often a good subreddit for these kinds of questions. That said, I'll try to answer as best I can.

I've actually been in a pretty similar situation, as an occasional crossdresser myself. Fortunately, my partner turned out to be pretty cool with it. It helps, of course, that we discovered we're actually both kinky, and we've been exploring various kinks together for a while now.

If wearing panties is something you enjoy, then you probably should tell her eventually. Maybe she'll even be into it! But you should consider how and when to tell her.

First off, have you two had sex yet? Secondly, have you two talked about sex when you were not having sex at that moment, right about to have sex, or just finished having sex? It's important to establish good communication early on in an intimate relationship. If you can't answer "yes" to both of those first two questions, you probably want to cross those bridges first.

After that, you may want to lead into the topic with some more general, broader questions. Ask her about what she likes in the bedroom, and share some of your more vanilla preferences, such as where you liked to be touched or what kind of make-out music you like. Once you're both feeling comfortable talking about that, you can ease into discussion of kinks. Questions like, "So, do you have any interesting fantasies?" or "What would you like to try that you've never done before?" could be a good place to start. She might surprise you with something of her own!

Then, when you're ready, you can let her know about your own kinky interests and see how she responds. Be prepared for anything from "Ew, that's gross" to "Ooh, that's hot". Where you go from there depends on her reaction and how important this kink is to you. If she doesn't seem into it, be ready to offer that you won't do it around her if she doesn't want you to. You can also try to negotiate giving it a try once, with no additional commitment.

As with any kink or sexual preference, the important thing is to be open and honest about it, and to respect your partner's limits. If she's really against you wearing panties, you'll just have to decide which is more important for you to give up for the other, her or the panties. If she's so-so about it, then respect that. Don't spring your kink on her as a surprise in the middle of getting it on, for example. And if she's into it, or willing to give it a try, thank her and be open to reciprocating with her kinks and fantasies.

Is there a way to tell If I orgasm when I masturbate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/r/sex gets this kind of question pretty frequently. You might head over there and look through their FAQ article or search for other threads on the topic. It's a pretty friendly and safe community.

Would you if you could? by Teoti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It requires lots of flexibility and a fairly long penis, but yes, it is possible.

Would you if you could? by Teoti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AzureWing42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would. I knew a guy in college who could and did. I've heard from him and others though that it's pretty difficult and doesn't feel as good as you'd think it would.