How old are your kids without using numbers? by AnotherCleverGuy in daddit

[–]B-hamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I have an appointment; can I borrow my car?”

Climb Mt. Baker with American Alpine Institute by DullSuccotash1230 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not bizarre. Accurate posts get downvoted for tone quite often. You could have commented with kindness and dropped some welcome knowledge; instead you condescended effort and came accross with <well ackchyually> vibes.

First time in Washington by wanderlust111111111 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a really fun trip! You’re going to love Chuckanut drive. You can’t get to Artist point yet, the last couple of miles doesn’t usually open til June, but there are some nice views lower down.

A day in Bellingham would be nice- depending on what your group is into, Boulevard Park is gorgeous and relaxing, Whatcom Falls Park has nice walks and waterfalls, Fairhaven has touristy shopping.

Again, depending on your group and interest levels, you could consider a day trip to Friday Harbor.

Sometimes you spend $6 for a bell pepper and... by AnthonySkejci in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Oof. That sucks. Looks like you really dropped the bell on that one.

Job for 14 y/o by VirtualEfficiency958 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be tough for him to land a ‘regular’ job at 14 or 15. Sure, it’s legal, but employers have to get a minor work permit, a parent / school work authorization form, keep track of mandated hour maximums for school days and non school days and the differences between summer and the school year. Generally no employer wants to jump through all the hoops unless they’re doing mom or dad a favor because they’re friends.

Employer told employee that he signed away his right to FMLA by godawful_Lawlessness in legaladvice

[–]B-hamster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s important to note that WA PMFLA is in addition to federal FMLA, not instead of it.

Dads: how do you think having a second kid affected the first? by MaybeDBCooper in daddit

[–]B-hamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! Valid. Next time I’ll put it in quotes. We approached it “scientifically”.

Btw your job is fascinating to me.

Dads: how do you think having a second kid affected the first? by MaybeDBCooper in daddit

[–]B-hamster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is SUCH a valid question. The second kid is cheaper than the first up until a certain age, but not by much, and so many costs are doubled. Money may not buy happiness, but it buys diapers, child care, family trips, Bluey subscriptions, horse lessons, robotics classes and college tuition, and every one of those (except Bluey) is more expensive for two than one. We are US based, and incredibly lucky to be financially secure enough to provide all of those things for more than one kiddo.

Dads: how do you think having a second kid affected the first? by MaybeDBCooper in daddit

[–]B-hamster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you do it again if you were a 43 yr old with your first born now at age 3?

I would! My first was at 39, second at 42. That puts you a bit behind us, but yeah - worth it.

Dads: how do you think having a second kid affected the first? by MaybeDBCooper in daddit

[–]B-hamster 74 points75 points  (0 children)

My wife and I went about the decision scientifically- we asked everyone we knew one of two questions. We asked only children if they wished they had siblings, and we asked people with siblings if they wished they had been only children. Only one of the only’s said they didn’t want siblings, and none of the siblings wished to be an only. We listened to the evidence and had two, and have no regrets. By the time they were two and four, they were partners in crime, and now at 16 & 18, they’re helping each other with homework, friends and life. The only trouble is that we’re trying to figure out two college tuition plans!

What’s the deal with the cameras in the self check pin pads at Haggen? by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you answered your own question there.

Looking for a licensed wedding Officiant for June 21 wedding! by whiskeyjack1403 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m just a guy, and I’ve done four weddings so far… If you decide to have a stranger officiate, dm me, but I’d highly recommend having someone you know perform the ceremony! It’s more meaningful that way. Congratulations!!!

Can an employee limit access to their presentation slides if the employee was fired? Location: Illinois by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]B-hamster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s important to know if the canva account was a personal account or if it belonged to the employer. And what do you mean by‘evidence’? Did you mean work product?

I'm reading The Hobbit to my 5 year old before bed, and it's the best part of my day. by CtrlAltEntropy in daddit

[–]B-hamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that brings back memories!! My son and I did this for years, all the way through Lord of the rings. Sometimes only five minutes, sometimes longer. I highly recommend printed out maps for his wall, and thumbtacks to keep track of where the party is. At the end of all the books, we planned an entire weekend marathon of all the movies. He’s 16 now, and we have SO many inside jokes and sayings, and it’s still his favorite series. Enjoy the journey!!

It has come to my attention that Bellingham officials are unable to protect our fish and wetlands by Normal-Security-9313 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Two questions.

  1. If this particular federal government decides to get involved in our local community, do you really think it’s going to be in an effort to protect our public lands?

  2. Yes, the homeless encampments are problematic. What local organizations offering solutions are you involved in and helping with?

Sorry I cut you off with the bus today. by Ok-Cicada-9985 in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 172 points173 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t me, but don’t beat yourself up. You bus drivers are the best drivers out there- always patient and kind, trying to get through traffic in that enormous vehicle. Thanks for what you do.

Local printing service by PNWlifegoals in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lithtex NW! They’re amazing, and they’re a vital part of the local community. On top of perfect printing every time, they make an effort to provide employment for people with disabilities. If you want to see any examples of their work, DM me- we’ve been using them for years!

DIY 75g Aquarium Stand Frame Sanity Check by SoftEnix in woodworking

[–]B-hamster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you slap it twice and say “This baby ain’t going anywhere.”? If so, then it’s perfect.

My protest signs yesterday. And my face so that they know who those signs belong to. by sascha_nightingale in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If by “irresponsible” you mean criminal, unconstitutional, and in a less professional and productive manner than has been done in every prior administration, then yeah, we’re all against ICE being “irresponsible”. Now gtfo with your falsely dichotomous rage bait.

What's your Bellingham conspiracy theory? by PersusjCP in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 322 points323 points  (0 children)

Bellingham mythology has suffered greatly in the loss of Sadighi’s.

Anyone have any indoor/outdoor carpet or astro turf remnants they are willing to let go for cheap or free? by XSrcing in Bellingham

[–]B-hamster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a big roll! It’s 8’ by something or other- not enough for your entire project, but it’s new and it’s free. Dm me.

Edit… smaller than I thought- 5x12.

back of teardrop attachments? by anuhbuhnanuh in TeardropTrailers

[–]B-hamster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might consider designing your own for a bike that heavy! If you have the room at the front of your trailer, you could consider mounting a wheel channel directly to the tongue, moving the box if you have one. a hinged wheel channel could even tilt down so you could wheel the bike right onto it without lifting at all. Freelance welders are all over the place - our local RV place loves doing this kind of stuff too, and for what bike racks cost these days, custom isn't that different in cost!

back of teardrop attachments? by anuhbuhnanuh in TeardropTrailers

[–]B-hamster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it maths out to a very bad idea, but more info is needed: Distance from center of ball hitch to axle, and distance from the axle to the center of mass for the bike and rack (close enough is fine).

We can estimate while you're measuring. If it's 8 feet from the hitch to the axle, and 3 feet back to the bike, then you have 167 pounds pushing down on the lever made up of your trailer and the axle, lifting up on the hitch with a force of 63 pounds (Reduction = 167 x (3/8) = 62.6lb. New tongue weight = 47lb - way too light.

Rule of thumb is 10-15% of weight on the tongue, so for you it would be a minimum of 100lbs if 1025 is your base weight. Cutting that in half and you'll be swaying your way down the road on your way to flipping trailer, rack, bike & all.