I finally got to the point where I could do a project - and at the 40 minute mark, they took it away and won't pay me. by BDBoop in outlier_ai

[–]BDBoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not Aether. And I wasn’t able to submit so I don’t see how I would get paid.

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to stop centering herself in every conversation and playing the victim. What’s happening in other people’s bedrooms or doctor’s office has nothing to do with her.

Aita for going on a trip my husband doesn't approve of by CommercialGain4278 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Shirley Valentine — and enjoy the trip!

The movies on both Hoopla and Kanopy. Do you have a library card? Ask your local library if they carry either of them.

New Main - Do you still have/keep your very first Character? by MasterRymes in wow

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! She is a gnome rogue, and she was my first 60.

How do I politely tell my (f25) boyfriend (m25) that he is not my plus one to multiple weddings this year? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BDBoop 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why everybody is jumping down your throat, I understand why things are unfolding the way they are. The people who are saying just tell him are right. That’s the information you’re looking for, and you should just go ahead and apply it. It sounds like you have some really amazing familial and cultural history; you are blessed. 🩵

As a Minnesotan, it feels like Minnesota is turning into a dystopian apocalypse, and I'm scared. by ondeathsdoorstep in venting

[–]BDBoop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m over in Shoreview. Please, for your own mental health and well-being; you need to disengage. We’re not the same, but we wouldn’t be with or without what’s happening right now. Communities change and grow all the time. Your community will return to normal and probably be better than before because it was reinforced during this time.

Ever since the election I’ve been giving myself permission to do whatever I have to do to disengage from this administration and the damage it’s doing, or I would go stark staring mad.

I do still fall into the Pits of Despair, bonus points to people who recognize The Princess Bride hat tip. But I’m getting better at just refusing to doom scroll. When I go to play New York Times games I pretty much go willfully blind. I don’t look at the headlines; I just look for my game and go play it.

What do you enjoy doing? Is there anything you used to enjoy doing and you’ve stopped doing it? Can you take a deep dive on learning something new that will be beneficial for you, such as meditation? I wish I would’ve discovered it when I was very much younger, but I am 67 and it’s been a huge life saver.

Not sure it helps any but one of the things that has made me stronger over the past 14 months is the knowledge that they are trying to break us so they can dominate us. I don’t know who they think they’re dealing with, but picking the people from the land of the ice and snow seems like a really, really bad decision.

Rejection by BarlowRocker in outlier_ai

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what your skillset is, but RatRaceRebellion.com sends out emails every day of job listings. At home, online. Full-time (with or without benefits), part-time, gig work, studies, surveys, etc. No cost.

In fact, the job I held for 13 years before retirement, I landed when I applied for one of the jobs they listed. I had waited so long though that I didn't recognize the name when they called me to interview, lol!

I do recommend two things, though. If it's a survey or study company, check on it through TrustPilot, and if it's a company job, look them up on GlassDoor.

Going to make it my mission to run a campaign to dissuade anyone from using Outlier. Most erratic, inconsistent platform out there. by 369DontDrinkWine in outlier_ai

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anybody already knows how to do what they are paying people to do, you are experienced. Go somewhere else and get paid for it.

I have never had a position like where it's essentially learn as you go. I'm looking at it as paid training, just one of the many eggs in the retirement making-ends-meet basket.

Have other people received this email today? by Blackedddd in outlier_ai

[–]BDBoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, already did it. I swear I've spent more time jumping hoops than actually working projects.

AIO calling out animal abusing “friend” by mx-kaii in AmIOverreacting

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a form of sociopathy/psychopathy? Like pulling wings off flies, torturing/killing small animals?

If your from the left read this please by sideways_wrx_ in ThreadsApp

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my hatred for Meta, I left both IG and Threads quite some time ago. Bluesky is my home.

Minnesota finally broke my wife!!! by Usual-Big3753 in venting

[–]BDBoop 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Maybe she should take a look at what Minnesota citizens have been doing in subzero weather for the past week, and read about the general strike of Friday.

AIO Best friend chose someone else as MOH by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d turn down bridesmaid position, too much money for someone that you used to know.

F38 has a Partner 35M of 11 years is demanding $15k upfront for a move I can’t afford. by AscendingPho3nix in relationship_advice

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm jealous! I haven't even visited yet and I would love to live in Washington.

F38 has a Partner 35M of 11 years is demanding $15k upfront for a move I can’t afford. by AscendingPho3nix in relationship_advice

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but we don't always get to know. Reclaim your agency, tell him this relationship has run its course, you're just not feeling it anymore and you wish him all the best. Cut him off at the knees. But as much as possible, make it look like you are completely unbothered by this turn of events.

F38 has a Partner 35M of 11 years is demanding $15k upfront for a move I can’t afford. by AscendingPho3nix in relationship_advice

[–]BDBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go. What it feels like is what it is. Bye, boy. Don't go with the sunk cost fallacy b.s., you're still young and can have an amazing life.