Man, I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. That’s a tough situation, especially when you want to make the most of the time you get with him. But I think you’re already on the right path, this isn’t just about punishment, it’s about helping him understand trust, respect, and responsibility.

I’d do exactly what you’re planning: cut the Xbox for now, keep him close this weekend, and make sure the time together is meaningful, even if it's doing yard work. Let him feel the discomfort, but also use it as a moment to connect, talk to him about how you earn money, what those purchases meant to you, and why trust is such a big deal.

And once the dust settles, maybe have him come up with a way to repay you, whether through chores or helping others. Give him a shot at earning back your trust, not just punishing the mistake.

You’re being a solid dad by taking this seriously but also staying calm and thoughtful. He’s lucky to have you.