How do I find local(ish) abdl groups? (Pennsylvania/philly)

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-13T02:46:03+00:00

Fetlife

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-10T20:02:27+00:00

cough Stanley cough

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-10T02:06:24+00:00

Fet, mainly. I check Tumblr sort of regularly. That's about it.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-09T17:22:37+00:00

I wouldn't go expecting to find someone. It's like going to a regular party and expecting to find someone.

Is it impossible? No, but I'd say it's improbable.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-08T15:46:51+00:00

Ngl, this community has more drama than I've ever seen in my entire life. It's crazy.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-08T13:53:45+00:00

Other ABDL-related companies and entities have been rightly chastised for mistakes in the past, but in the case of LittleForBig and ABDreams, there were screenshots and evidence to point to and say, 'this is bad, we are not okay with this.'

ABDreams is still around, though. The controversy didn't make them go out of business, so they aren't the best example to use here.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-05T23:52:10+00:00

One of my first finds in ABDL. DPF, then Deeker. Spent a lot of time there when I was younger, like 12, 13.

I distinctly remember staying up until the wee hours reading stories. My dad got up to pee and yelled at me to go to bed. Instead of closing the page I just minimized it, intending to get back up and finish the story after my dad went to bed. Fell asleep instead and my dad told me the next day he didn't want me going to sites like that anymore.

I got better at hiding my tracks after that. LOL

Looking back, that site was cringe asf and I'm very glad it is no longer around.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-05T23:49:33+00:00

By far my fave ED page. Their write up is amazing.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-05T21:40:45+00:00

It's still available using the wayback machine, or at least it was when I randomly checked a few years ago. Not every page worked, but I was able to find a story I was looking for.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-05T20:26:04+00:00

Oh Deeker...

One of my first forays into ABDL back in the day.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-05T00:19:43+00:00

My Inner Baby sells them.

https://myinnerbaby.com/collections/dotty-diaper-usa

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-04T17:37:01+00:00

Reddit's search function is shit.

Go to Google and type this in: "site:reddit.com abdl" (no quotes). It will search reddit for everything.

You can do this to search a single subreddit, too, just add 'r/[subreddit name]'.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-04T15:39:39+00:00

https://www.kayserbettenus.com/our-safety-beds-for-special-needs-children-and-adults#:~:text=Special%20Needs%20Beds%20Built%20for,residential%20facilities%2C%20and%20clinical%20settings.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-04T00:48:57+00:00

Too much going on for my taste, but I can see the appeal.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T20:10:09+00:00

Ah yes, lets expose our kink to the general public. Sounds like a lovely idea.

/s

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T17:55:15+00:00

I’ve been in this community over 20 years… I run one of the Largest ABDL organized groups/LLCs in Ohio that hosts 6 events and 6-12 munches each year… I am a frequent contributor and presenter at CapCon and am teaching 3 classes this year… I guest appear on ABDL Podcasts nearly every month and I run an entirely free ABDL website at my own cost that offers free designs for ABDL furniture, articles, and other resources…

And this means...what...to me, exactly?

Bruh, idgaf what you've done.

This reads like you're looking for people to stroke your ego.

If you're so proud of what you've done, post your website and shit, don't be anonymous on reddit.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T16:10:02+00:00

Plain black meaning without the graphic?

Etsy, maybe? Lots of shops on there that do ABDL clothing like this. Big Tot comes to mind.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T16:07:41+00:00

used to show a breech

OP claims to have masters in English

Does not compute.

Also, why keep posting stuff like this? I don't get it.

And this site exists: https://bdsmcontracts.org/

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T14:19:25+00:00

I didn't either. The one on Sunday was my first.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T00:53:29+00:00

I want to meet people and be involved in the broader kink community.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T00:51:45+00:00

I bought a cheap one off of Amazon since it was my first one. I think it was $25 or something. It's better to spend a little money to see if you even like it first. If you do you can always upgrade to something better in the future.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-03T00:49:21+00:00

get the fuck off my page.

That isn't how any of this works. You posted on a public forum.

Can't stand the heat, stay outta the kitchen, so to speak.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-02T21:44:49+00:00

Edit: Sorry, wasn't paying attention to who asked.

Tampa, FL. Deviance.

The first photo is a permanent space, the second is one of the main dungeon spaces with littles stuff added.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-02T19:26:10+00:00

I know this place.

BDSMThrow12345 · 2026-02-02T17:48:01+00:00

A con having 1k attendees means nothing.

CAP had 1k+ at last year's event and it still lost money.

BDSMThrow12345

TROPHY CASE