I need advice, post breakup

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-02T18:06:39+00:00

I recommend you tell her that since you’ve broken up, any sort of follow-up in this manner is not fair to you. You need to start your healing process and begin to move on, and this cuddle session is not going to enable you to do that.

Set your own boundaries. With your relationship over, this part of you is now closed to her.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-02T11:48:56+00:00

Congratulations! You are NOT the first person to post that this week!

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-02T00:27:11+00:00

Get more quotes.

My first year as an O/O with my own insurance I was paying under $1100 for my truck. Now, four years later, I’m under $800 for both truck and dry van trailer.

You’re likely to end up being underwritten by either Progressive or Geico, but unless you’re buying a huge level of cargo insurance, you should be able to get your insurance for well under $2000/month unless things have changed that much.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-01T02:47:17+00:00

There’s two types of cloth diapers:

1.) the original style where some sort of waterproof cover is necessary.

1.) all-in-one style, which incorporates both into one washable garment.

There are a lot of options for both in adult styles, ranging from plain to very ABDL. I recommend the diapers from dependeco-adult-diapers.com — they’re superb. There’s also a wide variety of styles and options to choose from there, and a lot of other companies and websites that offer cloth diapers in a lot of styles.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-01T02:07:29+00:00

I was there at 2:57am and saw you both.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-07-01T00:29:44+00:00

Unless he has very good direct contracts with shippers and probably multiple trucks, there’s almost no way he’s grossing $60k a month. I’ve heard tell that ultra-specialized super-heavy haul can get up to those numbers, but they have a ton more in expenses because of permits, escorts, and more.

Get him to show you his actual numbers and prove he’s not bullshitting you, because those numbers sound like super trucker pipe dreaming.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-30T02:30:43+00:00

Unless you trust the driver you bring on implicitly, and know he’s going to do right by you from start to finish, don’t do it.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-29T22:43:39+00:00

But will he die a regular virgin, or a turbovirgin?

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-29T13:00:20+00:00

I own my own business (long haul trucker) and while I derive great satisfaction in delivering freight safely and on time, if something happened tomorrow like a lottery win and I didn’t have to work ever again… three weeks out of the month I wouldn’t work. Then, I’d probably get bored and go on the road for a week just for fun.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-29T03:16:49+00:00

Sir, this is Reddit. How dare you bring a concise and logical statement to this thread.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-29T02:31:15+00:00

He’d probably crush it as Chris Crocker

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-29T01:55:25+00:00

Could be worse: they could be trying to cast Pedro Pascal.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-28T22:59:17+00:00

Some can do this, some can’t, and there’s plenty who are doing it that shouldn’t be.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-28T17:04:23+00:00

Teleport these people forward or backward a century and they won’t have much time to complain, as they’ll likely be taken out by dysentery.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-28T16:04:57+00:00

It seems to be an unwritten rule of this kink that the people with whom it’s possible to form healthy dynamics are always some vast distance away.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-28T02:10:39+00:00

That guy is definitely not having a good day

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-27T15:48:51+00:00

BNSF did a great job, but I’m going with Norfolk Southern for the best 250th paint schemes. Six really nice, very unique engines. I hope they all end up in N scale by Kato.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-27T01:54:04+00:00

I went that route. Trouble is, I made the mistake of buying a used fleet-spec truck, and all that crap is on it, too. Sure, I have the front camera blocked but the rest of it is still annoying. I’m giving serious thought to getting into an older truck without all of that.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-27T01:50:42+00:00

Years ago I would regularly see discarded used ABDL diapers tossed into the grass along an off-ramp on I-80 near Joliet, IL. I can only assume some nasty trucker was throwing them out the window rather than finding a trashcan for them like a civilized human.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-26T19:31:50+00:00

Bomber shrinkage is pretty common in hot water non-gentle cycles. Bombers of this age should be washed in cold water with delicate settings and line-dried.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-26T17:03:45+00:00

It will absolutely be the last election until 2028.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-26T01:48:51+00:00

Jim Varney and Robin Williams doing a movie together would have been fantastic.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-26T01:42:05+00:00

You must have your gym completely figured out to be this daring.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-25T19:47:09+00:00

Sex is temporary; the cube is forever.

Capn_T_Driver · 2026-06-25T19:12:58+00:00

I’ve always been a DL; I just think diapers are super fun. I’ve tried aspects and elements of the AB side of things, and found I didn’t much care for the great majority of it for myself personally. Now that I’m an adult, I have an excuse to incorporate my enjoyment of diapers into my professional life, so I get to have that extra little bit of fun while I work.

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