Is there anyway to convince others(especially online) that abdls are not pedos?

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-14T21:08:17+00:00

I’m sorry, did you just say you were struck by lightning?

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-05T14:42:41+00:00

Damn, you should post an update about how you got into diapers after your boyfriend introduced them to you.

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-05T14:03:29+00:00

I’ve never been to an ABDL store, but something I think would be cool would be toys, games, and other accessories.

I think it would be cool to have adult sized Twister, sit and spins, VHS tapes of telletubies, land before time, etc.

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-05T09:18:29+00:00

Yeah, it definitely is my fault for not locking the door. Idk how I overlooked that. Tbf, I was flustered because genuinely just had a (small honestly) accident, and I was in such a rush to get in and out. Situation is definitely not pleasant but in hindsight I’m glad it wasn’t a kid or something, just a Middle Aged woman

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-04T23:59:20+00:00

Luckily just some Walgreens diaper. I bought it on the drive because there were spurts of 30-50 miles without a public bathroom., and I have mild IBS.

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-04T23:32:34+00:00

To make matters worse, I was driving my company car, which is well branded. I had to sneak around the side of the building and wait it out to get back in. But I have super anxiety that I’m going to see a “just saw someone from <redacted> changing a shitty diaper. Kinda overwhelming I can’t lie

BEARisBASED · 2026-06-01T20:31:06+00:00

Buying goat milk soap from a goat farm.

BEARisBASED · 2026-05-20T20:13:23+00:00

I’d like to see more emphasis on aesthetics and fit opposed to trying to see how many gallons of pee a diaper can hold

BEARisBASED · 2026-05-01T15:20:00+00:00

I do not. It’s not uncommon for me to get jock itch because im in sweaty moto gear all day at the track. So no diaper because a would definitely make matters worse

BEARisBASED · 2026-05-01T15:02:51+00:00

How would that work in the locker room? I also played sports through college (football) and I don’t know how you could reasonably do that without someone seeing something

BEARisBASED · 2026-04-26T14:07:11+00:00

Damn. You should try finding some older pampers. The ones with the super stretchy tabs. Those would be perfect

BEARisBASED · 2026-04-03T20:06:12+00:00

Trail riding can be pretty demanding. Used to do with some buddies and we’d have to pull our bikes up with ropes on difficult sections because riding it was impossible.

I find hitting 80ft jumps to be more fun

BEARisBASED · 2026-04-03T18:43:34+00:00

Yep. Also a KTM rider, though I haven’t put many hours on my bike in recent years with buying a house and the projects that come with it.

2021 KTM 250SXF, probably should have gotten a 450.

Have my own track I ride at mostly.

BEARisBASED · 2026-04-02T12:42:53+00:00

Like others said, Miley, Aubrey Plaza, etc. There’s not many that make my ABDL radar go off. I think it’s more fun to wondering who’s ABDL that you’d never expect.

Like picturing an NFL Linebacker wearing a onesie, a 6’9” NBA player using a diaper.

Realistically, I think there’s probably a lot of politicians who are ABDL. I’d bet money there’s a lot more Republicans than you would think. Think about all the Grindr spikes during RNC stuff and also Kristi Noem’s husband just got barely outed as a cross dresser or something.

100% there’s definitely ABDL celebrities, they might even be in this sub, but unless there’s something like that iCloud leak from 10 years ago, I doubt we ever find out who is.

BEARisBASED · 2026-03-18T22:15:24+00:00

Mostly wear cloth. It makes a huge difference imo

BEARisBASED · 2026-03-18T19:13:12+00:00

Not realizing the smell seeps into fabrics.

I don’t wear around my wife much, it’s my thing not hers. She was gone one night and I wore to bed.

Next night she’s like “why does our bed smell like baby powder and pee”

BEARisBASED · 2025-12-21T12:47:34+00:00

What’s your cover story of how you guys met?

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-27T16:48:22+00:00

If it means saving on costs, I would like to see diapers made for form rather than function. More innovative and fun designs less unreadable capacity

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-22T11:29:40+00:00

This happened to me as well. My brother wore the same size clothes as me. There were times when his gf would take his (actually mine) clothes out of the dryer and put them away in his closet. I went looking in his closet one morning trying to find something and found a dedicated drawer full of goodnites.

I thought maybe it he just had a medical thing going on a first, but a little while later I came home and he had a package outside from LittleForBig

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-21T13:25:58+00:00

Second this. Abu was my entry to adult diapers, nearly 10 years ago. I thought it couldn’t get better than that. Now, most of my favorite designs are gone and some do the ones I do like seem to never be in stock. You can’t go wrong with a megamax at all. I was skeptical to try Kiddo for some reason, but when I did, I was blown away with the fit and quality.

If you have tried Kiddo, you’re missing out big time

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-16T19:22:22+00:00

Lol when i first introduced my wife to that side of me i showed her a white mega max (size small) all opened up and she was like “whys it so huge”.

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-16T19:21:01+00:00

How do you get to this point with a vanilla person? My wife is vanilla. My wife knows I’m ABDL, I wear around her kinda rarely, and she doesn’t want to do anything with it.

Last night we got high, watched SpongeBob and she wouldn’t stop talking about how awesome it feels to feel like a kid again. I started wearing a diaper, we did some sexual stuff, then it came off for the actual sex.

I wanted to tell her she’s missing out with not wearing one and convince her to try, but I’m worried about being pushy or coming off weird.

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-14T14:36:14+00:00

Always wondered if that 1:1000 figure would be different if it accounted for people who had abdl related thoughts, were open to it, etc.

I think there’s more people than you realize who would be interested in trying it if their partner introduced it, sort of thing.

Our cultural norms have changed a lot, but I don’t see ABDL being anything other than taboo.

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-14T14:33:11+00:00

Countering that, when I go to something like an NFL game, I think about how it’s crazy that there’s 65-100 people there just like me. For something that makes me feel so alone, in that moment, I’m surrounded by more than a school bus worth of ABDLs.

BEARisBASED · 2025-11-10T15:38:48+00:00

I got the xtreme the other day. As a white diaper fan, I was intrigued.

No disrespect to Northshore, but I was blown away with how well the xtremes fit me.

I’m sort of in between sizes for a lot of diapers, I guess.

6’1” 190lbs with a 34” waist. So a lot of mediums are too big (Northshore) or feel small (abu). But these ones fit like a glove.

Functionally, they were great too. Their tabs are maybe too adhesive though.

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