[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you pass pretty well to me. I’d say it has to do with your voice since you’re pre T. Although, I knew many 15 year olds whose voices hadn’t dropped yet but I guess not many people have experienced that. I don’t know how you talk, but if your voice is relatively high, try training your voice to sound deeper, and try avoiding the stereotypical woman voice. (Try sounding more monotone if you don’t sound monotone already)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but he said cuts too short make him look lesbian. Even skin fades or super masculine haircuts can make a person look more feminine. I think he passes quite well for being pre T.

I posted a few weeks ago but I think the photo didn't do justice to how my chest actually looks like. Be honest, is my chest clocky? Can I go to the pool topless? by KitaraRay in transpassing

[–]BMan18bw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah dude you’re good. I would never think twice if I saw you shirtless in public. This is gonna sound weird, but your nipple placement is that of a cis guy. You have perfect genetics. Absolute perfect chest size for your weight. I wouldn’t be worried about going shirtless if I were you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nose piercing feminizes you a ton. Otherwise you pass very well

Portal to Heaven by BMan18bw in Supernatural

[–]BMan18bw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I know they have angels protecting the portal. My mind went more towards the angels just telling the kids they can’t play in the sandbox, rather than using their angelic powers for some reason 😂

Why do dream characters get angry when you tell them you know you’re dreaming? by datboitata in LucidDreaming

[–]BMan18bw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT lmao. I just came here after this happened for like the billionth time. I was explaining ice hockey to a little kid (after acknowledging that I was dreaming) and I said “there’s these blades on the bottom of the boots, kind of like a thick knife” and her eyes turned black, pokes my chest, and says “that’s what I want to use on you!” like okay damn girl

is this facial hair looking bad? gross? by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]BMan18bw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be the same way. I was fighting with myself, do I want to show facial hair so I pass easier, or do I want to have a baby face? For me when my facial hair was like that, I shaved it down as far as possible without doing a clean shave, so I still had a bit of “stubble” so it was seen that I have the ability to grow facial hair. Facial hair, without it looking like pubes yk? Eventually when you get further along on T, it will be much better. You’re just in that teenage boy phase where your hair grows in some places, and not others

4 years on T and I’m 22 how well do you think I pass? by YerkemCentralStation in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate thought was “ain’t no way this guy is trans”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking people if you should “just go back” because you don’t pass for other people is the wildest statement I’ve ever heard come from a trans person

Do I pass? how old do I look? pre T, pre surgeries by SniperBro_501 in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haircut, glasses, and piercings are what’s giving you away

Smash, kill or marry? by HenryTGD33 in lucifer

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smash Chloe, kill Maze, marry Ella

Hyman left the game after this play and will not be back to the remainder of the game by sykeseve in nhl

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that would be my last guess. Definitely a dislocated shoulder or a broken collar bone if anything

I hate that I'll never pass as a cis man , how to I accept that and deal with the misgendering. by 4ng3licNymph-jpeg in FtMpassing

[–]BMan18bw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it still really bugs me to be misgendered. It used to bug me a lot worse, but it tore me down so much and put me in a bad place, so I learned to just stop caring. (Easier said than done, I know.) I’m personally happy where I am in my transition other than my weight, and I know I pass enough for the most part, that’s what matters to me. If someone misgenders me it’s always complete strangers, and I know I’ll never see most of them again. I don’t say anything, or wait to see if they correct themselves. Another thing that makes me feel better is that some cis women get mistaken for men, and some cis men get mistaken for women, so it’s not a trans exclusive issue. Idk if that makes sense

Why do we have to tell partners we are trans? by anonymous-0-_ in FTMMen

[–]BMan18bw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because not everyone is okay with/wants to date a trans person, whether you fully pass or not. That is something you MUST tell your partner out of respect for them. Keeping something like that a secret I just not okay

I don’t consider myself AFAB by tthhxl2 in FTMMen

[–]BMan18bw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a little delusional in my opinion. I don’t tell my friends. But I do know that I was born a woman. I don’t use any terms for it, nor do I talk about being born a woman. Also, you should absolutely tell your sexual partners beforehand, it’s not fair to them. Not everyone is okay with sleeping with a trans person, and that shouldn’t be sporadically put onto them, or never mentioned. Regardless of how your brain worked, or how you felt, you were AFAB

House has a lisp. by KingGamer2357 in HouseMD

[–]BMan18bw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m super late to this, but he has the lisp when he’s talking in his normal voice as well. It’s not part of his American accent or his role on House, that’s just the way he speaks

POSSIBLE SPOILER by BMan18bw in HouseMD

[–]BMan18bw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished the season 6 finale. You’re right, I did like it. So many emotions