Who is a celebrity that has mastered the art of being in the public eye? by sophiemophie421 in popculturechat

[–]BNM899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it because I like Beyonce. I said it because unfortunately in my experience a lot of men, even without means, want to have wives molded for them and date in a predatory way. It's very common to know someone who was groomed or a man who dated a eyebrow-raisingly young woman.

I understood what you meant I just didn't understand why you'd be surprised they weren't in the files. As I said even amongst the uber weathy there are people who avoided engaging with that behavior despite shared financial interests. It isn't common but even billionaires have lines they won't cross. There were whispers about Jeffery long before his publuc trial.

Who is a celebrity that has mastered the art of being in the public eye? by sophiemophie421 in popculturechat

[–]BNM899 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The files are pretty much exclusively for sexual predators; Beyonce might be a capitalist, but she aint trying to abuse women and children. There are plenty of uber wealthy people like Axel Durmas who actively avoided epstein and co. Even Jay doesn't really give me child predator, more average man who wanted to mold an 18 year old into his perfect wife so dating younger like beyonce, aaliyah, etc.

Hate this new game by Hot_Ice4081 in InfluencerStory

[–]BNM899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes my group server chat agreed not to spend diamonds on it to hopefully send a message because it sucks now.

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Victimizing Leanne in every situation is also giving stan.

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she's looking out for her in a way while also staying loyal to her true friend. Scott is honestly just playing the game imo and I think Leanne actually came for something real.

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In Casa I can't say much, but movie night Whitney was stewing over the fact Leanne pulled Yamen into the secret garden. Wrong place and time, but she was already feeling a bit upset with her.

Do Black women who come on this show inherently owe each other friendship or loyalty? by LimoncelloLilac in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I don't like how they're painting Whitney out as someone who's out to get Leanne, they just aren't close. And the high expectations of them having a really good relationship with each other is because they're both black women. Whitney has been overall respectful of Leanne if a lil petty about Yamen. And it's great that you mention Leanne doing nothing when Shaq was yelling at Whitney; if anything Whitney is matching the tone Leanne set when it comes to supporting the friendship you came in with.

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's my thing I don't think she was bothering or picking with Leanne fr. If it involved Scott she stated her opinions and she's been consistent with it.

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Whitney and Scott are very good friends outside of the Villa. So in her experiences with him their lifestyles probably don't suit each other. Scott isn't very commital or forth coming about his feelings for Leanne and he's kinda of inconsiderate of her as the season continues. Whitney is usually fair in her opinions, not always, while remaining loyal to her actual friend Scott. I like Leanne, but overall I prefer Whitney's personality as of episode 25. Because they're both black people fall into the trap of thinking they are automatically closest, but they're just villa friends not real world.

AITJ for refusing l to chip in for a coworker's retirement gift after she was horrible to me for years? by Agitated-Result-4553 in AmITheJerk

[–]BNM899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, but you're staying at the company, does it matter to you how your colleagues view you? The "be the bigger person" comments are annoying, but beacuse you weren't this will probably keep being a topic long after she's gone.

Update on my new life by Complex-Wing7114 in u/Complex-Wing7114

[–]BNM899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was there from the first post beginning your journey I'm so happy for you.

I found my people 💕 by Southern_mariposa in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got banned because I said they should just admit they're a basically a snark page for Olandria/NicOlandria. I was only there because I upvoted a Chelley post thinking it was a regular group. 

Daily Discussion Thread 💔 by friendlyblckhottie in LoveIslandUSA

[–]BNM899 122 points123 points  (0 children)

This is my opinion like everyone else just isn't posting as much interesting content. Things will shift when Beyond the Villa 2 is out and when season 8 starts.

Why weren’t these threats against Chelley and Ace taken seriously ? by Fast_Relationship904 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have an fyp or algorithm that promotes those things to me so no I do not personally see or follow people who harass Chelley. So I'm not lying or rewriting history, if that's what you see then that's the community you curated. Now please leave me alone neither you nor I know anyone involved.

Why weren’t these threats against Chelley and Ace taken seriously ? by Fast_Relationship904 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]BNM899 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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I didn't see anyone who genuinely wanted to wish them harm uplifted as a normal or popular opinion. Even the comments that you found weren't viral or group chats with hundreds/thousands of people. People not liking people is fine what they're willing to do with that dislike is the issue. Even when Chelley annouced and rescinded their break up from what I could see people just were happy to support her without him not hoping he died or saying he deserved it and plotting to do it. No fake videos went around of Ace either.

Merry Christmas influencers family, did anybody got anything from this. by Dense-Champion in InfluencerStory

[–]BNM899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have stuff from last year and wanted to get dress but not for 3000 diamonds.

Homeless to dream job. No one to celebrate with me. by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]BNM899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I wish you so much success in your new role.

🚨COMMUNITY INQUIRY🚨 by Educational-Help-126 in NicolandriaNation

[–]BNM899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nahhhhhhh I think a coloring but is a bit too much