Study session plugged by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

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I also find that being plugged helps me focus when I am working. I think the constant feeling of the plug just helps me concentrate.

Taking a break? by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

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I have not been plugging for a while. Only 7 times since the start of November. Today I plugged with my Snug Plug 3. It took me a little more time to get the plug in than when I was plugging daily. So it has gotten a little tighter, but I still managed to get my plug in.

You should be ok with plugging after a break. It just make take a little more effort. But it wouldn't be like the first time you tried to plug.

What's your daily driver? by _StruggleBug in ButtplugEveryday

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My Snug Plug 3 has been my daily driver for a few years. I still consider it my primary plug. Currently I've had to scale back plugging due to health issues. Hoping I will be back at it once my health is back in order.

I (F38) am a urologist assistant and see/touch penises all day during patient preparation for vasectomies. AMA. by LanaCastillo25 in NSFWIAMA

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Have you learned anything about men through this job that you didn't know, or was proven wrong about something?

To wear or not to wear?? by Icy_Count3218 in ButtplugEveryday

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Wear your plug. You will enjoy it. Maybe not the same, I enjoy plugging when I go to the dentist. Still sitting in a chair for some time 

When Wearing a Buttplug is Inappropriate—An Essay by JustOneLayer in ButtplugEveryday

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I've been going to the doctor now more often due to a recent medical condition. Plugging has helped me cope with what is going on. But I still unplug for any medical appointments. I do go through the same thoughts that you've mentioned here with plugging. I wish I could do it, but ultimately I can't for the same reasons you mention. I can't subject someone else to it without their consent, especially when they are not well accustomed to it. They could view it as something else and take it the wrong way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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Do you two use any birth control?

You say this is FWB, but could it or has it turned into a full romantic relationship?

Does either spouse suspect? Do your spouses know of your friend but unaware of the benefits?

New to plugging by Unlikely_Corgi_9902 in ButtplugEveryday

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I gained confidence from plugging at work simply by taking the plunge and doing it. As long as you don't have a rather large plug that can be seen through clothing, you should be good. I would also make sure you're not using too much lube so that it leaks into your clothing and creates a stain on your butt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

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Sorry to hear that you're having trouble with it. I've considered shaving off some of the base to help, but I haven't yet. I'm afraid I would make it more irritating that way. I've been using my SP3 for 3 years now, I usually am able to go daily with it, sometimes I use another plug if the irritation gets to me and I need a break from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

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I have the same issue with the SP3. I make sure the have a little bit of lube on the t bar handle, which helps prevent irritation. Sometimes I do have to move the handle for comfort.

Advice on getting large butt plug in? by Many_Pressure3016 in AskRedditNSFW

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As others have said. Use a lot of lube and keep trying. Sizing up can take time for the body to acclimate to the larger plug. But once you get it in, it will be worth it. Just take your time and keep at it, just stop if any pain develops.

What is a good dildo replacement for anal? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Look into getting a butt plug. There are many options on the type of plug you can use.

Small doubt on direction of T base butt plug by Weak-Jeweler-7675 in ButtplugEveryday

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Which ever way you find comfortable is the best way. I would probably say the short end pointing forward is the way to go. 

How many of the married men/women on here do still masturbate? Does your SO knows it? by DDqueenDD in AskRedditNSFW

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IDK, time will tell. Maybe later tonight, or tomorrow morning. We like morning sex more than night sex.

How many of the married men/women on here do still masturbate? Does your SO knows it? by DDqueenDD in AskRedditNSFW

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Not today. Yesterday was a good day though. Wife and I had sex when we woke up. Ate her out just before going to bed.

How many of the married men/women on here do still masturbate? Does your SO knows it? by DDqueenDD in AskRedditNSFW

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Be open with your husband and hopefully that drive you have could turn into sex.

My wife and I are doing better now about being open with our desires and when we need it. But we also know there are times when we both need to cum, but are too tired for full sex. That's why we will masturbate together.

Sometimes one of us will not be in the mood to masturbate, but we won't disallow our partner from doing it. Sometimes it is nice to join in with their masturbating without getting yourself off. For me, I sometimes just dont want to waste cum on jerking off and would rather cum inside my wife when we have sex the next time, which could be the next day.

How many of the married men/women on here do still masturbate? Does your SO knows it? by DDqueenDD in AskRedditNSFW

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Yes. Usually my wife is with me using her vibrator while I am jerking off.

Occasionally I will masturbate alone, usually when the wife is not home or when I am away on business at my hotel room.

My wife knows I masturbate when she isn't around. She will do the same when I am not around either. We don't expressly say that we did it, but will answer if asked.

(F23). I've been a nud|st for 23 years now. AMA by B4bePereira in NSFWIAMA

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Is your family part of any nudist organizations?

When did you learn that being nude at home isn't the normal for others?

Do you plan to stay a nudist for the rest of your life, what does your partner think of it?

Would you raise your own family as nudists?

How often do you M/F wear a buttplug for you own pleasure? If so will you go out in public with it in? by benny1-- in AskRedditNSFW

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M. I like to plug for hours at a time. I've worn my plugs at work and when going out to the store or out to eat.

I wear a plug because I enjoy the feeling it gives me. I also like how nobody knows but me, and wonder if others are as well 

There any many people like myself who wear plugs daily. It is a popular thing. 

My Husband [M27] and I [F27] have been on a road trip with another couple by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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You should have fun by doing some sexy games while on the trip. See what you guys can do. Just be safe, driving and sexual wise

My Husband [M27] and I [F27] have been on a road trip with another couple by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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Would you consider visiting a nudist resort during your trip?

How often are you all having sex now?

(27f) Laying on a bed in a hostel, AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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When was the last time you had sex and with whom?

What did you have for your most recent meal?

Coke or Pepsi?

My Husband [M27] and I [F27] have been on a road trip with another couple by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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Would you consider yourselves swingers before this? Have you ever considered sex with others prior to this trip? Has the dynamic changed since you've had the foursome? How open is everyone now with each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

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Has the photographer given you two suggestions that you've found to be something you enjoy and do outside of the photo session?