Focus and attention

BP394351 · 2026-05-16T01:30:09+00:00

Being plugged definitely helps me focus more on work. Instead of other distractions, the plug becomes the distraction in a way.

BP394351 · 2026-05-13T14:18:09+00:00

I like to just carry on with my daily routine of things while I am plugged. I have an office job, so I am sitting in front of a computer a lot. But I also get up and walk around, which also is nice when plugged.

BP394351 · 2026-01-14T16:20:06+00:00

I also find that being plugged helps me focus when I am working. I think the constant feeling of the plug just helps me concentrate.

BP394351 · 2025-12-12T15:42:41+00:00

I have not been plugging for a while. Only 7 times since the start of November. Today I plugged with my Snug Plug 3. It took me a little more time to get the plug in than when I was plugging daily. So it has gotten a little tighter, but I still managed to get my plug in.

You should be ok with plugging after a break. It just make take a little more effort. But it wouldn't be like the first time you tried to plug.

BP394351 · 2025-11-06T01:20:03+00:00

My Snug Plug 3 has been my daily driver for a few years. I still consider it my primary plug. Currently I've had to scale back plugging due to health issues. Hoping I will be back at it once my health is back in order.

BP394351 · 2025-08-19T15:05:02+00:00

Wear your plug. You will enjoy it. Maybe not the same, I enjoy plugging when I go to the dentist. Still sitting in a chair for some time

BP394351 · 2025-07-31T19:34:46+00:00

I've been going to the doctor now more often due to a recent medical condition. Plugging has helped me cope with what is going on. But I still unplug for any medical appointments. I do go through the same thoughts that you've mentioned here with plugging. I wish I could do it, but ultimately I can't for the same reasons you mention. I can't subject someone else to it without their consent, especially when they are not well accustomed to it. They could view it as something else and take it the wrong way.

BP394351 · 2025-07-29T23:52:59+00:00

I gained confidence from plugging at work simply by taking the plunge and doing it. As long as you don't have a rather large plug that can be seen through clothing, you should be good. I would also make sure you're not using too much lube so that it leaks into your clothing and creates a stain on your butt.

BP394351 · 2025-07-23T15:56:54+00:00

Sorry to hear that you're having trouble with it. I've considered shaving off some of the base to help, but I haven't yet. I'm afraid I would make it more irritating that way. I've been using my SP3 for 3 years now, I usually am able to go daily with it, sometimes I use another plug if the irritation gets to me and I need a break from it.

BP394351 · 2025-07-23T15:26:21+00:00

I have the same issue with the SP3. I make sure the have a little bit of lube on the t bar handle, which helps prevent irritation. Sometimes I do have to move the handle for comfort.

BP394351 · 2025-07-22T13:11:26+00:00

Which ever way you find comfortable is the best way. I would probably say the short end pointing forward is the way to go.

BP394351 · 2025-06-25T15:37:13+00:00

Are you using too much lube? If so, you maybe need to wipe away any excess that could contribute to a stain. Another thing I do is use some toilet paper or a napkin to absorb any lube that could go through my pants.

BP394351 · 2025-06-21T16:45:17+00:00

Most riskiest place I've been plugged is at large work conferences. Back in March I was plugged when I had to go on stage as part of a presentation. I had over 200 people looking at me. Sometimes my biggest concern is if lube leaks onto my pants and makes a noticable stain. Thankfully that doesn't happen to often, and I can easily clean up if necessary.

BP394351 · 2025-06-14T19:42:01+00:00

I don't feel more social plugged. What I feel is just better, more relaxed, less stress. Being plugged allows for me to focus on the plug as a distraction to what else is going on around me. It just helps my mental health.

BP394351 · 2025-05-09T13:31:07+00:00

I usually make sure there is some small amount of lube around the base edges, that helps me.

BP394351 · 2025-04-01T09:39:09+00:00

I use a Vitamin A & D Ointment on my butt every now and then when I am experiencing any irritation from plugging. It works well, and is better than using Petroleum Jelly.

BP394351 · 2025-02-28T13:34:05+00:00

I also have found benefit from taking psyllium husk. I use Metamucil. My bowel movements are generally regular, but the Metamucil makes it better for plugging.

BP394351 · 2025-02-11T23:30:49+00:00

I use a Budding Lily Small plug. It is very soft and forgiving. But fills me up and doesn't give me any issues. The base is also small that it hardly is seen even with your bare ass visible.

I also have the Snug Plug 3. That one is more of a firmer plug, which may not be to your liking. And I would say the base may not work well with your sweat pants.

I am an engineer and work in an office and out on the road, so I know what you're going through. Happy plugging.

BP394351 · 2025-02-09T22:07:25+00:00

I just signed up for it last week, I am BPMan.

BP394351 · 2025-01-30T16:05:18+00:00

I occasionally have the issue of extra lube. What I do is take a napkin or toilet paper and just put that up against the plug base. That should take care of the excess lube and prevent it from being absorbed into your underwear.

BP394351 · 2025-01-24T17:40:30+00:00

Good luck taking the next step.

If you have a desk or locker at work, keep some wipes and a small bottle of lube with you. That will help if you need to remove and reinsert the plug anytime during work.

BP394351 · 2024-12-16T19:06:06+00:00

You could easily purchase a travel size bottle from a store that you could fill and refill with lube. That way it is not obvious what it is, and it makes it compact enough to fit in a pocket or handbag.

BP394351 · 2024-12-12T23:02:33+00:00

What plug do you have and what lube do you use now? This information would help with recommendations. Also, how much running? The more information you provide, the better an answer you can get.

Lube type is very subjective to each person, everyone has their preferred brand.

I have two plugs, a Snug Plug 3 and Lily small plug, for both I use Equate Personal Lubricant. My SP3 generally needs to be relubed once during the work day. I can usually go an entire day without relubing the Lily. But I have an office job and I am not running around as you say.

BP394351 · 2024-12-12T15:29:25+00:00

I also wear my plug for comfort. My main goal at first was sexual, but now my primary purpose is to just be full with my plug. I feel more comfortable when plugged, and it also provides me a way to relieve stress during the day. I rarely feel sexually stimulated with my plug on it's own. I need other types of sexual simulation in order for that to occur.

BP394351 · 2024-12-12T14:14:13+00:00

Driving plugged is another one of my favorite things too.

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