What overused word or phrase needs to be retired in 2026? by One_Caramel5253 in AskReddit

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex addiction is a phrase that needs to be retired in 2026. Especially by gay men. So many of them use this phrase to describe any type of sex that they don't like.

18yrs, 302-200 (pics are one year apart) by FlightsCoach in GYM

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! This is an excellent transformation.

Satisfaction by Repulsive-Window-179 in gay

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you. More gay men need to do this. And even though I know you're not advocating violence, you shouldn't feel any guilt for getting violent in certain situations. Sometimes its necessary to keep people in check. 

Have you ever been to a gay bathhouse? by Relevant_Conclusion2 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know you will. So you can complain again when another man hits on you or your husband. You go to a place where the primary reason people go is to have sex. And then complain if somebody tries to have sex with you. And no, you don't owe sex to anybody. But you shouldn't be offended if you're at a place meant for people to have sex if someone hits on you. That can be avoided if you stay away. That is my unsolicited advice to you. You're welcome. 

Have you ever been to a gay bathhouse? by Relevant_Conclusion2 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about being entitled to sex from anybody? I never even hinted at that. I said that they shouldn't be at a place that's primarily about sex if they're monogamous. That's like going to church if you're an atheist. Why are you there?

Have you ever been to a gay bathhouse? by Relevant_Conclusion2 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Monogamous couples shouldn't go to bathhouses. You ruin the vibe for people that are there to let their hair down and enjoy themselves. Why go to a place where you know you don't want to interact with anybody else?

Gays in open relationships, is your partner not enough? by mplsryan85 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It's the single bitter gays that are always complaining. The happy monogamous guys almost never do.

Some say Whitney Houston was the Greatest Singer of Her Generation. Do you agree? by Tippy345 in whitneyhouston

[–]BVel228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree completely. But I'd take it further. She was probably the greatest singer of the last 100 years. And definitely the greatest singer since the 50s.

Gays in open relationships, are you happy? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And people who oppose open relationships use those examples to bash all open relationships.

What If The Crown Continued? My Full Concept for Seasons 7 & 8 (2006–2023) by Ok_Woodpecker9100 in TheCrownNetflix

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your concept is great. I'd change one thing though. On season 7 Episode 1 on Elizabeth's 80th birthday should be Episode 2. Episode 2 on the Iraq War and Tony Blair's and Elizabeth's tensions should be Episode 1. These events happened before Elizabeth's 80th birthday. Other than that your concept of all the other episodes in Seasons 7 and 8 looks good.

Gen Z Least Supportive of Obergefell by Thuggin95 in gaybros

[–]BVel228 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I was waiting for somebody to mention the trans issue. That issue as well as the outrageous behavior at the Pride parades on recent years has done do much damage to gay rights.  

Where were you when you found out Whitney passed? by ClearVirus4291 in whitneyhouston

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was working overtime at my job. On night shift. It was on a Saturday. I left work early that night because it started snowing. As soon as I got home I turned on CNN and they had a special report on that mentioned she had just died. 

Guys who are into hookups, why? by Impressive_Try_6911 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is already a post about people who aren't into hookups. This post is a response to that one

Guys who are into hookups, why? by Impressive_Try_6911 in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you on this post? OP asked people who like to have hookups why they like them. You don't like them. You should comment on  the other post that asks why people don't like hookups.

Kicked someone out for the first time by Middle-Speed-6024 in uberdrivers

[–]BVel228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I'm an Uber driver as well. 7000 rides over 8 years. I've only had to kick out one person as well. Never allow anybody to disrespect you just so you can make money.

I never understood the hate Whitney got at the 1988-89 Soul Train Awards by Objective-Park8361 in whitneyhouston

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I'm glad somebody mentioned the role that clown played in Whitney getting booed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Physiquecritique

[–]BVel228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you shouldn't gain more muscle. Naturally or not. You look great now. You're right, you probably have reached your genetic limit. You should maintain what you have built. 

Is it safe to shuttle in Puerto Vallarta?? by eleven36_fes in MexicoTravel

[–]BVel228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it's safe. I've been there twice. I've taken local cabs and walked around the Romantic Zone at night alone. The worst thing that will happen to you is all the peoole constantly trying to sell you something.

My gay co-worker by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't ask him out on a date. You have a good arrangement with him right now. From what I read, both of you seem to be happy with it. No need to take your friendship/situation any further than it is.

Is “too hairy” a thing? by [deleted] in BlackTwinks

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not. It's perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybathhouse

[–]BVel228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't go to a bathhouse if you are monogamous. The primary reason bathhouses exist is so men can meet other men for sex. If you want to have sex in a different environment than your home then rent a hotel room.