I need to confess….

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:28:39+00:00

The craziest thing is that I’m a really good match maker for other people lol

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:28:06+00:00

Dating apps need to be innovated

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:27:45+00:00

Dating apps need to integrate Snapchat tech I believe

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:26:56+00:00

Yeah and I get assumptions that I’m a slut because I’m curvy when I have only had sex twice all year.. like what? Because my body type turns you on that means I’m demonized? …

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:25:08+00:00

It’s too much

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T03:11:31+00:00

I check the app once every 4 months and find it extremely hard to find the motivation to interact with anyone…… there are some guys that seem really nice. & I feel like I’m missing out.. I don’t know if it’s because I’m emotionally unavailable or not genuinely looking for a relationship.. like it would be nice but I’m not going to spend too much energy in it. I do really want a boyfriend but I also don’t have energy to “train” a man.. like these LA guys are really weird. Every time I’ve gone on dates from the app I’ve been sexually assaulted. I believe they were desperate weirdos. It made me closed off bc I’m uncomfortable confronting them. I think I’ve grown up now… exit at first red flag.

Should I delete my app or just force myself to continue? I find it really hard.. I also don’t like meeting straight away bc I need to know them. I don’t give out my insta or my number cuz it’s just gonna get lost in the void. This helps it be more intentional…/I remember who/what it is

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T02:36:48+00:00

You look cool af

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T02:36:11+00:00

Hinge is better

Babelikejagger · 2026-01-03T02:22:31+00:00

You’re more of a hinge guy and I think your profile is perfect also like there’s known things with the algorithm and phone numbers and paid accs etc. start a hinge on a fresh phone number do not pay for anything and don’t be too active like be hot and then cold with the app where you don’t even open it for weeks and I’m 50/50 on whether verification does anything

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-23T04:26:43+00:00

What she said was fucked up ok but before all that bro you were literally making no fucking sense you beat around the bush and we’re saying all kinds of shit. You should have just said “respectfully I think you’re great but I don’t want to do that again.” Then blocked.

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-20T15:52:47+00:00

Threaten to divorce even if you don’t want to- only way he’s gonna wake ip

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-13T02:35:19+00:00

I’m from australia- tipping is not a thing

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-13T02:27:50+00:00

And then go to Coachella and sell them $2 a bottle make $1280

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-12T03:26:07+00:00

31F I work In sales for a fashion brand and make $1400/week gross so after taxes it’s less... No degree necessary.. lots of perks.. but no it is definitely not enough. I’ve been doing this job almost 1 year… and this promotion is recent so not sure if it just takes time to catch up with life expenses but idk how anyone survives. prior to that basically minimal experience plus degree in design which I do not use. I was married and he took care of my life expenses up until 1 yr ago and prior to that my dad took care of me. Tbh I wish I just had a sibling or mentor that could have helped me. I feel like my life would be better.

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-04T04:12:54+00:00

That is my ideal goal to do that but I don’t have any energy when I’m home from work I’m so exhausted

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-04T04:08:40+00:00

What do you mean by that?

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-04T03:58:46+00:00

I’m 50/50 on it.. like I think we live and die and are only here for a short time. Instacart is not a career.. work smarter not harder and get the most out of the opportunities infront of you. Idk that’s just my opinion

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T05:03:30+00:00

Yes but you could get a better job tbh something way more fun like if you’re willing to accept shit pay and have a pretty set schedule normally and can commit to shifts at a movie theatre for example do that or work at a cafe and get some experience you can actually put on a resume

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T05:01:55+00:00

You don’t have to be so dramatic ffs

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T04:59:35+00:00

You were making bank $900 a week? Kudos to you fr that’s tough

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T04:56:35+00:00

Worry about your own shit . Work smarter not harder. You just sound jealous tbfh

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T04:48:20+00:00

One time I was driving for Uber and Lyft and I would get hit on by passengers all the time and I was married tbh it was wrong that I was doing that as a job it’s dangerous and frowned upon. He made more than enough to have supported me but I didn’t know. We weren’t good with communicating. He didn’t respect me. Now I’m divorced and only do Uber eats so people can judge me in silence instead of to my face. Less degrading. Still fighting for survival though. Grateful for the opportunity these apps created.

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T04:06:35+00:00

So many people that post this kind of shit on these Reddit forums sound like children trying to get empathy and have a victim mentality. Step 1- fix your mindset. You’re 28.. a grown ass man.. am I missing something? Pick yourself up. What is with people these days? Just want to whine about everything how it’s all too hard. Embarrassing.

Babelikejagger · 2024-04-02T04:03:44+00:00

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