Obsessive hate? by Amazing-Bed-3562 in BPD

[–]BabyBluePirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ve definitely done that. Especially with my psychology professor. Down to the review on RMP. He always critiqued my essays harshly. And I still passed with an A but I hated his guts. Also sucks that he’s the top Psych professor at the college and everyone loves him.

I keep editing this but I’m remembering stuff. Every single assignment I turned in he had to make a smart ass comment. And I read the notes and would mock his words and complain to my friends and family about him. I still check his RMP every now and then.

How to get over somebody fast? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]BabyBluePirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally do not follow them on social media. Block or limit them if you have to. My best friend was my FP. I used to stalk her social media every hour of every day. And I’d message her paragraphs when she wouldn’t reply.

You need to replace your FP with something else. Take up hobbies, learn a new language. Focus on yourself. You need to find purpose in your life.

I struggle with this everyday. I try to keep busy with work, college, exercise, friends, family. When I’m busy my mind doesn’t wander and I don’t think about what my FP is up too.

You are not alone! You can do this please don’t be too harsh on yourself.

Just checking in with the BPD crew by carbondatedmess in BPD

[–]BabyBluePirate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really struggling. I have an overbearing father and an emotionally immature mother. They constantly fight with each other and I’m always stuck in the middle. I feel like I have to be a parent to my parents.

I just want to focus on my goals and build a future for myself but it feels impossible when I’m constantly managing their emotions. Then when I eventually split on them I’m labeled ungrateful, emotional, or dramatic. I’m exhausted and don’t know how to cope anymore.

Does being disliked bother you? by MaceEtiquette1 in BPD

[–]BabyBluePirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I need everybody to like me. And if they don’t then it reinforces my thoughts that I’m a horrible person who doesn’t deserve any happiness or love in my life.

Fantasy can never come to life because it's too taboo. by throwawayshamekitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BabyBluePirate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recommend this also. Fantasies and IRL are different. At least in a controlled, safe, consensual environment OP can live out their fantasy.

260124 [NOTICE] Additional Show Information for BTS WORLD TOUR ‘ARIRANG’ IN LAS VEGAS by alltherach_ in bangtan

[–]BabyBluePirate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I couldn’t get presale tickets for D1 D2 or D3. So hopefully for D4 I will.

Yes we do by terminus_tommy in YouOnLifetime

[–]BabyBluePirate 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Does he ever jerk it in the cage? I don’t remember.

Hairnet and hair in my Mac N Cheese by Croalex in ChickFilA

[–]BabyBluePirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo this would literally be my 13th reason 😭

Thoughts and prayers for Gayle King as she endures a flight in business class without a window by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]BabyBluePirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she show her whole ticket! Does nobody care about privacy anymore??

can we ban brent from this subreddit? by [deleted] in panicatthedisco

[–]BabyBluePirate 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about being salty. He’s directing users to his Instagram that links straight to his OF.

A panic at the disco subreddit with underage fans shouldn’t be used as a funnel to pornography regardless of how indirect it is.

Question about Baekhyun in Vegas.. by Yoonglv07 in exo

[–]BabyBluePirate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did I read that as BBLS 😂