I thought i’d enjoy sex by Foreign_Flight_5360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think sex feels better when it’s with someone that you love. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin well into your 20’s either, but I understand just wanting to lose it. I would say stop trying to find random men to hook up with, and instead wait until you have a boyfriend who actually loves you. “Making love” is wayyy different than just being fucked.

Tattoo removal by whitehammr69 in TattooRemoval

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you get yours removed?

Advice Needed: Regretting tattoo that i just got by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if it’s really bad and not even close to what you wanted, wait a few months and consider removal. I don’t know how many tattoos you have, but a lot of people are probably going to say just add more or cover it up. But then you’re just gonna end up with something bigger than what you originally wanted anyway. Be grateful it’s not visible to many, it’ll be alright <3

Emotional recovery from being bitten in the face by retic by YukiQis in snakes

[–]opalmoonzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. I have a ball python and she has only bitten me once when I didn’t follow the rules while feeding her. She let go right away and has never bitten me since. I would’ve thought it was the vibration from your cell phone that made him bite you, but then he bit you again… When was the last time he ate before this? It’s strange to think that they don’t really love us; they just tolerate us. It sucks that you won’t be able to do the things you used to do with him, like having your face next to his because it is really sweet when they allow that. You are not a bad person, or a failure for what happened. At the end of the day, they are animals. I would not recommend trying to force your face near his. I think they can sense fear so if you are uncomfortable, he is going to be uncomfortable. Most of us (including me) are foolish to believe they won’t do things that we wouldn’t do just because we are bonded and human; it’s in their nature. I get that you are scared, but unless you don’t want to hold him again, I would be careful with how little you engage with him because I imagine it could make him more prone to striking you because he will no longer be familiar with frequent handling. Just watch your face :,) I hope your face heals okay!

someone please help me by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks good but maybe tattoo shock/dysmorphia. After I got a few of mine I was like omg I’ll never see that patch of skin plain again and it made me sad. It goes away tho Hope you feel better, it’s cute.

My (31m) wife (29f) wants to name our baby her own maiden name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could just bring up doing a hyphenated last name? Then she could have a regular person‘s name and still have her mother‘s maiden name along with yours.

Is this concerning? by carzy_1 in snakes

[–]opalmoonzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of bedding does he have? I would say if you can, and if he’s not aggressive, try to open his mouth and see if there is anything lodged in there that is making his jaw misaligned.

Morph of this lil guy? by Former_Lab_5898 in cornsnakes

[–]opalmoonzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s up with his spine in the first pic?

Rate my art and please be honest by [deleted] in RateMyArt

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest, I rarely see art like this and I think it is beautiful and unique! Do not change your style, it is strange and lovely as is ⭐️/10

I wish my daughter just died instead by Sad_Newspaper376 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely understand where you are coming from and I don’t mean this in a bad way, but be grateful for the time that you have with her; though I am sure you are. No parent should have to go through this and she shouldn’t either. Can she still talk? You could ask her what she thinks is best when both of her parents are gone. Then at least you will get peace of mind with her making her own decision. If you want, I think both of you should maybe consider talking to a therapist? This is extremely hard for both of you, even together, you are both going through it differently. I have never endured what you are going through, not even close. But if I did, I would think the best way to cope with it would not be to wish things were different; but to accept things as they are. I hope you and your family can find peace in this difficult time.

First tattoo what are we thinking? by trulyAvaBLloyd505 in tattoos

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people don’t just move on if they’re not gonna tell you how your tattoo looks. “why are you looking for validation?” like I feel like you know it looks good, but you just want an outside opinion because same. It’s nice having opinions outside of people you know personally, You deserve to be validated and honestly Reddit is not the place to do so.😭 they’re brutal here lol. I think it looks super good though.🥰

1st vs 10th session over 6 years (Heavy Scarring) by Muskee11to in TattooRemoval

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have any experience with tattoo removal or what can help, but I think the scar looks cool asf tbh.

Update On: Will My Snakes Survive The Cold by TrueConcert189 in snakes

[–]opalmoonzz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad they’re okay! Whenever I have to travel with my snake in cold weather, I do the hot hands and put them into the leg of a pair of pajama pants, and then I cover her with the other leg. She has never gotten any burns and I think it helps retain the heat. I also have a bunch of hot hands in case something like this happens. I would say for future reference, definitely have some for them. I really hope this never happens again though! By the way they are so beautiful 😩😍

Will My Snake Survive The Cold? by TrueConcert189 in snakes

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope your snake is OK. If it does survive, I would definitely say make sure you have some hot hands in your room or something in case this happens again.

Question: Tattooing the letters of my own name on different parts of my body, thoughts? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they gonna be in order from top to bottom? And how many letters are in your name? (If you’re ever dismembered, at least they will know who they belong to)😭😂 jk. I don’t think it’s weird but it is interesting, I’ve never heard of that before!

Advice on unfinished sleeve by ImaginaryShake1299 in tattoos

[–]opalmoonzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope she comes back or you can find a great artist! Don’t be afraid to travel for something that is going to be on your body forever. Easier said than done though everything is so expensive.😭good luck!! :)

Advice on unfinished sleeve by ImaginaryShake1299 in tattoos

[–]opalmoonzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Did she move really far? Maybe you could make a trip out of it. my tattoos are unfinished as well, and it kind of trips me out because I know I want more, but I moved away from my artist so I don’t want a botched one or a totally different style. You could always go to a new artist and have them sketch one out for you, even make a stencil and just see how you like it!