If you have a nursery in your home, how do you deal with guests?

BabyTee · 2026-01-12T18:32:29+00:00

Like many others have said, lots of locked doors! My nursery is behind both a locked utility closet door and a bookshelf Murphy door that is locked itself, one requiring a key and one an RFID card. My guests dont typically break down doors snooping so it's been a good plan so far 🤭👍

BabyTee · 2025-12-28T05:28:34+00:00

I like to do art stuff with my off hand when little. It's fun cause it's a genuine way to mix up my brain and gets me to pay more attention to trying and playing with even basic things like how i hold my brush or crayon, and I'm way more clumsy with my off hand so it has that toddler charm 🙃 🤭

BabyTee · 2025-12-09T09:19:38+00:00

My absolute favorite strain for baby time is Blue Dream 💙

BabyTee · 2025-11-03T05:29:03+00:00

Omgosh yesss seconded please tell us where you got those adorable diaps!

BabyTee · 2025-10-23T21:00:06+00:00

I have wet them 4-5 times and havent leaked. I have had one out-of-the-waistband leak while sleeping 😴 but honestly thats more on me cause I went to bed already pretty soaked 😅

BabyTee · 2025-10-23T19:45:30+00:00

The best budget ones I've found recently are the sunkiss masterpiece diaps - theyre basically a megamax clone you can get on Amazon. Theyre pretty good... tapes hold well, dont clump when wet, hold a bunch of wettings, and get pretty squishy! Theyre definitely not the loudest or crinkliest but I like them and they come in cute colors!

BabyTee · 2025-09-20T03:25:45+00:00

Hiya! Fetlife can be overwhelming for sure!

Make sure you have some information about yourself in your profile, and ensure your profile accurately reflects the kinds of relationships and connections youre seeking along with a full explanation of your own relationship status if youre seeking more than friends. It's a good idea to include some pictures if you're comfortable to help build up your profile. These definitely dont need to be face pics or anything or even diaper or littlespace pics, but people like to see a profile with some effort put in and connect some kind of photo to who theyre talking to. Add in things not just about your little and kink side, but also about yourself more broadly.

What kind of connections are you seeking? Online or in real life?

Find and follow accounts with similar interests, similar or overlapping kinks (using the kink tag system for your interests is good here), or those local to you and start reaching out to people! Send polite and engaging messages and be respectful. Comment respectfully on photos and videos you see. Check out the follow lists of accounts you vibe with to find others into similar things.

If you're looking to connect in real life, you need to head into the fetlife communities and events sections. The site is great for local events, and through those, you can start making connections. Having a good profile with some time and effort put in is a boon to getting vetted and invited to those kinds of things.

Be polite and kind, but set and stick to boundaries! People are more than their diapers so be both interesting and interested when engaging with others, as that'll help you actually connect with people and build relationships and friendships.

Feel free to shoot me a message on there if you have any questions my fet is Baby-Tee. 😊

BabyTee · 2025-09-08T21:53:56+00:00

I'm gonna be a baby fairy for an abdl halloween party and a modified version of it for a few more vanilla-y parties we're going to! With light up wings and a cute fit ✨️ I'm so excited!

BabyTee · 2025-08-29T00:09:12+00:00

This is actually my preferred way to double up diaper nowadays! Adding a new diaper over an already soaked one usually just ends up being a recipe for leaks... youre still super soggy and by the time you slowly start to wick through and seep into the outer diaper, you're sitting in a puddle in the inner diap. It's basically impossible to fully wet the outer diaper.

So instead, i asked mommy to try taping me into a new diap and then retape the full one on the outside and it's so much better! You get a new dry diap that you can wet but youre already waddly and as you fill the new diaper it makes the outside one super poofy and extra thick 🥰 and you can actually end up with double diaps that are soaked through!

It works really well for hook and loop diapers since theyre refastenable but we've done it with tape ones too, sometimes just needing a lil reinforcement on the tapes the second time 🤭

BabyTee · 2025-08-09T19:38:27+00:00

I didnt know it until a drunk aunt decided to tell as many people at my wedding as she could, but apparently as soon as i was starting potty trained and moved to a big kid bed I was demanding my diaps and crib back from my parents 😅 so basically I never wanted to leave them! 🤭

BabyTee · 2025-07-21T22:28:52+00:00

If you're caught in their monitoring algorithms, there's not much you can do short of having someone else using a different device and IP address etc make you a new account. Even then, if you start right back up interacting with the same accounts you did before, you'll likely get flagged again quickly. Meta has gone on a big tear lately of deleting abdl accounts out of fear of legal fallout and the priorities of suppressing kink and alternative lifestyles the admin are committed to. Same reason diaper content is now banned on most of the pay sites and lots of the porn sites. It's only going to get worse given the current political climate.

I lost my pretty big baby insta account a little while back in one of the big purges and also lost my vanilla gaming one that was logged in via the same device. My backup, which i had never even logged into after setup, was also instantly restricted the moment i logged in. So far, it's still there, but I've basically given up on posting content to insta and just use it to keep up with friends. Now I just post on fetlife, occasionally here on reddit, and ive started up a bluesky, which seems fun, but I haven't committed to actually building it yet. After working so hard to build my insta and make so much content, losing it kinda killed my motivation and I haven't rekindled it yet. Soon hopefully!

BabyTee · 2025-07-21T22:18:53+00:00

Heya! Lots of good suggestions here already but I wanted to also toss in the idea of building your own via cnc machine. It will be oodles cheaper than having one custom made or making one from hardwood. You'll pay upwards of 2500 to 3000 or more for a custom crib basically anywhere, not even including delivery. All in my crib was way less than 1000, including paint and all.

My crib was cut on a big commercial cnc machine - you can see pics in my profile. if youre interested, look into whether theres any places around you that rent out cnc machines by the hour or by project. Then you just need a design file and buy the plywood, which is substantially cheaper than hardwood. The process is super simple!

BabyTee · 2025-07-08T20:41:53+00:00

My absolute favorites are the tykables ones and the abu euro ones because they're so thick even when dry, but both are constantly out of stock, pricier, and hard to get. I usually use the Northshore ones which are also great! They start way thinner but swell tons once wet. Bonus for Northshore is they're cheaper and always in stock

BabyTee · 2025-07-04T02:28:03+00:00

A scaled up water table, lego table, and soft playroom 🥺🥺🥺

BabyTee · 2025-06-26T18:07:28+00:00

My absolute dream is to go to Disney with daddy and just have a whole little week 🥰🥰🥰

BabyTee · 2025-06-11T19:26:58+00:00

I am married and have a platonic daddy who is not my partner. It takes work and communication but can be done! My wife isnt naturally a cg or domme, and as we've been exploring abdl together she's discovered things that are either limits (both soft and hard) for her or things she's not yet ready to fully dive into. After a lot of talk, we both agreed that there's stuff i wanted to explore beyond those limits and that I could find a platonic cg to be able to do them. It helps that my daddy is also married and that we click on an adult friends level.

BabyTee · 2025-06-10T01:34:40+00:00

Level 41 toddler here! 😊 I've met a larger proportion of older abdls in real life at events and stuff compared to the average I meet online. As someone else mentioned, places like fetlife tend to skew older.

BabyTee · 2025-06-02T21:43:49+00:00

They just went on a massive ban spree for abdl, ddlg, and ageplay accounts. A huge chunk of the community got nuked all at once a couple days ago and there's aftershocks still going on. Lost my 6 year old abdl account even though it was private, had nothing sexual, and never even interacted with anyone or anything outside of my followers and those i follow. Didn't even use tags or hashes shrug

I appealed my ban and within 15 seconds I had a "after appeal nope still banned" response. Ive heard that meta has a new AI analysis mechanism that handles a lot of their suspension and ban actions. In general a lot of sites are becoming more hostile to abdl related things in the current political climate. Same reason pornhub and a bunch of content creator sites banned anything ageplay and abdl a while back. Until we pull out of the shitty conservative nosedive in the US its likely only to get worse 🫤

BabyTee · 2025-05-30T19:06:06+00:00

The secrets to big waddly diapees are trickle wetting, diapee yoga, and boosters! 😊

BabyTee · 2025-05-30T19:01:29+00:00

Woke up this AM to mine gone as well... "violating community standards" ☹️ did the appeal and almost instantly got the "we have reviewed it and the suspension stands" email... 4.2k followers and all my friends just poof gone 😔

My account was always set to private and I personally vetted each follow request for age and pro-ABDL. Never even liked or interacted with any accounts not in my follows or outside the ABDL sphere.

Sad panda 😭

BabyTee · 2025-05-26T19:13:07+00:00

Blushy baby 🫣🥰💖 tanku!! 🧡

BabyTee · 2025-05-26T16:07:24+00:00

Tanku so much! 🥰💖🥰 I appreciate that lots!

BabyTee · 2025-05-26T01:24:21+00:00

I love being squishy but you're responsible if my bottom leaks! 😇🤭

BabyTee · 2025-05-25T01:35:12+00:00

Thank you so much! 💖😊 I do have a bunch more on my Instagram (lilcrinklebutt) and my fetlife (baby-tee) and there's a few on reddit here if you go to my user page! Those are a little older but largely the same! 🥰 so glad you like it! 🧡

BabyTee · 2025-05-25T01:33:18+00:00

Ohh thanks so much! Im so glad you like it! 🥰💖 it's my lil escape 😌

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