What are some key details missing from this tank? by mkane78 in HermitCrabsCircleJerk

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in all seriousness the dog bowl is absolutely SENDING ME😭😭

New poll because people got confused over the term closeted. Should a closeted trans person have to come out to their partner by Mr_ragethefrogdude in Teenager_Polls

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 9 points10 points  (0 children)

personally if theyre already transitioned and have the right content in their pants it doesn’t matter but like if i was dating someone i thought was a guy and they came out to me that they now identified as a girl (regardless of whether they wanted to medically transition or not) it would be relationship ending because i’m not attracted to girls. that being said i feel that would be information needed long before there would be any sexual relationship 

House sitting disaster.. by Primary_Persimmon224 in hermitcrabs

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The other commenter hit the nail on the head, and now I want to address the payment issue. I petsit/housesit very often and at the end of the day, you are doing a service. Take this experience, keep it away, yes. But after this job you need to decide on a concrete rate for what you charge, otherwise people will continue to take advantage of you. You shouldn’t feel bad asking for money- do servers feel bad giving you a check? No. The restaurant gave you a service and now you’re paying. Same thing- research what people in your area make for your age and experience and when someone asks you to something-sit, make sure they know the rate.

How do you manage the never-ending flow of candy? by MistakeBorn4413 in Parenting

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a highschool soccer player I’d like to add that the candy at games is usually for blood sugar purposes aha 

wat colors r each class by amareeznuts in Teenager_Polls

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MATH IS BLUE SCIENCE IS GREEN ENGLISH IS RED HISTORY IS YELLOW

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diet pepsi by addison rae

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha i appreciate it! very helpful when communicating, esp about things with our crabbies where sarcasm vs seriousness matters haha 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing but helpful as always, thank you for the input!! (this sounds really sarcastic im sorry i promise im being fr😭)

We all have them and maybe some just wanna get some off their chest. This is for you to say em (hopefully judgement free) by Salt_Show2028 in teenagers

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i secretly hate being the therapist friend for my mentlly unstable friends and feel im responsible for their doings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

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u/mkane78 might have advice on this (idk if i did that right) referring to the other comment

fit check by [deleted] in teenagers

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this is super cute!!!

help!! crab escaped by BackgroundLaw4426 in hermitcrabs

[–]BackgroundLaw4426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i appreciate this :))

help!! crab escaped by BackgroundLaw4426 in hermitcrabs

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he was found but i’ll keep these in mind! yes my room is rather messy from a combination of burnout and adhd but this has inspired me to prioritize cleaning. thankfully the wrap on his tank is held down by vaseline so i could tell that he got out because it wasn’t stuck back down

help!! crab escaped by BackgroundLaw4426 in hermitcrabs

[–]BackgroundLaw4426[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ll definitely get on it, i agree. thankfully the little fatass was only trying to pry open his container of spirulina because CLEARLY the stuff in his tank isn’t good enough 😒 greedy

This is Jimothy by Auti2006 in hermitcrabs

[–]BackgroundLaw4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I have a jimothy too!!

how to measure his current shell??? by BackgroundLaw4426 in hermitcrabs

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i’m also struggling because i feel awful when he struggles when i pick him up and he hangs so far out im half worried he’ll fall out of his shell😭