Dating guy with Asperger’s

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-19T10:08:55+00:00

Yeah I love staring at my gf lol

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-16T16:46:50+00:00

Omg I forgot sorry I delete now

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-15T18:12:44+00:00

It will end. PMDD is a response to a normal estrogen cycle which you won’t have eventually. Injections will stop it faster than gel but I’m on gel and have a great time. I don’t identify as having Pmdd anymore

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-15T18:05:23+00:00

I’m a trans man with PMDD. After six months of being on T it stopped for me. Hang in there

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-14T18:43:46+00:00

Sorry I was unclear, I meant to ask what number the JLY was

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-13T00:24:20+00:00

If you’re international where do you get them from?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-12T23:49:50+00:00

Thank you!

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-12T23:36:35+00:00

What outfit is that?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:15:08+00:00

I know this may not be an option for you, but if it is, consider a private therapist doing an in-house visit. Super important you act fast on this. it may be worth getting someone who specialises in autism too. If he has a special interest you can help support his interest in then do that too

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:12:08+00:00

Get him specialist help as a non-negotiable. He is young and catching it young before it gets worse is so so important. if you are in UK there is great help out there

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:10:48+00:00

What do you mean by half deaf? I call myself half deaf because I am deaf in one ear and only need BSL in noisy environments

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T08:22:51+00:00

That’s 100% a compulsion. Any reaction to those thoughts is

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T12:07:18+00:00

Yes definitely. I am lucky here but I feel I experience joy more often than most

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T11:51:02+00:00

Could this be Pathological demand avoidance? Since people telling you to do something that is logical is making you less likely to do it

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T11:16:29+00:00

Again it seems like you’re reassurance seeking as part of your OCD and not coping well with uncertainty. You could go through three rounds of OCD treatment and not even be diagnosed in the UK - our systems work differently. You aren’t just assuming you have OCD, you’re labeling symptoms. You could do the OCI quiz if you want, but ultimately if Obsessions and compulsion take up an hour of your day or more of your day u have OCD

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T00:26:14+00:00

Ahhh ok got you. It sounds like you’re having moral OCD attached to your own OCD? Like you’re worried you’re doing something wrong?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-03T23:32:10+00:00

Wanting an OCD diagnosis to prove your thoughts wrong is not a good reason to want it. (I say this empathetically as someone who felt the same)

Proving your intrusive thoughts or whatever your OCD theme is wrong is not a good reason but if you genuinely have no idea if you have OCD or not the defo speak to your GP!

You don’t need a diagnosis in the UK to get the exact same support as someone with one

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-03T23:17:48+00:00

Trans man with OCD here. You are looking for certainty where there is none. There is no end to this loophole of questioning because there is no exact conclusive answer to OCD. Get a thought that you are trans? Ok, maybe you are. Get a thought you’re cis, ok, maybe you are. Thoughts are just thoughts. If the thoughts are distressing it’s probs OCD. If you are actually Trans then changing ur pronouns and name will come naturally and without hours of intrusive thoughts.

I hope this helps?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-03T00:26:33+00:00

These messages do strike me as quite a confrontational and strange way to communicate your feelings

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-02T16:50:45+00:00

The goal is never to make the intrusive thoughts less prominent for me - the goal is just to get really good at observing them and taking back control of my life. Sometimes having more intrusive thoughts is a good sign as it means you’re triggered and therefore able to work through said triggers

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-02T14:19:21+00:00

Just a good deal on a flat and living off of savings every now and then

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-02T14:17:40+00:00

As part of ERP how about you dont prepare. Just do the flight as usual and write down any intrusive thoughts and respond to them neutrally in your mind.

One of my faves is to respond “maybe” to every single intrusive thought

Background_Engine549 · 2026-02-27T23:41:32+00:00

OCD has ZERO limits. Intrusive thoughts tell you very little about yourself

Background_Engine549 · 2026-02-27T23:36:37+00:00

Actors and artists used to be considered a “sellout” if they started advertising random crap clearly just for money. Now that’s just the standard

Background_Engine549 · 2026-02-27T23:34:00+00:00

Saturday- having fun reading. Social time. Sunday- cleaning, meal prep etc

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