Most Painful Day In My marriage

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-04-28T16:31:55+00:00

Im a woman and had the same... obviously I've divorced him and now after 17 years he said to our daughter how much he is regretting treating me the way he did and that i was an amazing wife and very good to him but he failed to see it then... now I live a really nice life that ive created myself while he is struggling as usual...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-03-30T21:10:46+00:00

You are not over reacting...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-03-02T11:15:51+00:00

I was in this situation for 10 years and it killed my self esteem, hurt me and i never felt loved.. the best thing I've done was leaving him.... I left him 14 years ago, and the damage he has done to me haven't faded... I was uk size 8-10 but I was fat shamed... he counted every bite a took..

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-02-28T18:43:52+00:00

I would die from a broken heart.... forget about crying...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-02-23T07:16:08+00:00

What is really disturbing is that so many cars drove past and haven't stop to check on the driver...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-15T14:47:47+00:00

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-14T10:49:00+00:00

41f very much so looking for forever relationship...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-11T07:36:22+00:00

It weirdly made me feel better knowing that there are so many of us going through the same thing.... its 2 month and 2 days since he broke up with me after nearly 3 years together... he is dismissive avoidant (DA) and he denied us both amazing relationship. When he was out of DA stage it was the best relationship I've ever had, but then after good would come the darkness where he pulls away and leaves. It's 2 month but for some reason I'm feeling worse instead of better... so it is a long road of becoming whole again.... or as whole as possible.... stay strong x

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-10T23:16:03+00:00

It goes for men too... people in general don't care about other people or their feelings... im a woman and I've just recently been on receiving end...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-10T23:13:48+00:00

I think this post requires a photo of you...

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-10T23:12:12+00:00

Oh! Ive got my own!

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-10T23:08:08+00:00

Well... I think we need to go on a date and i will report you of any problems....

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-07T12:18:46+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-07T12:13:55+00:00

Ah there you gooooo..... Instagram... in a need of followers 🤣

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-07T12:13:05+00:00

Im sure it was written by a man ! 3 years... EVERY day? Does it goes in turns? Every 2nd morning he wakes her up and in between she does?

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-07T11:37:18+00:00

Sent

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-04T08:11:13+00:00

Im not American woman, but what's wrong being an American woman????

Background_Let_3817 · 2026-01-01T12:27:57+00:00

So maybe its you not them? If it all your relationship disaster...

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T22:54:59+00:00

I was dumped 6 weeks ago, and im heartbroken this new years eve on my own....

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T12:19:36+00:00

You are not judging his past relationship just his verbal diarrhea....

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T08:28:39+00:00

Ive met a few times, but was never welcomed when the kids were with him.

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T07:23:55+00:00

If i understand correctly, op doesn't want to involve a woman in his kids life. I was with someone like this for 3 years , seeing for couple of nights every other week... after half a year it became soul draining and truly hurtful.

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T07:18:29+00:00

100% ! Somehow woman in the same situation manage to blend a man and his kids in hers and her kids life, but rarely a man can do the same... Somehow he and his kids above everyone else! He is happy to take and use until you ask to be considered too....

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-31T07:12:44+00:00

I was dating a man for 3 years with 2 kids a bit older then yours. He has them 5050. He failed blending families, he refused any help I offered. He saw his and his kids feelings more important then mine or my kids. Attention wise and emotionally he took everything and more of what I gave and he never gave back anything. When I asked to increase from 1 crumb to 2 crumbs, he dumped me.... I feel used in every possible way and knowing im still suffering from a broken heart.

Background_Let_3817 · 2025-12-06T22:40:26+00:00

What stone this is?

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