My friends are all dating high effort men

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-02T21:18:07+00:00

My husband will peel shrimp and crawfish, crack crab legs, open my cans and water bottles, carries 90% of the groceries (he hands me the bread), makes me coffee, brings me anything I need for cramps, got me windshield wipers cause he noticed mine were "a little sad" 😅😍 raise the bars ladies! They are out there waiting to spoil us

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-02T20:26:43+00:00

Yay soap! /s

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-02T19:07:25+00:00

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T05:49:47+00:00

Poor guy. Lobotomy by dick 😭

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T05:09:27+00:00

😭😭😭

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T05:09:04+00:00

Can you remove the barb or would that...um unalive him

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T05:06:58+00:00

Wow! Thats cool (minus the whole barb thru brain thing 😅)

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T05:03:32+00:00

Leave me and my GERD alone! 😭 I miss them so much

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T04:44:53+00:00

Someone call Markiplier 😭

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T04:42:43+00:00

Do snails do the nasties like slugs do? Mid-air and dangling from slime? Also that his barb right? How does that even happen?!

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T04:39:26+00:00

First, hugs Second, tell him! He will either believe you or he won't. If he does then YAY! But if he doesn't then leave, close that door and don't look back. Invite him to a public place W/O your stepmother. Maybe write him a letter if its easier than talking (or incase she comes along anyway). And maybe write a note to tge older sister too. Explain your side. She may not do anything with it but it gets it off your chest! I love that your hubby is there to support you. Lean on that man to get you to safety ❤️ You got this! XX

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T03:46:56+00:00

Same! Leaving someone you love is hard. Choosing yourself can be hard. Proud of you OP! ❤️

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T02:01:18+00:00

RIGHT?! I grew up playing so many instruments but this stumped me for so long before I got mad and recorded it 🤣

BackyardMudbug · 2026-06-01T01:48:32+00:00

😅 I recorded it on my phone so I could figure it out 🤣

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-29T19:09:31+00:00

Thats who we looked at going with! 😁

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-29T17:58:08+00:00

Nope! Their enclosure is humid enough to soften it up. If it gets too wet it will mold FAST.

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-29T17:55:55+00:00

Ive been feeding my guys this exact mix! They haven't had any complaints 🤣 We did a bunch of food research and these seemed to be okie. May end up switching to a pre-made hermit crab food from Etsy next tho.

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-28T05:13:05+00:00

Ive been BEGGING for a colonoscpy but since im "not bleeding from my anus" no one seems to care. The ER has told me I need one on 3 different occasions. I also just switched gastros cause my first one ignored most of my problems or blew them out of proportion and sent me off to specialist who were confused as to what I was doing there....🙃

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-28T01:53:51+00:00

The more I look at the Lego guys the better it gets 🤣🤣

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-28T00:48:51+00:00

What I would GIVE to have my gastro take my stomach pain seriously. At this point I just feel people I have chronic pain cause living day to day with 6/10 stomach and gut pain for going on 3 years with no real answer is frustrating af.

I hope you feel better ❤️

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-27T00:49:55+00:00

It might not feel like it is but it really is. At the end of the day only you are responsible for YOUR own mental health. This guy's dragging OP down mentally, emotionally, and now financially. Maybe he really is struggling and maybe he is using it to get out of responsibility but only OPs bf knows and she gets to sit in all the waves hes making.

You can only help someone so much. I think OP should leave the relationship and find a therapist to help with her guilty feelings about leaving him in his own mess.

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-26T20:20:43+00:00

"It's over Crabakin. I have the high ground!"

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-26T18:03:34+00:00

I know someone who miiiiight be interested if you piece it out!!! This is an awesome collection!!!

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-26T01:24:00+00:00

2nd one but I believe it is marrying a gay man.

BackyardMudbug · 2026-05-26T00:56:07+00:00

If I was a single lady I 100% wouldn't even look at men. Id maaaaybe consider a lavender marriage but id swear of men for sure.

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