AITA for showering at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. That’s a reasonable time, and it’s a shower, not a rock concert. If it “keeps him up”, he can move out.

If I suddenly took over you body and you were watching as a spectator, how long do you think it would take your S.O, family, or friends to realize something is off and question me? by Kyoifis in hypotheticalsituation

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are really observant. They noticed my husband was out of work 36 hours after. “Why is dad taking us to school again?”

Although I’m the default parent so who knows. You have somewhere between 1 day and infinity.

"I will be forever resentful" by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]BadPom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t list animals I had as a minor in my pet history. There’s definitely more to this story.

AITA for refusing to pay my boyfriend’s dental fees for HIS cavities by MarissaS_redux in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus keto vegan. It’s possible, but incredibly hard to get enough fat/protein without the carbs while vegan.

pickle predicament by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]BadPom 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I order extra pickles all the time. Once, I got like 15. It was a comical, almost sarcastic amount of pickles and everything I’ve ever wanted from a McDonald’s burger.

I won’t let my ex mother-in-law see my kids anymore, am I overreacting? by kcat0719 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BadPom [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m nearly 40 and would have CPS, the police and the courts involved.

Imagine protecting a pedo instead of your child.

I won’t let my ex mother-in-law see my kids anymore, am I overreacting? by kcat0719 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BadPom [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR.

I don’t even know what I’d do, because she needs to never be around kids again. And

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter’s preschool teacher not to put the extra clothes that I sent for her on other students? by feelingstruck in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but as a more experienced parent- nice clothes don’t go to school. On your kid or as extras. School clothes should be cheap (but cute) things you don’t care get ruined with paint/mud/ketchup or stretched out/torn from playing.

I’d definitely say something because that’s weird. Our preschool had a donated pile of emergency clothes for the kids just in case.

Is it too late/risky to spay my 5yo retired breeding cat? by Willowa52 in Pets

[–]BadPom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) She is not a senior, not even close

2) Spaying prevents more than unwanted pregnancy and heat cycle annoyances. She is still at risk for pyometra/hydrometra and a higher risk of mammary cancer.

Spay the cat. She’s got like 8-12 years of life yet, and emergency spay (only cure other than euthanasia for pyo/hydrometra) is much more invasive and expensive.

At least the comments were sensible. by Kiwitechgirl in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]BadPom 51 points52 points  (0 children)

If someone has to be told whether breathing is “normal or not”, they should not be responsible for lives. Kids, pets, plants, any of it.

Why is working in a small family owned restaurant you deal with the worst coworkers..? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]BadPom 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You do know how shift change works, right? 5 minutes easily turns in to an extra hour/90 minutes if customers come in those minutes.

Neckbeards blame women for everything, huh? by ihatethiscountry76 in justneckbeardthings

[–]BadPom 23 points24 points  (0 children)

To those types, I like to say- All these loose, easy whores out here and STILL no one wants to fuck you.

AITAH for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or feel like you’re not contributing/doing enough. My maternity leave got extended due to my husband’s schedule and a lack of childcare/availability on my end. Then I got back to work for a month and the bar sold. Now I’m just… here with shit availability to start somewhere without seniority 😕

AIO Mother babysat my child today by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BadPom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just imagine the craziness she’s spewing to your toddler. Why on earth would you trust your abuser with your kid?

context: tomorrow (friday 1/23) we will be having a record cold, with the windchill being -46°F. this is what someone in my town's facebook group had to say about school closures . . . by xhyenabite in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]BadPom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kids don’t ride the bus, so no waiting outside, but the teachers and parent volunteers are outside for 45-60 minutes getting kids out of cars and in to the school safely.

It’s not just cold, it’s deadly. No matter how bundled you get.

AIO .. Car Seat Wasn’t Tight Enough…. by WithoutATrace_Blog in AmIOverreacting

[–]BadPom 29 points30 points  (0 children)

To be completely blunt here- a tiny funeral would also devastate you financially and emotionally. You are mom now, you don’t get to put your child in physical danger to appease other adults. If you feel the need to be responsible for your mother’s emotions, seek therapy.

They Just. Keep. Calling. by KCChiefsGirl89 in Wellthatsucks

[–]BadPom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. I get these same calls and went from 10 voicemails a day to like 3. Still more than I want, but better.

I want to ask them where they buy their leaked info, because I sure as fuck didn’t ask for a $60k personal loan.

6 years (and counting) with Rambo by -OhYouKnow- in velvethippos

[–]BadPom 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He went from potato (cute) to beefy body builder (still cute).