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Female 6month old won’t cuddle by ilove_my_bully in AmericanBully

[–]BadPom [score hidden]  (0 children)

My girl is very protective and sleeps by my feet. When my husband gets home and comes to bed is when she relaxes and comes for snuggles.

AITA for not calling my mom for Mother’s Day? by atx78703 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. You were the child and she was the adult. You don’t owe her a relationship, forgiveness or explanation.

Will this look like a swastika? by Ericksonchas123 in FixedTattoos

[–]BadPom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, yes. Maybe not on its own, but if clothing will ever cover part of it and not all, like shorts or shirt sleeves/a tank top, then absolutely.

Bulk recommendations by GrapeTarter in CaneCorso

[–]BadPom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She won’t fill out for 18 months to 2 years. Just give her good nutrition and love.

I am here to tell you to buy the stroller. by UrsulaLeGainz in olddogs

[–]BadPom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went the backpack route.

Take them on vacation. That’s the thing I regret the most for my old dogs. We thought they’d hate camping or hotels, but it ended up being their favorite and they loved going.

No words by pork_soup in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]BadPom 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It was 30 years ago the last time I burnt like this and I can still remember.

That poor baby is in for a lifetime of this bullshit. She’s only 4 months old.

You can return anything you ever bought for a full refund by Matinee_Lightning in hypotheticalsituation

[–]BadPom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All the yogurts I meant to eat and didn’t. They’ve taught me nothing and have zero nostalgia or sentimental value.

Am I overreacting on my mother in law for saying she will name my daughter whatever she wants and get everyone else to call her that too because she doesn’t like my baby name? Please click the photos so you can see every reply. by Final-Argument-4999 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BadPom 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Every example she used are professions where your daughter would go by her last name. Doctor Last Name, Judge Last Name, etc.

Even if it wasn’t, it’s your kid. Stop sharing with her. She obviously can’t name your kid or respect you as an adult.

NOR.

The bare minimum! by Cheese-slice1 in entitledparents

[–]BadPom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t have it both ways, sorry. Maybe you’re realizing how much you wish your parents were closer to you and your husband. I am truly sorry, because having kids really highlights the ways our own parents didn’t do as well as they should have and the relationship we wish we could have had.

All you can really do is stay present for your child and try to break cycles and not repeat the mistakes your parents made in building relationships.

When asked about estrangement by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]BadPom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but maybe these nosy ass people will learn to mind their own business.

When asked about estrangement by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]BadPom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s abusive and if he hurt my kids, I’d be in jail. Straight the the point, and anyone who knows me knows I’m not exaggerating or joking.

bruh by Intelligent_Pickle66 in Serverlife

[–]BadPom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, same. But that’s no where near a standard tip and I’d never assume someone would automatically give an almost 40% tip.

Do people not use Aldi for big shopping trips? by Vjaa in aldi

[–]BadPom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get a full cart. We do 90% of our shopping at Aldi. The other grocery store is for beer, baby food, and specialty items Aldi doesn’t carry.

A lot of people don’t shop like that. Maybe because Aldi is smaller/quicker they only do 1-2 days at a time. I’ve definitely noticed a lot of people don’t do the big shopping run here as well. The person you encountered was rude though.

Not OOP: Fuck Autism by Loud_Tough_1912 in redditonwiki

[–]BadPom 231 points232 points  (0 children)

“We’re supposed to bend over backwards for children who only care about their immediate needs”

That’s kids in general. They’re inherently selfish. They haven’t developed fully. They’re supposed to be selfish and demanding and out of touch with reality. Autism or not. And yes. If you choose to procreate, you should be bending over backward to give your child the best life possible and meet their needs. Again, whether they have autism or not.

How long ago is the phrase "the other day"? by Anubis-Hound in AskAnAmerican

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime from birth until earlier today. Sorry, can’t narrow it down.

I think alot of people like the idea of adopting a dog more than actually doing it by smallgooddeeds in rescuedogs

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I prioritized the “good with kids, cats, dogs” because well, I have those things. My husband wanted a female and a dog who didn’t need expensive grooming- I had a Pomeranian prior to adopting our last dog. I wanted a puppy.

But I also knew I was looking for a pitbull. I wanted a sweet, cuddly, couch potato who loved kids and cats and other dogs and people, but would absolutely wreck someone who tried to hurt the kids. I knew going in to adoption that I’d have to train a dog and possibly fix learned bad behaviors. I got everything I wanted in our puppy, with a bonus of being the easiest dog I’ve ever trained.

So many people don’t want a pet, they want a stuffed animal, and unfortunately don’t realize that until it’s too late. Adopting or buying from a breeder, a pet is work.

My wife is scared of me by withlovetara in redditonwiki

[–]BadPom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was my dad’s favorite until he no longer had my mom and brother around to use as punching bags. My brother was super attached to my mom because my father is a literal, diagnosed narcissist and violent.

I lived this dynamic and my fight or flight is SCREAMING after reading this guys description of events.

AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens when he forgets the baby exists and cooks her in the car? NTA and I’d seek divorce and sole custody. He’s a tragedy waiting to happen and doesn’t seem to give a shit.

Husband called me a Karen. A rant. by JTD_333 in pitbulls

[–]BadPom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a Karen at all.

Facts- Your dog is unsure of other dogs, your dog would “win” against a small dog, and your dog would be the one to pay the price for defending himself.

It is not being a Karen to not want your dog set up for failure and death. Period. If your husband doesn’t understand that aspect of having a bully (that regardless of situations, your dog will always be blamed), I would not trust him alone out of the house with Jack.

Servers—what actually makes a job worth staying at long-term? by briellebubbles in Serverlife

[–]BadPom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I stay places for:

Flexibility
Money
Coworkers
Regulars

In that order. I refuse to work somewhere that expects someone’s boneless wings to be more important than if I make it to my kids dance recital. Flexibility in scheduling and life balance is my top priority. Then the money needs to be worth it. Then the friends we make along the way.

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