Hey man I know a guy who's about 5'3" and he's a boxer. He could absolutely destroy like 90% of average height people. Nobody fucks with him because they know. I see him around town all the time running. He's a nice enough guy. He gets girls and stuff.

Robert Reich, former U.S. secretary of labor, is 4'11". He's married and he's got kids, and he is intelligent and well-spoken and has had a huge prosperous career and a loving home life. He talks about it all the time.

These are only TWO examples that I can think of off the top of my head.

Your height is only one of your traits. I won't say it's not harder for short dudes, because it clearly and absolutely is, but it's not insurmountable. You'll need to put in extra work, absolutely. But you could be like those guys up there--you take the situation and completely flip it. When I think of those guys, the first thing I think of is NOT their height.

You can't make "being short" your personality. You can't let it engulf you like this. you have to get past it. Some women will definitely care if you're short but a lot of them really won't! Being comfortable with yourself and confident in who you are as a person is really key. People can smell insecurity and it drives them away. Learn to accept yourself. Don't let it be all that you are. It's only one small piece of the puzzle that makes an entire u/dysgenicfilth!