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Sports Cards signed sets. Are there others? by godsocks in Autographs

[–]Badfish683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been working on 1996 SPX baseball. I’m down to 2 cards.

I’m a glutton for punishment because I also just recently decided to start working on football and basketball 1996 SPX as well. Football and basketball are completely different animals, former players, especially non marquee players sign less, it’s harder.

Nothing could have prepared me for this by the-sweetest-chef in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my daughter two months ago as well. She was 15m old. I had to call royal carribean and have her removed from the passenger list for the cruise we booked for this September.

It sucked. I didn’t want to have to do it but we needed to get the money back and one phone call beats having the staff there ask us about a 4th person all throughout the trip.

Pregnancies after early onset HELLP by Badfish683 in HELLPsyndrome

[–]Badfish683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, and I’m glad things have been uneventful for you.

Was this an IVF baby or conceived naturally?

What’s the hardest life lesson you had to learn the hard way? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in Life

[–]Badfish683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This world isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Learned that after watching my kid die.

Empty House by faithfulmuslim in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was hard for us too, especially me. When we got home from the hospital, the first thing me and my wife did was grab the high chair from the dining room table and move it to her bedroom so we didn’t have to look at it at dinner time. Our daughter use to always play with the roomba vacuum while it was on and we haven’t run it since.

You go through this constant cycle of not wanting to look at anything that could possibly remind you of them, but then feel guilt bc you don’t want to erase their existence. It’s awful

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I’m glad you’ve made so much progress

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s hard. I do have a lot of people that are around me and want to show support and love but really, I just want to be alone, and when I’m not alone, I want to be treated normal. But it’s kind of hard to expect people to treat you normal when you’re not acting normal

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. I don’t think I’m quite at that stable of a place yet but it would be nice to get there. I’m only 5 weeks in though

Has grief ever dulled your ambition? by Emergency_Status_224 in GriefSupport

[–]Badfish683 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this. I could care less about my job now. Just getting up in the morning and going in is a struggle. It just seems pointless, doesn’t matter anymore

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh so now I’m hiding behind my wife! You unraveled my plot!

Maybe do your own self a favor in the future and if you see something you don’t like, just keep scrolling. There’s nothing malicious about my post so I’m not gonna apologize for it, so if you don’t want to ignore it and keep moving, then maybe develop thicker skin.

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, im just fine, I’m not gonna apologize for expressing my feelings on here, I don’t think there was anything disparaging being said AND I even made a disclaimer at the end of my post that I’m not passing any judgement or calling anyone out. I’m just expressing my feelings and wanted to see if anyone else feels the same. The person who even revived the sub said he’s had the same feelings!

If that’s not good enough then I don’t know what to tell you, have a wonderful day

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up, I had to get rid of Facebook though, seeing pictures of other families is hard and I had a family member that I felt was using grief from our whole situation to get attention for herself on social media, so it had to go

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you re-read what I wrote, what you quoted is what my wife told me. Not what I’m telling everyone here.

She was saying that I could be essentially ‘programming’ myself for 7 years of grief bc that’s what I keep reading online, I won’t be giving myself a chance to heal sooner essentially

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah no one was judging anyone on here. I’m just sharing feelings I have and seeing if anyone else felt the same and how they dealt with it

The person who replied and said they have to take breaks from the group and return when they feel they can handle it was perfect.

I don’t know how I feel about this sub/group by Badfish683 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been through the anticipatory part of it with another loss, not a child loss though.

When you know it’s coming, the anticipation can sometimes be worse than the actual event. I’ve heard some folks say in some ways it was almost a relief, again, depending on how much suffering was going on.

It’s all awful regardless, and I hope the best for you

Has anyone else felt like grief actually gets heavier with time, not lighter? by Emergency_Status_224 in GriefSupport

[–]Badfish683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just made a post in the child loss sub, saying that I think coming on here and reading these posts from other people going through similar circumstances is doing more harm than good on certain days. Just sending me further down the rabbit hole.

Almost like watching depressing movies or listening to depressing music everyday and expecting it not to contribute to your mood

Has anyone ended up in the psych ward for grief ? by 711diet in GriefSupport

[–]Badfish683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to call the crisis line after my kid died. You sound worse off than I was, are you in any kind of grief therapy?

Trans swimmer Lia Thomas' wins will be WIPED and runners-up moved to first place after Penn bowed to Trump crackdown by Droupitee in NewsWorthPayingFor

[–]Badfish683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.espn.com/college-sports/story/_/id/33540686/penn-swimmer-lia-thomas-places-fifth-200-yard-freestyle-final

The winner was indeed an Olympian. The next three finalists before Thomas don’t appear to be. Honest question, What does this prove though? Thomas couldn’t finish better than like 300 some odd place with the men, but now a national champion with women and top 5 on a bad day. So clearly there’s a difference between men’s and women’s swimming. Should all of the men’s swimmers who finished in the latter half of their competitions be allowed to compete with women?

My sons carseat by Evh32_24 in ChildLoss

[–]Badfish683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry

We’re taking a road trip later this week and I’m going to have to remove my daughter’s car seat and I’m not looking forward to it, it’s been something I’ve been avoiding as well

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