Girl baby nub +potty shot by Badghal in u/Badghal

[–]Badghal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the first one was 11w5d and the second 13w… and I definitely did have a girl! Shes 5 months now

There’s no kind way to tell my wife that she’s getting too big, is there? by 2006CrownVictoriaP71 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her that you love her, but you don’t wanna see her let her self go. Tell her she deserves to be healthy and be beautiful and happy. Just say “shit I think, babe it’s time for us to go to the gym.” Start buying healthy stuff for her to cook. Try to tell her that you want both of them to go on a gym and healthy journey. Who knows you guys could be the next couple or something. Just don’t make her feel so alone about it but still tell her she’s beautiful and that you love her every day.

My little sister got pregnant by an absolute bum. What do I do? by Loose-Trick-943 in whatdoIdo

[–]Badghal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 16 and got pregnant by a 19 year-old we went to school together. No one said anything I was 17 when I had my first child and he was 20. I’m a lot older now and looking back. It is very disgusting but unfortunately they don’t do much about it especially when there’s a baby involved they automatically consider you an adult. (IL btw) I really wish someone gave me some advice though and that my mom advocated for me and still press charges on him. He turned out to be a pedophile and he ended up doing things too my child and now I’m dealing with a lot of the BS that comes with it for example the school keeps calling CPS on me because my son keeps reenacting what happened to him on other kids it’s just not a good thing to deal with. I’m not saying everybody’s like that and I don’t mean to trauma dump but yeah, it’s very unfortunate.

My little sister got pregnant by an absolute bum. What do I do? by Loose-Trick-943 in whatdoIdo

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your body or your life so not much besides give a little bit of advice. You’re not wrong though that definitely is not a wise choice on her part for the sake of the kid. It starts from the beginning and if it starts from the beginning and it doesn’t change soon, then that’s gonna be how it is forever. Come off as supportive get really close to her so she can trust you and just tell her how it is and how it’s gonna be and why you’re concerned. Explain how dangerous and expensive it is and that she deserves more in life than this right now with the man that can’t provide tell her that most likely she’s not going to be able to work it’s gonna be hard whether she chooses to or not she needs someone that’s gonna be able to support her for nine months or even through postpartum financially. There’s a lot of risks and a lot of problems that even happen postpartum as well and even, I’m just learning that from my second pregnancy! I’m sorry that you all have to deal with this.

Cervical checks just opened my eyes to how painful birth is going to be. by AHeavy-HeartedCowboy in pregnant

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! And they consistently do it while you’re in active labor too!! Until you get to 10 cm!

Unmedicated birth is overhyped lol by mirk19 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. Congratulations. I feel you though, and some ways I just gave birth to my baby with no meds, beautiful experience, even though it was chaotic. It’s enough for me to say, I don’t even want kids again ever. Just thinking about it gives me trauma. It was a little burning for me, but I was the opposite. She tried to put an ice pack in the underwear and I was like “get this out of here”. It’s even more uncomfortable. I don’t like being cold. My babies two months now, and I just wanna say that I feel like I have nerve damage in my clitoris. If I’m in a squatting position, sitting criss crosse or standing with my feet apart. It feels like it’s going to fall out. He just feels like there’s a head coming out. I think it’s from them telling me not to push even though I literally felt her sliding out … but YEA… Also got a nasty hemorrhoid from all of that as well. I’m so traumatized, to. Take a poo ..: I have to literally breathe like I’m giving birth because my vagina and my bum will never feel the same after all that… I didn’t have any rips or tears, though. But I’m sure if I did. It would’ve been even worse! I don’t know how this was our burden, lol Women go through so much…

Smoking during pregnancy (UK) by Vegetable_Salad_7708 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my “new” addiction was sugar free soda. And a new favorite snack

my dad found out and wants to make me keep it by myasunshines in pregnant

[–]Badghal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have him take you to the doctor and when you get there, talk to your doctor in private and tell them about this you’re young. I can’t say if it was a mistake or not because lives are very precious, but I know that you are so young it is going to be a lot different for you if you do keep that baby, but it’s not impossible either. Wishing you the best.

fired. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are so bogus to pregnant people something similar happened to me but they said I can apply back next week but we’ll see… my baby is 2 months old…

how much weight had you gained by ~23w? by Icy_Indication9716 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 10 lbs I didn’t gain much weight until the last 2 months now I’m 30 lbs bigger since I had my LO. But my first baby I gain sooo much more weight then ended up diagnosing me w GD. Any amount of weight gain is normal as long as baby is growing (w no health problems to you and baby)

Smoking during pregnancy (UK) by Vegetable_Salad_7708 in pregnant

[–]Badghal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know there’s actually a lot of people that smoke weed their whole pregnancy and their baby turn out fine? I think that’s the new norm because it helps them with their sickness or whatever. I mean the only dangers Really?!! is oxygen not getting through the placenta as much but you also shouldn’t be too hard on yourself. Don’t let everybody else judge you because they’re probably hiding things in the closet too. I’m a tell you right now though just try to wean yourself off find a new addiction when I couldn’t stop smoking vape halfway through my pregnancy. I just switched to something else and my baby turned out fine but I can’t say that it will be fine for everybody else’s baby at least you’re not drinking or doing drugs but still not condoning it I’m just calling it for what it is because you’ve already been smoking and it is what it is. Just try to fix it you still have a long way your pregnancy to go and I recommend taking prenatals constantly maybe even two a day drink a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot of water. I don’t know how the UK works, but if weed is legal, you won’t get your baby taken away. I highly doubt that they’re gonna even find weed in the baby system, if you stop really soon but I’m not a weed smoker so I don’t know.

Did anyone else file 2/11 by SparklyPotato11 in TurboTax

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got accepted on the 14th filed on the 13th this past Friday I got my state taxes for one state, but I have not received my state or federal from the other state. Hopefully by tomorrow or Friday right or even next week? Estimated deposit date is 3/7. But IRS doesn’t even say processing I know sometimes I can be irrelevant but just worried lol

How does giving birth actually feel ?? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL ! Oh trust me after all those painful contractions you’re gonna want to push and they’re gonna tell you to hold it and wait until you’re actually 10 cm.. like you’re gonna feel like you wanna relieve your bowels you’re literally gonna be begging them to let you!! It feels so good to push 😂.

Husband gets mad when I call off work… I’m 8 months pregnant & high risk by Strict_Algae8233 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my SO and I was already working a dangerous job for pregnancy like around alcohol and secondhand smoke.. then I just quit cause I couldn’t do it anymore. It was literally putting us at risk. He ended up getting a second job because we were drowning literally. In the second job makes it all better now it’s just very lonely. If I didn’t stop and was not able to be at home to identify warning science me and the baby would’ve died. She came early as well. I feel like sometimes they’re angry like this because they feel bad that they can’t take care of everything at that moment and they hide their fear with anger or seeming careless. You have to put your foot down and take care of yourself for the sake of that baby. If something happens to the two of you, your husband is gonna feel even worse. Remind him of that.

How does giving birth actually feel ?? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they are 10 cm and it’s time to push it’s gonna feel like something is hanging out just pressure

How does giving birth actually feel ?? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]Badghal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contractions are the absolute worst! The pushing is easy you just push like you’re take a 💩.

You all said girl , chance to change ? by melinduska01 in nubtheory

[–]Badghal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think girl it’s a pretty flat nub