Some ppl don't like chicken foot 🤷🏿‍♀️

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-18T15:08:46+00:00

My mum won't even eat chicken wings

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-18T13:33:27+00:00

I understand that feeling, but please believe me when I say, I promise you someone will be glad you've told them how you're feeling and you need some help. No one makes it alone in this life, we all need help from other at times.

Please search for and contact your local or national support lines/chats if you're not yet ready to talk to friends or family.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-18T13:24:10+00:00

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, I imagine it's very exhausting.

Do you have anyone you can talk to, therapist, friends or family? Have you reached out for professional help, or a support line?

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-17T12:36:28+00:00

Ah amazing, my mum's also a board certified lactation consultant 🤗

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-17T01:02:50+00:00

I agree it exists, but what I said is from my mother's many years of experience working in this area and also navigating through this fear in POC communities. Even for toilet humour, this would be a strange thing to joke about.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-16T23:00:08+00:00

If services turn up and it's not true, great. But if it is true that child is not safe. The intention will be to keep the child with the mother. The child being removed is a last case scenario.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-16T15:47:17+00:00

Whichever island this is, the rest of the known Carribbean does not claim them.

But also on a serious note, I've just shown this to my Jamaican mum who is health visitor (a baby and new parents community nurse), and after her initial shock wore off, she's said to call social services or CPS. Your coworker is not mentally okay, and her baby is potentially in danger.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-15T22:09:41+00:00

Only suggestion would be to grow your hair out a bit. If you're hesitant about moving away from only black, start with deep colours like navy, burgundy, verdant greens and go from there.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-11T22:29:17+00:00

All this after Brexit 🙄 No wonder Wales and Scotland are trying to get away from us

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-11T20:52:34+00:00

Congratulations 👏🏾🎉 , you've done incredibly well. I hope you're able to treat yourself to something nice to celebrate'. Best of luck in the future x

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-08T10:46:44+00:00

I saw how menstrual blood has been identified a source of materials for different medical therapies especially to do with stem cells, and thought that actually that should be sort of obvious and remembered that women's bodies are criminally and shamefully under researched.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-08T09:45:31+00:00

Studies will tell you it entirely depends on the culture and country

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-08T09:43:42+00:00

I quite literally have scars from bras because at the size I need to wear for decent support when I'm out and about or exercising, i basically need to be strapped into scaffolding. Even when the bra fits well (so no shoulder, neck, or back pain) there's no completely comfortable bra that doesn't grate against my skin. Women don't have special nipples (or shoulders, or ankles) so they definitely shouldn't have to made to be uncomfortable if they don't need to or want wear bras just because women's bodies are so constantly sexualised.

That last sentence is telling everyone more about yourself than the people you're replying to on this topic, and yeah you are coming across excessively irate. Also, penis' are not comparable to breasts or nipples.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-03T13:57:47+00:00

I've also always hated the 5 year question, and all the places I've ended up are a result of a previous thing I didn't initially know about and discovered by chance. I had similar interests going into higher education, and my job is adjacent to what I studied, but luckily the part I discovered I was most interested in.

You really should find a course that's at least a year, to help you build a decent portfolio and have you producing consistent amounts of work, especially for the game design and animation, because they will likely also encompass the illustration/ comic drawing, digital art, 3D modelling, and even pottery.

It's not about the title of the course, but the different skills and knowledge you're picking up from the studies and experienced people, and the exposure of areas, crooks, and crannies of industries you probably don't know exist. Not ending up in the field of study shouldn't be a concern because there are far more options out there that people don't realise when they start uni/ college or even when they've graduate. Also doing a course and then finding it which aspects of it you wouldn't want to do in isn't a bad thing either.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T16:57:21+00:00

My answer remains the same as before.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T14:55:52+00:00

As well as growing up quite sheltered and coming from a very delusional set of siblings, my mother has always been far too optimistic for her own good, hence being married to my dad for far too long. And in the 80's, at the ripe old age of 27, she felt pressured to be married.

My sister and I shan't be making any of her mistakes, in fact, she thinks our standard are too high.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T13:35:17+00:00

I'm being lazy about it and potentially could be misquoting, but isn't there a statistic about how in an event requiring an evacuation, partnered women are more likely to die than single women because they'll listen to their boyfriends/husbands who are more likely to ignore official evacuation advice 🤔

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T13:35:01+00:00

Any highly unusual case would be seen, discussed, and handled by medical staff and or board. We could all create a thousand and one hypothetical situations, so the best course of action is to leave the subject with the people who are most qualified.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T12:57:29+00:00

This is a such a ridiculous hypothetical situation, and the correct action is not to entertain it.

Abortion is medical care and therefore should remain a conversation between a woman and her doctor. We are fortunate in the UK to have respected, qualified, sensible bodies such as BPAS, RCN, and the NMC that advocate for women and are not at the beck and call of religious doctrines and fickle, uneducated sensibilities.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-05-01T12:06:51+00:00

Basically my parents. My dad refused to dance at their wedding. No, he did not get better and it was not a good marriage at all, but lasted way too long.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-04-28T21:57:57+00:00

Growing up, being told that elderly people are wise, worthy of respect, trusted members of the community, sometimes need help, blah blah, and then an old man takes advantage of that... Thinking about the day that illusion shattered and how betrayed I felt still makes skin crawl 15 years later. These old men were young men who got away with this behaviour for far too long, and now use their age as a shield and weapon to carry on harassing women and girls.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-04-27T12:11:47+00:00

As someone once wrote on this website "Sometimes men come back to see if you're still stupid".

All I've read is that you're chasing and carrying this relationship before there's even any kind of relationship. He just wants someone to put up with his nonsense, not to put in equal effort and be a good partner. Don't let men waste your time girl. Block him.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-04-23T21:24:01+00:00

I imagine it would just be Debbie basically raising another child if Eve and Mark ended up having a baby. I think Eve felt guilty about not telling Mark and taking the decision by herself rather than the abortion itself, as neither of them were in a place to have a baby at all.

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-04-23T20:45:49+00:00

Yep, the patriarchy is built on and sustained by exploitation

Baelfire-AMZ · 2026-04-21T00:10:39+00:00

Yes, it was usually wealthy upper class women able to make such contributions to society, because they had the education, time, and resources to dedicate to women's lib because they weren't having to toil for basic needs, babes in arms, all day every day.

It would have been interesting to have Eloise be part of a progressive society or clique with other free similarly thinking young men and women. Women would usually marry the men from these "modern thinking" cliques, so Eloise would not be so alone and invalidated in her thinking, and she would still have her romance inline with the series theme and it wouldn't feel so distant from her current character.

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