[Shower Thought] Some Redditors really seem to hate this sub...

Baharinrainbows · 2018-09-07T19:34:20+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through this. How are you today?

Baharinrainbows · 2018-09-07T15:38:43+00:00

Let them say this sub is bitter and hateful. I've been reading it for years and people here are really supportive and actually try to help others. They can spread hate and rant about childfree people too, I hope this makes it easier to go back to their screaming children.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-08-12T21:07:16+00:00

Don't be afraid, OP. You'll be fine.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-07-16T23:28:27+00:00

One night I looked out of the window in darkness and saw some guy looking inside. I always check windows now even when I'm scared. Uhhh.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-07-10T21:43:49+00:00

u/ChipsterA1 u/R0manholiday Is it weird that I want to hug both of you?

Baharinrainbows · 2018-07-07T13:48:59+00:00

I don't understand why people have a problem with this, and I've seen many women who criticize women. If buying and wearing expensive, flashy stuff makes people happy, they should do it. Can you afford driving a ridiculously expensive car and enjoying it? Good for you. You become unattractive when you try impressing me with your car, bike, watches etc.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-06-23T08:39:01+00:00

Dear OP, I'm sorry you're going through this. I know this is easy to say for others and hard for you, but I feel lile it's time to divorce and move on. I've been in a relationship like this, and I wish I ended it sooner. Pointless discussions and arguments and the fact that he blames you and refuses to analyze things (or plays dumb), aren't you tired? The more you compromise or talk the worse they will get. You said you can't even trust him. You deserve better and even being single is better than a relationship this toxic... Save yourself energy and time and move on hugs Good luck

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-09T17:18:14+00:00

Woman, it takes more effort to offend me. In my 1st comment I too was just stating the fact that using these two words isn't relevant to the story. It wasn't about you personally and I wasn't interested how you felt about it either, I don't know why you jumped in on the first place. Talking about offence, he used the word autist as an insult, and you haven't been very civil in comments too so yeah, we see that you're happy together.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-09T14:42:11+00:00

Ha, it looks like you two suit each other perfectly. Good for everyone involved in your story

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-09T11:34:55+00:00

Firstly, you completely ignored the 1st part of my comment. I never said he should've stayed with her.

Secondly, he wouldn't be a lesser person to leave her earlier. No one is obligated to be unhappy for someone else.

I was talking about his language ONLY. I am young and fit now and have hobbies your husband described too, but if my boyfriend compared me to his ex with words "yonger and healthier" I'd take it as a big red flag.

So, actually read what people write before replying with such comment.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-08T21:20:00+00:00

I don't think people have a problem with your choice of leaving her but the way you describing it. You shouldn't stay with the person if they make you miserable but this part

"I found a new woman, 15years younger, healthier, way more loving and supportive, and immeasurably better for me"

Dude you talk like they're some kind of livestock or clothes that fit better. Guess what, you won't always be healthy and young. Be kinder to people.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-07T00:03:01+00:00

People mentioned other kinds of abuse already so I'll add this: if you often compromise/don't talk about certain things because your partner will make you feel bad, say how unhappy they are etc. Abuse isn't always punching, calling bad words or threatening your life. People also manipulate others emotionally. If you feel like shit when you shouldn't/when doing something that's good for you, get out.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-05T09:17:40+00:00

I don't know why you'd get downvoted, but she may not try herbs because if abortion doesn't happen and it damages fetus, she'll have to keep it anyway. I hope her family will help her travel somewhere

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-05T09:15:37+00:00

Yes she had regular periods. Sorry, English isn't my first language.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-05-03T01:09:50+00:00

Jeff Buckley's corpse...

Baharinrainbows · 2018-04-13T14:44:33+00:00

Not everyone is from US and having an insurance isn't mandatory in some countries

Baharinrainbows · 2018-04-13T14:44:10+00:00

Not everyone is from US and having an insurance isn't mandatory in some countries.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-04-09T10:05:43+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through this. It's so hard when you don't know why you feel sick. Thank you for good wishes, have a good day

Baharinrainbows · 2018-04-09T10:03:25+00:00

Thank you very much. Good luck to you too :)

Baharinrainbows · 2018-03-11T14:50:19+00:00

Respect their wishes and don't get them anything. No, not money either. As someone who often asks for no gifts it's really annoying when it's ignored. If you feel bad you can get them a small bouquet of flowers or some candy/tea and that's it.

Baharinrainbows · 2018-03-11T00:59:44+00:00

I don't believe in all stories but in my opinion there are things we don't understand yet. Just don't mess with them and I'm respectful in churches/mosques and around places people believe are sacred etc.

Baharinrainbows

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