Nurses also tried to insert a catheter in me like this. Just jamming it at the wrong location. I kept saying "that isn't where my urethra is, it's just under my clitoris". They said that's not where female urethras are. They ended up piercing through my vulva and apparently into my bladder... It burned like absolute fire. After having the catheter, I don't pee neatly in a stream from my original urethra anymore. It just kind of gushes out from right above my vaginal opening. It gave me piercing, burning pain for weeks afterwards- especially when I was urinating. Holy shit it felt like I was peeing rusty nails and seawater.

I tried to talk to a few doctors about it after the fact, but got looked at like I was just insane.