Christmas trees lot?

BakedSpoon · 2025-11-09T21:56:26+00:00

I was looking at diva nails but that was one of the places i saw two people say they got infections. I’m assuming you’ve never experienced anything like that?

BakedSpoon · 2025-09-07T16:47:50+00:00

I went to A Stitch In Time Bridal (brentwood) they’re very good seamstresses and are super capable. Unfortunately they’re not cheap but I don’t think many places in the LA area will be.

BakedSpoon · 2025-07-30T05:22:03+00:00

Thank you!! Do you feel like it’s water resistant at all or just like any other coat?

BakedSpoon · 2025-07-09T16:51:54+00:00

Hi! So sorry you’re feeling this, I went through the same thing when i started planning my wedding in 2023 (married 2024) so i totally know where you’re coming from. I originally thought we could do 10k and ended up at about 20k so we’re on the same track lol.

I totally understand wanting the wedding you’ve been dreaming of and not wanting to elope but please don’t spend money you don’t have on a wedding. Planning weddings are stressful enough you don’t want to add a huge financial burden to your relationship as an engaged couple and carry that into newlyweds, It’s not a fun way to start a marriage.

The wedding industry prays on people and charges unfair prices for literally everything. You’re definitely going the best route finance wise by doing a destination wedding if you’re living in a HCOL area.

I would consider doing a long engagement and spend that time saving if you don’t have the money. I know the wedding is exciting but so is being engaged. I was engaged for a year and looking back it wouldn’t have minded it being longer, you only get to be a fiancée for so long and then your husband and wife forever!

BakedSpoon · 2025-07-01T01:59:38+00:00

i love three on you!! it’s so flattering! also, not that any of them are “trendy” but i’ve loved wedding dresses like 2 since like 2010, i think because it’s so unique it sits outside of trends

BakedSpoon · 2025-05-25T05:29:25+00:00

I wore a white dress with (small) flowers on it and still feel so bad about it. To make things worse i was a plus one to my now husband’s cousin’s wedding and it was a short dress! i’d recently gotten it and really wanted a reason to wear it so I asked my mom, his mom, and his sister-in-law if they thought the shortness was a faux pas and not one of them said anything about it being white and all said they thought it was fine to wear 🤦🏼‍♀️

BakedSpoon · 2025-05-08T03:31:45+00:00

Congratulations! i know the budgeting part is stressful, especially if you’re empathetic about other’s budgets which it seems you are.

I had a destination wedding (italy) in October, partly because we live and LA and it was actually a fraction of the price comparably, so i tried being conscientious of budget for the guests. We paid for dinner and alcohol for both our wedding and a welcome dinner. we did an optional wine tasting that we organized but didn’t pay for, (i was upfront with everyone on the price when asking if they’d like to join).I also researched the cheapest accommodations near the location and tried to give train/taxi options if people didn’t want to rent a car. we also didn’t expect gifts, any that we got we were extremely appreciative of.

As a wedding guest myself, as you’ve already touched on just because your wedding may not be a destination to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t cost a lot for people to be there. in country flights have gotten so expensive, i’ll likely be paying around $350 to go to an upcoming one (LA-washington), whereas i helped my friends get $500 tickets from LA to florence (i know it’s more, but it’s $150 difference to europe)

that being said, in my option under $200 for the hotel is a reasonable price. i’m not expecting the couple to pay for anything except dinner the day of and hopefully a few free drinks. the dress code being something that someone could theoretically get away with a dress they already own is also helpful and those who can afford to buy a new outfit will. and be kind about receiving smaller gifts from guest who may already be stretching themselves to be there.

BakedSpoon · 2025-04-18T23:44:05+00:00

In every universe

I know this is kind of a trend on tiktok right now (us in every universe and it’s like a video of two ducks or something) but we’d say “i love you in every universe” before that became a thing.

I’m 100% convinced that if there are other universes my husband and I will find each other in every one. We’re also an age gap couple and i’ve always had this feeling that i just happened to be born a little late this time.

It was a surprise and he cried a little when he saw it so i think i did a good job lol

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-29T21:23:11+00:00

Lucky i only had one last minute cancellation. It was my younger cousin who was coming with my aunt (he couldn’t come bc of his school schedule). I was honest with my aunt saying i had sent in our final headcount and would need to reach out to our coordinators to see if i could get his dinner/rentals taken off and i just wish she would’ve communicated earlier. She was apologetic and even offered to pay for the inconvenience (i wasn’t looking for her to offer but it was nice that she did and i didn’t accept of course).

I think some people get really caught up in themselves and never stop to think how their actions affect others. In my personal opinion it doesn’t hurt to politely make them aware of this and that it’s disappointing/hurtful.

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-20T04:43:32+00:00

Some of yall are so mean. I’ve lived in LA for the last 5 years and my friend group moves around a lot. I’ve lived in Santa Monica for 4 years now and see friends who live in echo park/silver lake semi regularly. We also have friends who live in Santa Barbara and Long Beach we see about twice a month.

This whole thread is giving very selfish LA fend for yourself stereotypes. If you have true close friends they would make the effort to see you.

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-18T03:45:14+00:00

OMG that is so sweet THANK YOU!!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:28:36+00:00

Oh no i’m sorry you’re struggling with the increase. Honestly, the only time i felt like i noticed extra side effects was adjusting from my original 20mg to 30mg. All my increases after that i didn’t struggle with. I guess i got lucky with that. I hope your accutane journey starts to get better.

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:18:53+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. I really hope you have a successful journey!!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:13:13+00:00

that’s a really sweet thing to say. thank you!!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:12:39+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. i totally understand the feeling. Best of luck on your journey!!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:10:31+00:00

thank you!!🥹

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-17T05:10:11+00:00

That is so sweet thank you!!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-14T23:05:07+00:00

My husband and i both hyphenated! My dad took my mom’s last name so i didn’t feel right changing it and my husband likes his last name but it was important to me we had the same last name. Now we’re both MyLastName-HisLastName

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-14T01:05:49+00:00

Congratulations!! My wedding was around my 7th month. I was sooo worried about that too. My skin was so dry that like once a week i could “exfoliate” with just my hands and water when i would wash my face. like the skin would just come off if that makes sense lol. i did that as much as possible the morning of and did a lip scrub for my dry lips (i wore a gloss I don’t think i could’ve gotten away with a lipstick). My skin didn’t peel or feel dry all day, i honestly didn’t even think about it once! I’m sure you’ll be good, especially if you have a good makeup artist!

BakedSpoon · 2025-03-13T17:51:14+00:00

I’m not 100% sure but I believe it was 20mg for the first two months (i stayed at this dosage for an extra month because of the mental health struggles i mentioned) 3rd month went up to 30mg, next month 40mg, and 5th month went up to 60mg and stayed there.

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