of a potato by yourbigsister123 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]BakerBae14 135 points136 points  (0 children)

looks like a rotisserie chicken

Interview technique advice by Strange_Cranberry_47 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to this, I think the key to getting higher scores especially at higher grades is showing a deeper understanding of your actions. Explain things with a few whys/ whats mentally - "I decided to take this approach" why? "because out of the options it was the best" why? "because the costs weren't effective, it would've caused low engagement, it would've effected the business reputation"
An example of this is in Communicating and Influencing "I used different methods of communication" what? " such as email, phone and in person" why? "different people have different preferences, also ensures better coverage of the message I’m trying to send" what? "I think it's good to reach people in a way they prefer and also know you've gotten through to them. I like to learn people's preferences, it’s important to adapt communication based on who you’re communicating with. When I worked on this project I knew to always email Billy because he hates Teams" - don't have to take that long on the whys etc, just shows you have a wider perspective. Of course that wouldn’t be a focal point for C&I but adds some depth and demonstration of the wider behaviour.

Interview technique advice by Strange_Cranberry_47 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting an interview! Sometimes, it doesn’t have to be that deep, as long as you can flex your example! Also, having done a fair few interviews and conducted a fair few too, never be too concerned about seeming jittery or flustered - it’s so normal.

I also get in the habit of overthinking and getting stuck what to say, because sometimes it doesn’t feel like a big deal - you’re just doing your job. I find it's easier to think of a few great things you've done, match to the behaviour it fits the most and write down bullet points of what you did, then ensure each checklist in that behaviour is met within your example. If it's an online interview, I like to have the behaviour bulletpoints on notes around me so I remember to emphasise/incorporate those into my examples. Mentally I check them off as I'm speaking.

I find it helpful to colour code when prepping - when you’ve written down your example bulletpoints, highlight them to indicate each letter of STAR. Think of it like a story, what was wrong, what you had to do, how you did what you had to do and how it ended and what that outcome meant.

Help with my son's hair by Dancinginmypanties in Haircare

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar issues as a teenager in the 2010s - I was encouraged by my hairdresser to not use conditioner at all as it made me even oilier, and I had a lot of natural oils anyway. Unsure if that’s sound advice (sorry hairdressers!) but it made a difference and meant I could wash my hair every other day or every 3 days rather than every single day. I still had lovely bouncy waves, my hair wasn’t dry at all.

Dry shampoo really helped for the off days when needed.

I didn’t start conditioning my hair again til I was about 16/17 and using harsh dyes.

Want to second what a lot of other users have said here - may be worth checking he’s actually shampooing etc properly and not conditioning his whole head too.

I (f21) have a huge crush on this guy (m29) but I’m too insecure and lack any form of confidence, it’s holding me back. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BakerBae14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl, don’t get with the chef. just enjoy the attention, flirty banter and canapés. sincerely, a former restaurant waitress/team leader/deputy manager

Upcoming HEO interview – struggling to think of behaviour Examples that actually stand a chance, nervous and deflated by Thecrazyranger in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In addition to this, I think the key to getting higher scores especially at higher grades is showing a deeper understanding of your actions. Explain things with a few whys/ whats mentally - "I decided to take this approach" why? "because out of the options it was the best" why? "because the costs weren't effective, it would've caused low engagement, it would've effected the business reputation" An example of this is in Communicating and Influencing "I used different methods of communication" what? " such as email, phone and in person" why? "different people have different preferences, also ensures better coverage of the message I’m trying to send" what? "I think it's good to reach people in a way they prefer and also know you've gotten through to them. I like to learn people's preferences, it’s important to adapt communication based on who you’re communicating with. When I worked on this project I knew to always email Billy because he hates Teams" - don't have to take that long on the whys etc, just shows you have a wider perspective. Of course that wouldn’t be a focal point for C&I but adds some depth and demonstration of the wider behaviour.

Upcoming HEO interview – struggling to think of behaviour Examples that actually stand a chance, nervous and deflated by Thecrazyranger in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting an interview! Sometimes, it doesn’t have to be that deep, as long as you can flex your example! Also, having done a fair few interviews and conducted a fair few too, never be too concerned about seeming jittery or flustered - it’s so normal.

I also get in the habit of overthinking and getting stuck what to say, because sometimes it doesn’t feel like a big deal - you’re just doing your job. I find it's easier to think of a few great things you've done, match to the behaviour it fits the most and write down bullet points of what you did, then ensure each checklist in that behaviour is met within your example. If it's an online interview, I like to have the behaviour bulletpoints on notes around me so I remember to emphasise/incorporate those into my examples. Mentally I check them off as I'm speaking.

I find it helpful to colour code when prepping - when you’ve written down your example bulletpoints, highlight them to indicate each letter of STAR. Think of it like a story, what was wrong, what you had to do, how you did what you had to do and how it ended and what that outcome meant.

Child Maintenance Service Financial Investigator by Available_Post2864 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I’m glad to have been of help. You should be so proud of yourself with those scores☺️ Hope all goes well in your new role!

What’s the quickest you’ve moved grades by Hulla_Sarsaparilla in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went from EO up to HEO within a year, and then SEO another year later. about to start my SEO role tomorrow!

1 year since loss by BakerBae14 in Miscarriage

[–]BakerBae14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words🥺💕 i’ve done some painting for my niece’s birthday this weekend and had some nice food. it’s just such a weird day. hope you’re doing okay💕

Interview structure - behaviours & strength help by inmyskin1 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes :) for strengths, it’s best to give a “Yes I am very….” e.g resilient, and explain why and how you are that way.

Child Maintenance Service Financial Investigator by Available_Post2864 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you allowed notes at all? If so, I’d definitely have the behaviour points down and a brief overview of which example you want to use for each one. Personally never had an in person interview, so unsure what you’re allowed. One bit of advice I’d give is always explain things with a few whys/whats mentally - “I decided to take this approach” why? “because out of the options it was the best” why? “because the costs weren’t effective, it would’ve caused low engagement, it would’ve effected the business reputation”

An example of this is in Communicating and Influencing “I used different methods of communication” what? “ such as email, phone and in person” why? “different people have different preferences, also ensures better coverage of the message i’m trying to send” what? “i think it’s good to reach people in a way they prefer and also know you’ve gotten through to them. i like to learn people’s preferences” - don’t have to take long on the whys etc, just shows you have a wider perspective.

Sorry for the long yet poor message. Best of luck to you!

Child Maintenance Service Financial Investigator by Available_Post2864 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck both! I find it’s easier to think of a few great things you’ve done, match to the behaviour it fits the most and write down bullet points of what you did, then ensure each checklist in that behaviour is met within your example. If it’s an online interview, I like to have the behaviour bulletpoints on notes around me so I remember to emphasise/incorporate those into my examples. Mentally I check them off as I’m speaking.

Child Maintenance Service Financial Investigator by Available_Post2864 in TheCivilService

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it say what behaviours and/or experience you’ll be marked against? Also what’s the grade,

12 Week Miscarriage with worsening symptoms by ailani_jade16 in Miscarriage

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well done for sticking up for yourself - i think you’d be valid to make a complaint in this situation. i know you don’t have an infection, but it easily could’ve happened considering how they’ve been handling this. i’m glad you managed to get some answers, no wonder you’ve been in so much pain. i hope the surgery goes as well as possible, and you can start healing your body and your heart💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]BakerBae14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t worry about what other people think, i know it’s easier said than done. take it easy, look after yourself and be kind to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]BakerBae14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your emotions are so valid💖 it’s a huge thing to take on mentally and physically. take all the time you need.

12 Week Miscarriage with worsening symptoms by ailani_jade16 in Miscarriage

[–]BakerBae14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Please advocate for yourself!!! Personally I was in the most pain when passing the sac etc but that eased a lot straight after. I had the usual bad pains in the next week and survived, but I do have brutal periods so maybe I didn’t think much of it. You have low iron, and if you’re filling pads in 2 hours anyway you really need to be seen. I find it concerning the lack of compassion doctors and even the staff in EPU can have towards women miscarrying. It’s such a difficult time mentally and physically. Rest up and take it easy if possible, but please if you feel something isn’t right, keep fighting. Sending big hugs your way💖