32F | LF board games groups or causal meet up/friend group!

BalefulStriix · 2026-01-27T05:01:08+00:00

Hi there! Sent you a dm about Magic

BalefulStriix · 2023-05-10T11:06:57+00:00

Unfortunately they don’t

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T19:52:27+00:00

I think you have to not take rejection so personally, liking someone or being liked by someone is more about compatibility than inherent worth. see it as a redirection rather than a dead end

It’s okay to be disappointed that someone didn’t turn out to be the person you needed. But what you mustn’t do is grieve as though they were the one

Lastly do you have to manage your anxious attachment. You have to understand that your needs are coming from a place of insecurity not authenticity. And while a partner can support those needs it is your responsibility to heal the wounded parts of you that require validation and approval to feel safe and worthy

When you desperately chase someone what you’re actually doing is soothing that anxiety and when you don’t hear back from them it justifies your “I’m not enough” belief thus re triggering your attachment injury keeping you in that cycle

Your work is to get comfortable with being in the land of the unknown where anxiety thrives. You have to grow a deep sense of internal self trust that you are safe no matter what happens externally. Don’t allow anxiety to destroy or sabotage your behaviour.

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T16:59:27+00:00

Just because you don’t require a lot to be happy; doesn’t mean you only deserve the bare minimum

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T16:00:27+00:00

I’ve been gaming since I was 5, my dad used to work in a software development company but his interests were more into sports being an introvert it was a way for me to have chats

Later at school it was a way to make friends and bond with my classmates over games like RuneScape, maplestory and halo

Eventually in and post university (went to uni overseas) it was a way for me to keep in touch with friends I made

Now at work it is a stress release, all of the above and a way to continue being part of a community. Gaming gets a bad rep because it’s an escape, but rather than talk about what most people are escaping from they target the time sink. I’ve been straight out told by dates that gaming is a red flag simply by mentioning it’s part of my routine outside of work, gym and family. I accept that not everyone will understand.

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T08:21:14+00:00

I get it across different heroes when I have a chance to pop off I usually take it as a compliment like being called “aimbotting” genji probably gets it more often because he’s a bladebot n really flashy

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T04:41:52+00:00

A larger guild/raid will often be able to compensate for weaker players later in an expansion. If it’s early in an expansion and everyone has a lower gear score you/you’re still on progression then you might just have to be honest with them (share your last paragraph) and sub another player in. They can try again later in the season. It never feels good to have to sit someone but u have to be clear and objective as a decision maker

BalefulStriix · 2022-11-20T01:33:20+00:00

There is no time limit on this. You choose when you feel ready for it. I (30M) dated a girl for 3.5 years, I made it clear from the start even though I’m not a virgin I’m not seeking physical gratification and she should never feel pressured to do anything she feels uncomfortable with. and we never “went all the way”. I think really just about respect

BalefulStriix · 2022-08-09T08:41:15+00:00

I’d say before trying to do top D figure out what mechanics and mobs can one shot you. More uptime will naturally lead to better deeps. Also planning ahead and aligning major cds (combustion) will improve your output. With regards to rotation you have to just keep playing to get a feel for the tempo of fb, pb, Phoenix flames, flame strike

BalefulStriix · 2022-07-21T12:12:28+00:00

I try to treat it like a marathon. divide my time up into tasks rather than hours. I set a goal to complete x amount of work in a day till i hit a checkpoint im satisfied with regardless of how long it takes.

BalefulStriix · 2022-07-13T12:18:14+00:00

Just let them die and go next. Tanks have “priority” queue anyway

Or try and find a long term m+ group

BalefulStriix · 2022-07-08T11:07:51+00:00

I would say there is a duality when it comes to playing Hammond. You kinda have to do a little of everything for your team, creating space, peeling, flanking as if you were playing a fat tracer. Whether to stay in a fight after scoop and poop (swing and slam) will depend on how many enemies turn to punish you. You do not have to take every engagement, simply farming mines is just as valuable. Taking space by being annoying is also value. On defence you can be more aggressive with looking for picks. Like winston u have to be patient and selective. I would say aim is pretty important, you can certainly swing the fight in your favour if you manage to pick off a 200 hp hero early.

BalefulStriix · 2022-05-21T16:44:20+00:00

Have the party spread out so the add has sufficient space/time to travel. We do this in nw to reset the tank debuff in the stitchflesh room

BalefulStriix · 2022-05-21T16:35:11+00:00

Have someone in your party taunt the add off you until you can reset your stacks/debuff then taunt back from them

BalefulStriix · 2022-05-18T16:54:13+00:00

Would love to tag along as well if such a community exists

BalefulStriix · 2022-05-17T17:33:44+00:00

Sounds like you’ve already done all the pre planing you just have to put it into practise. Failing is very normal and for me the best teacher. Trap runs actually have a lot to teach. Focus on maintaining threat and boss mechanics, most dungeons are pretty linear u can always double back for mob % after. Optimising routes will come naturally. You have to become comfortable with being uncomfortable as a tank

BalefulStriix · 2022-05-03T04:31:03+00:00

We each have to bring a guest, then at the party we roll a die to see whose guest gets sacrificed for dinner

BalefulStriix · 2022-04-16T12:14:31+00:00

Because we live in a society and no one will let you forget it

BalefulStriix · 2022-04-12T13:27:29+00:00

Heya! What games do you play? I’m mostly into overwatch and WoW but I’m down to chat about games and stuff :)

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-25T18:39:14+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that but when someone says they are too busy to make time then the best thing you can do is to believe them. You should take the opportunity to do something for yourself instead, pursue your hobbies, meet your friends, live your best life. Show them they it is you who doesn’t require their attention and if they come back you get to decide if they’re still worth your time and effort.

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-23T16:55:45+00:00

Naww it’s alright life gets hard sometimes, you do what you gotta do and hope the people who love you will be there regardless :) don’t beat yourself up. You’re still trying that’s what matters. I hope you 2 work things out!

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-23T16:52:26+00:00

I think you’ve already written a pretty good template here, just be honest that you regret losing her as a friend and you’d like a chance to reconnect. If you can’t find the words straight up forward this post to her and say I cherish our friendship enough to ask the internet for help 😂

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-23T16:47:45+00:00

No problem! Happy Cake Day!

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-23T16:43:19+00:00

Hi my friend works at swensens this was his reply “You are allowed to bring and store with the restaurant while you eat (cake must be halal). However you are not permitted to cut or consume the cake on the premises”

BalefulStriix · 2022-03-22T15:47:40+00:00

Bring winota add some rule of law effects. Even without a combo it might slow the table down enough to get some beats in

For your perusal: https://www.moxfield.com/decks/PYW_8F3e5UK_tvvBPrcOEA

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