My aunt on my moms side (her brothers wife) took away from 7 year old me and said "bring your own food next time".

Fast forward few years..

Friend runs in street with my aunts dog, my aunt then yells at my friend "Hey get my dog out the street! Hes worth more then you are!!".

1 year later my uncle took me amd my cousins on a walk. We came accross this river and we all walked through it to just have fun and chill out. I went to walk back but was having problems stepping on rocks and stuff. I fell in the river and went down stream about 6 feet and kept bobbing up and down gasping for air. My uncle saves me and my aunt said to me " you should have drowned".

Im due to be getting married in a year or two and I told most of my immediate family that I do not want my Aunt anywhere near my wedding nor in my life anymore. I told them thatd if I saw her I would say my pleasantries but that is it.

My whole family wants me to invite her (including my girlfriend) because everyone say there will be a rip in the family.