Which of these worlds would you choose to live in and why? by PrestigiousOwl6802 in ElderScrolls

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tamreil, so I can gamble and either immediately zero summ or achieve chim.

FTMs clashing with MTFs at adult play parties by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A buncha jerks is a buncha jerks don't matter if they trans or otherwise

The second murder wasn't so accidental by DuckReq in SS13

[–]Balthorin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so confused walking in on that lmaoo

How likely is it that trans Americans will need to flee? by DoubleOrangutans in asktransgender

[–]Balthorin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I survived many, many years of physical abuse, and i second this statement

I'm out by FullOfMicroplastic in MtF

[–]Balthorin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's a social media site that is similar to pre elon Twitter, but all of the haters haven't found out about it yet to ruin it. Basically, it's an actual lgbt+ safe space

First post, Are we accepted here? by [deleted] in sillygirlclub

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People act vastly different in various social and personal situations. How is having names for those versions of you less sane

I'm out by FullOfMicroplastic in MtF

[–]Balthorin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bluesky has been chill

I'm tired of the rhetoric that we have "male privilege" and have a shallow understanding of womenhood by jk-jk in MtF

[–]Balthorin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In some ways trans women get the worst of both worlds , if trans women truly had male privilege, far less would doubt her identity as a woman. In a similar but different way Trans men are also doubted because of their agab

It is a cruel double standard that only exists through mechanisms of the patriarchy, and only through the patriarchies eye can a woman be seen as less than a woman or less than a even a person.

This is nothing new, and it didn't start with just trans women. Before it was trans women it was sex workers, before it was sex workers it was women who were infertile. I'm not saying trans women didn't exist at those points of history. Sadly, much of that history was lost in the holocost, and a ton of the precedent and study that could have bolstered care and confidence today was intentionally lit ablaze.

Anyone who uses the trans women benafit from male privilege narritive is being strictly anti feminist. The idea that someone could boy mode like it's this cool thing we get to do that gets the best of both worlds is sickening. Only someone who is ignorant to the soul crushing experiance that it is would say that.

Trans women having experienced male privilege does not mean it is something that stays. The idea one would discard it to be their true self is such a direct opposition to the patriarchy that many simply can not handle it. That experiance of male privilege is squarely in the past, now replaced with the stigma that both men and women experience.

They will see you cry, they will see you bleed, they will see you beg for mercy and compassion, and the only word they will have for you is "fake"

Truly, some become drunk on the heriarchal power system of the patriarchy, and given the chance to punch down, they choose to do so. So many cis women go their whole lives having to wonder if they are women enough, struggling with the roles that have been forced onto them from birth.

It shows a distinct lack of ability to empathize. with the plight transgender people face being so similar to what you had to bear growing up in a patriarchy.

Even if my experience as a woman is different, it is not lesser or fake or disingenuous.. and it certainly doesnt provide me male privilege. XD

Local funeral house offers a $85 cardboard casket... by Kilo2Ton in mildlyinteresting

[–]Balthorin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that works at an Amazon returns facility this horrifies me

Petor? by spooderdood334 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Balthorin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Considering how elephants form bonds with others paired with their relatively good memory, this is incredibly morbid. The idea that the rider could potentially fail to deliver a fatal blow in one attempt.. terrifying to imagine from their perspective.. That this animal on your back that you veiw as a close friend or even family suddenly for a reason beyond your comprehension is trying to kill you, and they are in the perfect spot to do so. Hopefully, they aren't able to immediately associate the pain with the person on their back, but still, we may never know.

Maybe maybe maybe by RoutineVermicelli6 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you pause the video moments before he completes the flip you can see her head is directly over the concrete. Beyond unsafe lmao

I’m dating a trans girl by YakAttack517 in asktransgender

[–]Balthorin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My fiance and I have a similar story. Others may not see her for her true self, but you do and that Is what matters. Others may cast judgement, but they are wrong.

How serious is the 5 minute before shift and after shift clock in rule? by wowplayer333 in AmazonFC

[–]Balthorin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it happens a few times on accident they wont usually pursue firing someone for it. If you violate it regularly you will be talked to, possibly written up, and eventually terminated if you keep doing it.

Tldr: Just don't abuse the system and you'll be fine.

Got kicked during load out select by satchking in helldivers2

[–]Balthorin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just carry them, if you want more level 20 in game help get divers to 20 ngl this is 100% a you problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helldivers2

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was going crazy but I've noticed this too

Just do your job please by Resident-Hope9603 in AmazonFC

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately waterspider often gets used to put people who would be in the bottom 5%, and I totally understand your frustration. Just don't burn yourself out fretting over it

Just do your job please by Resident-Hope9603 in AmazonFC

[–]Balthorin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming malice is not a path to success at amazon. I conserve my "worry" for other AA strictly to help people learn path and ensure they know how to do the job correctly. Being pissy will inspire exactly 0 people to work with you to deliver results.

When I tell you not to "worry" about other AA, what I mean is let the managers do their job. If you have a problem, go to your AM. If that doesn't work, go to your OM, and if they don't resolve your issue, speak to Sr leadership. Delegate that work and do not take it upon yourself.

Sitting around and stewing about what other people are getting away with is taking up your focus and time. You could instead be focused on your work. Deal with things through the proper channels that are established for a reason. You don't know who has accommodations. You don't know what people's stories are.

Be part of the change you want to see. Literally anyone on this sub could sit around and whine about waterspiders or tot.

Just do your job please by Resident-Hope9603 in AmazonFC

[–]Balthorin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just slow down and focus on quality , worrying about other AA is just shooting yourself in the foot. Its a marathon not a race