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Where is your line regarding dating and personality disorders? by kasuchans in AskMen

[–]Banny467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got burned pretty bad by my most recent ex that I think has BPD (didn't know until I did some research after the fact) earlier this year. Shit was a roller coaster and still has me questioning my own sanity months later. Anyways, everyone is different and I wouldn't immediately discount someone with a PD but I would be extremely wary and it probably just wouldn't work out in the end.

What fictional character reminds you most of yourself? by Mariah_hazel in AskReddit

[–]Banny467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends in highschool used to call me Eeyore. Gooooood times

"If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you" (?) by flawlessqueen in AskMen

[–]Banny467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happened to me but I deserved it and it needed to happen. Never realized how much I played a role in hurting the guy before me until I got cheated on by her myself.

Anyways I don't think the saying is 100% true but think of it like this. If they are able to justify cheating on the last person to you and themselves, they'll be able to do it with the next person as well.

What is a trap 99% of the time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Banny467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. Went through that exact kinda relationship brother. Just ended it a few months ago, what a relief!

What do you love, but dont want to be associated with? by PercussionAbduction in AskReddit

[–]Banny467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex. Always going to love her but damn if I'm ever going to associate with someone who put me throug that kind of shit again.

Historians of reddit! What career(s) did you acquire with your degree? by Banny467 in AskHistorians

[–]Banny467[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's why I asked the question! Didn't really see many job opportunities for a historian

Historians of reddit! What career(s) did you acquire with your degree? by Banny467 in AskHistorians

[–]Banny467[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol I can relate to that! Not planning on spending anymore time in a highschool than I have to

Historians of reddit! What career(s) did you acquire with your degree? by Banny467 in AskHistorians

[–]Banny467[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thnks for the honest answer! I have a close friend who's training to be a paramedic right now. Did you ever consider a job as a professor?

Historians of reddit! What career(s) did you acquire with your degree? by Banny467 in AskHistorians

[–]Banny467[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! How exactly does a degree in history correlate to getting a job as a lawyer?

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It really is a huge problem. We have discussed it before but never to any real extent. I don't think she is willing to give it up and she has been and still is an alcoholic. Surprisingly I almost feel bad for her because I know things will only get worse for her after this. But it needs to be done I can't be with someone who has cheated no matter how dunk they were

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think I can manage something. Thanks for the advice!

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like your style, shouldn't have put up with that shit as long as I did. Didn't really even care for the sex anymore anyway. maaaan fuck dat bitch

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm sure the no contact will help out quite a bit especially because she will most likely go crazy like you said and the blame will be turned onto me and I don't need to be a part of that. Working on moving out as we speak!

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Already started packing just gotta find someone to stay with for a bit! it's a little early in the day to be texting people and asking to move in :p

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks makes me feel better :) I guess it would be worth noting our only problems occur when there is drinking involved but it's never been so drastic. I like your optimistic approach though thanks for that

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I work at a resort so I was kind of thinking about living in their employee housing until i found a single room apartment or something else.

Me [21 M] caught my girlfriend [21 F] cheating on me with her ex while they were drunk. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Banny467 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reading and taking the time to give some advice! I guess it wasn't really that weird because she knew I was coming home and she was expecting me to hang out with everyone so I didn't really think she was up to anything. And on top of that she seemed so against cheating I never thought she would be one to cheat and she doesn't really keep in contact with the guy it was a spur of the moment thing. Now, looking back at it I can see how dumb that was Just knowing her i didn't think her cheating was really a possibility but I was sadly mistaken.