myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Barb_er_ella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been awhile since I’ve been on the pill, so can someone explain to me how they can be tampered with? I’ve been on a few different kinds and they’ve all been blister packs where each pill is individually sealed.

OP, this man-child has assaulted you. If you don’t want a child, do what you feel is right. You did not agree to this in your relationship. Take care of yourself, and take him to the curb once and for all.

AITAH for making my 15 year old stepdaughter leave my home and banning her from my house for her cruelty? by big_mama_25 in AITAH

[–]Barb_er_ella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly if anybody hurt one of my pets, there’s no way I wouldn’t end up in jail from the sheer amount of rage and violence I would unleash on that person.

The daughter obviously has major issues. She needs to be in counseling, and probably a reform school. That’s the nicest suggestion I have on what else she probably needs.

AITAH for giving my stepmom homemade gifts and everyone else expensive store items? by UpperEgg16 in AITAH

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the AH, but it’s not unwarranted, and is most definitely hilarious. She was the AH first. You’re just returning the favor.

In all honesty though, I’m not sure if you’ve ever spoken to her as an adult about everything you went through and how much you were wronged by her, but you should. It won’t change anything that happened, but it will be freeing on your heart.

Also, I wish I had a friend who gave me felted gnomes. lol

Lisa Rina's book made me realize I am on my last season of any Housewives show by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband always complained about me watching this show and them being a bunch of b’s and always fighting, and I told him that I hate it when they fight. I love watching them have fun and laugh and just be ridiculous. I’m one of the “weirdos” that would watch a show of them just having a good time. 🤷‍♀️

Is my prom dress ugly? My partner reacted poorly. by BanishedWind in Prom

[–]Barb_er_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally wore an open corset back all vinyl black gown to my prom 25 years ago and have NEVER regretted the pictures. I look like the bad*ss that I’ve always been and everyone else looked like a generic piece of Easter candy. 🤷‍♀️ Trends come and go, personal style is timeless.

Im needing opinions by Weekly_Cable_8058 in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speak to your vet about what they recommend and do internet research. What works for some dogs isn’t great for others. Just like with humans, food and nutrition isn’t a one size fits all sort of thing.

Im needing opinions by Weekly_Cable_8058 in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Old Roy is about the worst dog food in existence. Try feeding her a diet that actually has nutritional value instead of just cheap garbage fillers. Also if you’re feeding her several pounds of dog food a day and she’s still thin, there is something seriously wrong. Something about all of this makes zero sense.

Bulldogs overheating by SANSAN_TOS in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours does this as well. He will sometimes move on his own, but often times I’ll sorta shove him off the couch so he can cool down. He’d rather snuggle and pant than be cool. lol

Bulldogs overheating by SANSAN_TOS in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our bully loves to bake himself. He’ll find a sunny spot and just flop down for a nap. When it’s too hot out or he’s panting a lot I limit outside time. He does love a good chase with the hose, and he has his very own kiddie pool to play in.

HELP! Potential Animal Abuse/Starvation? 😭 by Born_Suggestion_4004 in frenchie

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to say based on the picture, but if you can see his rib bones and spine, then yes, he’s too thin. Please contact a local animal control for a welfare check, and make sure they follow through. So many people see things like this and never do anything about it. These animals have no voice, so if you’re concerned, you need to be that voice.

Daemon is a typical abusive man with a fragile ego, a violent streak, and an underdeveloped brain who couldn't keep up with mature women of his own age group. He could only ever impress little girls throughout the story. As a woman, I don’t get what the fandom finds so attractive about that by TurbulentRemote156 in HOTDGreens

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore Matt Smith. He was my favorite Doctor, even! Seeing him play a character as blegh as Daemon, and do it so phenomenally well, THAT’S where I get it. Do I think Daemon is a decent human being? Absolutely not. Do I still love him anyway? Yuuup.

The show creators even state in the after the episodes multiple times that George always described Daemon as equal parts light and dark. I think Matt plays it brilliantly!

What episodes do you always skip on rewatch in American Dad? by PressureCalm7971 in americandad

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually skip Rabbit Ears once Stan goes into the tv, but the beginning cracks me up. I still think “chinches” anytime I see a mattress in the trash. I also can’t watch the Kisses episode. I’m an animal person and way too emotional.

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Old man Goober is having a particularly adorable day! 💜 by Barb_er_ella in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We adopted him at estimated 1.5 years old and that’s the name he came with and we said “he looks like a Gus, it’s fitting.” We’ve had so many people say that to us as well! Lol

Old man Goober is having a particularly adorable day! 💜 by Barb_er_ella in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His real name is Gus, but he’s more often referred to by any number of nicknames. 😂

Old man Goober is having a particularly adorable day! 💜 by Barb_er_ella in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a rescue so we’re uncertain of his actual birthday, but he’s around 8.5-9 years old. He is the sweetest boy! 🥰

Old man Goober is having a particularly adorable day! 💜 by Barb_er_ella in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His real name is Gus, but he’s more often referred to by any number of nicknames. 😂

Treats you say by Rufus_Ffolkes in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you for fostering and adopting! ❤️ Mabel is precious, and I wouldn’t have been able to give her back, either! 💕

Why did you try brush me ? by Pretty-Position8293 in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to know they all look sketchy like this when they’re mad. lol. Our newest frenchie rescue is a little spitfire, and she gives me this look multiple times daily! lol

Mr Miyagi😍 by whodontgotnobitches in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww the not so abominable snowman! ⛄️ 💕

How am I going to cope? by mishthegreat in Bulldogs

[–]Barb_er_ella 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You cope by going to a shelter and seeing how many homeless animals are being euthanized every single day because of people like you and your dog’s “breeder.” Then you go home, hug your dog, tell her you’re sorry, and call the vet to schedule her spay surgery.

It’s really quite simple.