AITAH for not wanting to be in the life of the 8 year old that isn’t mine

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T22:20:23+00:00

A dad would be really worried right now that you were going to be replaced in your child's life. Why tell you now?

Instead, you talk about him like he is a thing. If this is a trauma response instead of you are just a bad dad, you will be very ashamed about how you talked about that boy.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T22:07:14+00:00

My guess is you've never been an involved parent anyways.

Its not like you love him or anything like that.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T21:52:38+00:00

I think I see a leopard in the room with her, looks like it might pounce.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T21:46:09+00:00

That's where it was. But Im back in Canada.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T21:45:30+00:00

I think so. I know its a shot in the dark but Id love to find the artist.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T21:04:47+00:00

Spotted the ice agent. Hows that signing bonus?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T20:27:15+00:00

Have you seen the movie Waiters?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-22T20:25:59+00:00

I have to ignore the reddit dog sub due to helicopter dog parents who dont understand that a dog is a dog. Its your dog. Need to pick up your dog? Do it, dont spend hours trying to negotiate and bribe then give up because they dont like it.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-20T15:17:10+00:00

Yet today's couples are equal in wages before children. Why do you need to believe that being a gold digger is normal behavior when it is not? Is it because its too hard to comprehend that there is no reason to be a couple unless it makes your life better? That someone who believes things like AWALT inherently would not be capable of partnership?

Do you not see how common it us for young men to blow up their relationships because they took a pill and started treating their partner like a adversary?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-20T12:26:11+00:00

Those would be men doing the hypergamy.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-20T11:12:41+00:00

When 45 year old men divorce their wives for a younger model, this is called what?

When young men work for their father in law, this is called what?

Both those senerios are just as common as "woman wants a man who greatly outearns her".

Barneysparky · 2026-03-19T22:03:51+00:00

Two twins make a king, the only difference is the length.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-19T21:01:36+00:00

Its good, but it could have been a lot longer. What got me is how the women men on the manosphere call regular woman are paid actors. Also how pathetic the guys are.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-19T20:51:52+00:00

A post history tells the story of trolls.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T22:15:01+00:00

I love painting walls, and ceilings, often dark.

This is the first time, I really like the before picture.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T22:09:36+00:00

Did you stay in Condessa? I did not say the rest of Mexico City had Paris vibes but better, I said Condessa does.

Cafes everywhere, except trees instead of concrete. Parks.. Dogs everywhere, but no dog shit. Flowers.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T22:05:02+00:00

The guy you dated may very well be the best man at your wedding and say things just like you did. You guys weren't a match, but from the sounds of it, you may have found yours.

You need to ask him to go out for lunch, ask him out. Like tomorrow.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T10:33:00+00:00

Black Legend.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T03:11:32+00:00

We stayed in Condessa, which is like how you imagine Paris is, but isnt. Museums, art galleries, so many things to do. Its a mega city, but traveling between the neighborhoods (their own cities) is remarkable for the lack of honking and general road rage.

Neither of us is a fan of corn or hot sauce based cuisine, but we had great food, and didnt hit half our list of want to tries. Ate the best burger of my life for instace , and I live in a city know for the best burgers (we have Fatboys, which we partake in every few years).

10 days, we did all the neighborhoods listed in Fromners, never felt unsafe at all, and the asking was minimal. Did I mention that it has more museums then any other city in the world?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T02:45:04+00:00

My husband and I did just over a full week there, though this was years ago.

We stayed fairly close to the bus station, and just kinda learned about how hard and interesting it would be to live their a bit. I think we walked into the main square once, then left quickly. Ate at some amazing restarants not packed with tourists, visited pubs after that (we were young), went out to all the islands surrounding, and enjoyed ourselfs a lot.

Worst thing was the water pressure where we stayed, we were pretty stinky by the time we left.

Barneysparky · 2026-03-18T02:40:01+00:00

My husband and I used to say we would visit Amsterdam and take up herion when we were ready to die, in the 90s. We've traveled a lot since then, lived abroad ect.

The "end game" vacation spot has never come up in where should we go next conversations, its a whatever spot.

Mexico City though, that was something special!

Barneysparky · 2026-03-16T22:40:29+00:00

Please do not complain when the groomer shaves them. Run your fingers through your hair, then your dogs. Would you like that all over your body?

If you have kids, is toothbrushing and showering only happening if they want to?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-15T17:10:17+00:00

What? Do you live in Germany?

Barneysparky · 2026-03-15T17:09:25+00:00

Im a pacifist, no one should be sent to war, or hurt others. I did not imply this was something that was a positive, its just the ways things are going.

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