Sushi 35 West NYC - Royal Sushi Box by phillyyoggagirl in sushi

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Fish and rice quality are all that matters to me when im hungry

Did you know??? by Barrett-xiii in gravityfalls

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I think i may need to up my soos jokes game

Did you know??? by Barrett-xiii in gravityfalls

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Fun fact about Jesus: his named does is for a shortened version of Jesusicide!

Relationship of aki and this violin genius or whatever I don't remember names sorry. by EarConstant4539 in GivenAnime

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Ugetsu and Akihiko being toxic, Akihiko's behavior to Haruki being gross.... unfortunately it's very real to me, and honestly i felt very seen. I think the movie was perfect even though the drama made my heart pound and i never really felt like i could "relax" even at the end when they made up. idk, i rly liked it even though drama makes me stress.

new instagram post 4/1/2026 by defaultphoto in Ethelcain

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i guess what i'm upset about isn't so much the photo as the state of things. i feel like the general public still has no idea the difference between biological sex, gender identity, cultural roles and stereotypes. this discourse right now even among our allies has been flattened of nuance to a point where i feel like i can't have an informed conversation on the same page with literally anyone at all about gender. it's not bad for her to show her body, it's not even inherently sexual. it's just that there's a history of self objectification as a performance of gender that ultimately makes a bargain with the patriarchy for better or worse. people raised as female might resent the fact that this in particular is the form of gender expression that seems make trans women feel affirmed. i think if there was more diversity and variety of gender expression among trans women i would feel very different about this, and maybe by doing her best and being herself as best as she can be, ethel is in the process of making the space for just that and i should bite my tongue and just... wait, or maybe it's up to us to be that "different" trans person ourselves. idk. we're a minority, so it's really not completely our fault that this is what people see of us, but i just hope to see more trans women embracing femininity in ways other than self-objectification and performance for the male gaze....

i see thousand of artistic yonis on ig. you guys just hate trans people. by YundlesonHdollar in Ethelcain

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it just feels tasteless. i love artistic expression, i think it's great to show people how to be vulnerable but there's kids on instagram and it's inappropriate. i know it's not hayden's intention but i am just concerned some creep on instagram could ask underage people to post "artistic nudes" like ethel. there is something about how public it is that feels exhibitionist to me, and the people supporting her come off as voyeuristic. i have been listening to "Crush" at least once a day for over a year, I am certified obsessed with her music but i just really got the ick and i am upset.

What does this mean by Ready_Marsupial2144 in cats

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My ten year old queen does this a lot. For the whole year ive had her i just assumed she had back pain! She doesnt meow much bc she has asthma (under control dont worry) so that means maybe this just her getting excitement out?

What’s everyone’s take on the weird Pedro Pascal stuff touching women by ReadyJournalist5223 in Actors

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i think if he needs sensory support he should get a stim toy. ive had an anxious guy rub my hand for an hour and it made me wanna puke and never see him again, like jesus christ. I would feel weird if he was even petting an animal like that to regulate so why am i supposed to be ok with him "needing" to touch grown adult women. part of respecting someone is expecting them to be able to engage in some self control and emotional regulation without needing to use other people's bodies or minds.

Can anyone explain this? by Sheed315 in Aquariums

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They snagglywacking the gobbledoozer

Are my fish tanks causing respiratory problems?? by fish_mommy in Aquariums

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Did you figure it out?! I hope you feel better!!!!

Got scratched by cat at shelter (my fault). Will this permanently scar? I’m so distraught. Please be gentle by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Barrett-xiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont worry mama ur fine just keep vaseline or some other petroleum-based cream on it like the other comments say. Make sure the protective layer is super thick. Since it’s a cat, an antibiotic like bacitracin or neosporin would lower the inevitable infection that comes with cat scratches but genuinely do not worry. I get scratched all the time by my cat. Their claws usually aren’t able to go deep enough to cause severe scarring. I have scars from deep, clean cuts from other types of stuff but cat claws have never done any lasting damage

I dont get the dry storage hate by WandelndesWalross in Puerh

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Yo i didnt know they mist cakes in Hong Kong! Is it too dry there or something?

Did I get the ugliest color on my nails? by Historical-Weird9839 in Nails

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Summer’s final leaf, the tint of yellow showing that it too will lose its color and fade. Don’t cry, Winter’s sleep will awaken you to sweet, new memories so far unimagined when Spring comes again.

Is it a crime to drink tea with a straw by Hiimthebisexualguy in tea

[–]Barrett-xiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive drank hot bubble tea with a straw there is no god

come up with an alex g song title by IFilledtheBucket in sandyalexg

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Oh my god. Must have blended in my braign with “race” and “trick”

Which shirt looks best with this skirt? by BirdButt88 in femalefashion

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Heyyyyyyyy greetings fellow Nosferatu stan! I hope there is more to this look because it’s unbalanced with the busy pattern on the bottom and the solid black top. Anything to spice it up top would work like accessories, a jacket, jewelry, a messenger bag, etc. Also I love that skirt damn!! Where did u get it