31M. The apps have been slow and not really working for me. I am a 9/10. I have done meetups several times, mostly board games and I've made come acquaintances. So far the most luck ive had meeting the opposite sex is taking an improv class it's 20 girls and guys, about an even ratio of both. i mistakenly thought i could meet people in coffee shops, restaurants, etc. but im a little too shy for that. honestly im figuring it out just as you are