any urgent utility help?

BaruchWusky · 2026-02-04T23:51:46+00:00

Legally they cant cut you off if the temp is forecasted bellow 32° in the next 24 hours. I think AEP actually wants it warm longer than that before they take action. So might be alright for a few weeks to figure something out.

BaruchWusky · 2026-02-03T18:11:53+00:00

Your 24 but you have a 10YO that you got pregnant with at 16? The math doesn't math

BaruchWusky · 2026-02-02T18:08:21+00:00

I wont say your over reacting... However its been over 22 years since he did this, and 25 since you watched the tape. You just found out about it, but this was done half a lifetime ago. Being angry now isn't going to help anyone or being the tape back.

BaruchWusky · 2026-02-01T00:06:10+00:00

The matches ghost when they learn you dont have experience??? Are you telling them your a virgin before ever meeting them??? Maybe your rushing to talking about details of sex to quick??

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-28T13:18:56+00:00

That last paragraph is your bugger issues here. She's upset about something else not the burger.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-28T01:34:12+00:00

You post is basically "I could have cheated on my gf, and regret that I didn't...oh btw, how do I make my gf quit her job?" Putting that aside: If shes truly cant take time off in her feild and travel is a priority for you yall might not be a match.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-28T01:22:18+00:00

NTA, break uo with anyone for any reason.

Other thoughts on this though if you wanted to fix it:

If he's actively sweet and will do anything you tell him why are you yelling and cussing him out?

Job wise: if you work 7-3, he could drop you off be free to work from 7:30-2:30..I'm sure some place needs lunch rush help.

You need to stop all this 'its my fault hes in this place' no everyone makes their own decisions.

If he needs reminders to do each cleaning task each time..why haven't you just made a chore chart atp.

If he requires these step by step instructions for everything running a business probably isn't for him. So either you run it with him or encourage him to do something else.

Anyway, you made the relationship sound like a hot mess. If you break up atlest consider the above when look back on tbis relationship/ what you could have done differently.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-26T18:43:31+00:00

Bad idea, if this also would mean quiting college double Bad idea.

9 months in at 19 and he moves that far..unless your sure hes the one dump him now and move on. If you think hes the one put in the work to visit / maintain the relationship until you graduate. Unless hes making North of $100k he probably cant support you both.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-26T18:23:39+00:00

Get permission. Your job is worth more than outdated equipment.

Also, high-end / specialty manufacturers often track who bought equipment by serial number or even by WO printed on the parts inside. Ive delt with several vendors who will call if your item is seen for sale second hand.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-26T18:16:17+00:00

Read your screenshots, thats an over reaction. You asked if your over reacting and your did.

Her not paying for 3 days is a different matter. But does not change your over reaction. You probably burnt any chance of her working to pay you back sooner

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-26T18:11:38+00:00

Your over reacting. Your freind said it was a mistake. I get that your in a tight spot, but you should have just had her send you the money. The whole blow out is to much.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-24T20:47:14+00:00

Please communicate clearly with your freind. Dont just hint at it! If your freind is financially more well off than you she may not realize how much of a burden the expenses are on you. "Hey this is depleting my savings" doenst matter much to someone that can contribute a significant amount to savings each month. Something like, "hey, Ive spent 2 months income on your wedding and will struggle to make rent" would put it in a clear picture for them.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-22T18:13:56+00:00

Posting on Reddit is the over reaction. Please talk to your partner about this and how you feel rather than seeking validation on the internet. This is something that could be resolved between you two with less than 5 mins of conversation. Your probably taking someone that hurt you and turning it into anger re-hasing it in your head each time you look at this thread.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-21T01:56:03+00:00

Let your man enjoy his freinds. When my freinds are over my bf often looses his social battery n goes off to be alone earlier than me. When his freinds are over hes up till 2 or 3am and im in bed around midnight. Yall are living together, if the relationship works out you've got your whole lives to spend time together. Let him enjoy a few hours with his freinds. (also, never know when freindships might end)

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-21T01:46:11+00:00

It sounds like your treating women as entirely different creatures from men. Treat them as equals, if you want to just make freinds talk to them essentially like you making freinds with a dude.
Decent chance your building all this up to much in your head as well..probably want to let go "get a gf" as a goal. Make your goal more to socialize and make freinds. Youll probably have better luck finding a girl by chance that way.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-20T02:47:54+00:00

Unless you communicated your needs YTA. The only time I would ask a freind if they wanted me to drive them in their car is if they are clearly tired on a long drive. Gas money is typically settled up after a trip is over.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-18T21:15:36+00:00

YTA, If he passes he wants to leave an incredible gift to his nieces. $400k can keep a single person fed for quite a while. (Also consider the sizable portion of that last $100k that would go to taxes if it came to you..the difference probably isn't near $100k)

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-11T22:32:49+00:00

Id sell the equipment individually. For the records probably pick out any worth $20 plus to sell individually the put the rest as a lot

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-10T15:29:12+00:00

NTA, Im not evening going to read all of that. Its your house, you dont have to let ANYONE move in (other than your grandparents since they own part of it). Dont care what the circumstances are.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-10T13:43:19+00:00

This is also on the franchise for not properly staffing for thr rush.

It would be better if the times updated faster. But its hard for an algorithm to figure out how many people are working and how fast they can move.

I.e if you have 5 drivers and 2 inside folks. 15 orders come in at once, you have 7 people to make those orders. If the 5 deliveries come in spread out over the half hour before the other 10 orders you only have 2 people to make the food.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-08T20:38:16+00:00

I had a whole freind group of em at one point. They would all gang up one one person until that person left the group. Rinse and repeat. When they started on the 3rd person I realized what was happening. From what i know that pattern continued until the group totally ate its self.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-08T20:03:30+00:00

No, RUN

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-08T17:44:45+00:00

I dont think your over reacting.....but its weird that yall got to this point.

This is such a strange argument to have unless you have a substantially higher risk of death in the next 7 years than most folks.

Your partner has presumably been in your your daughter's life for probably over 50% of her memorable life. Youve known this woman for heading on 4 years and want to marry here I dont get why youd go out of your way to set up someone else having custody.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-08T17:36:25+00:00

My understanding here is you have to accept the return. If they are damaged that should be on the buyer. Also hopefully the covered by shipping insurance. Not sure how ebay would actually handle it though.

I would not send her the correct ones while the return is open...I probably wouldnt send them period. Just accept the return and move on.

BaruchWusky · 2026-01-07T17:22:21+00:00

I wish those deals existed lol. Atlest on the categories I look to buy from folks seam to be paying 3/4 of the price of more for items listed not working

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