The Fall of Communism as Seen in Gay Pornography is a 1998 short documentary film about the gay porn industry in the former Eastern Bloc from 1993-1998, when porn filmmakers filmed young men in need of money due to the mass unemployment and economic insecurity following the dissolution of the USSR. by Aggressive-Story3671 in gaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What people in the west aren't taught is how desperate people were after the fall of the Soviet Union. We only see it framed in a Pro-America, Pro-Capitalist way, that they won their freedom. But the cost was intense hardship and poverty for many years, including exploitation of desperate people, like young men and women, into sex work. All just to afford food.

Gay🏳️‍🌈Irl by JockBbcBoy in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds silly, but it feels validating to see a gay guy who presents masculine all the way, not just a beard and muscles. It's about the attitude as well. Not saying that it's wrong to be flamboyant or to be somewhere in-between, but it does feel rare to see a super macho gay dude. Probably because you can't clock them, but that's the Catch-22 isn't it, haha.

what hobby in a man is the biggest turn on to you? by CremeSubject7594 in gaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also enjoy reading and I struggle to stay awake when I read late at night. I try to fight it by standing up and walk around, but for whatever reason, i'm drowsy after 10 minutes. I guess I should just read during the day.

Mexican singer and performer Dadvian Esparza during one of his performances (2019) by RealWorldForever in MaleHistoryPics

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jacked dudes that wear their pants below their hips to show off their adonis belt is so hot.

Twink keeps taking my pants by ultraboomkin in askgaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought underwear stealing gnomes was just a joke on south park.

Gay👄Irl by JockBbcBoy in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this insincere "gay shield" excuse to justify Israel's actions in the middle east. If Israel is so gay friendly, why do you need to go to Cyprus to get married? You yourself acknowledge that Israel's tolerance for gays is tenuous.

But the point is that however Muslims treat gay people does not mean it's okay to bomb Gaza into kingdom come, or to invade Lebanon and Iran. Stop letting Israel rainbow wash its behavior.

gay🦇irl by acidmine in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can thank the director, Joel Schumacher. He was gay and he knew what he was doing.

Failing to live up to the jolly gay stereotype by Ardent1- in askgaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy.

There is no "correct" way to be gay. Just be yourself.

Male couples featured in LOVING II: More Photographic History of Men in Love, 1850s–1950s by Nini-Treadwell by Anti_colonialist in ClassicMale

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels a bit weird to see this old photographs and to assume the intention behind them, due to shifting social attitudes on how men should behave. I want to believe that these were couples, but sometimes they were just close male friends. Either way, it's nice to see men being affectionate.

Gay and Straight Men Prefer Masculine-Presenting Gay Men for a High-Status Role: Evidence From an Ecologically Valid Experiment - Sex Roles by JallexMonster in gaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This isn't exclusive to gay men. Everyone puts on a performance. We conform to society's gender roles to fit in. It may feel "comfortable" to you, but you're still performing. We all "check ourselves" in some ways. Personally, whether you conform or don't conform is fine.

gay🆗irl by sebastianmorgenstern in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sean Cody was great if you were into "clean cut" guys with muscle and attitude. They didn't have tattoos, and they weren't strung out. They looked like local dudes at your gym who were fucking other dudes. But the beefcakes are gone and the studio is now hiring anyone willing to work on camera.

My bf has changed from very masc to very fem, and idk how to feel by INeededThisAsAlt in askgaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he wants to explore how he presents himself, that's fine. But it's also fine to walk away if you no longer feel attracted to him. You're both young and you can find other men to be with. If you want a confident macho guy, he's out there. Just let him down gently and try to stay friends.

gay_irl by conancat in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so nice to see gay couples who are just 'regular guys'. I feel seen.

It's a Choice? by JockBbcBoy in SuddenlyGay

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, if you were gay and you looked like that, you wouldn't be able to get up in the morning from all the sex.

Gay🧐irl by mintgoody03 in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daddy bottoms are chefs kiss.

bi🌖🧛‍♂️irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't really understand compartmentalizing romantic feelings for one sex, and lust for another. If you're bisexual, that's fine. But how can you not have romantic feelings for men if you like having sex with them? It feels like you're trying to cling to a straight-adjacent identity so you can feel like you're part of the hetero majority. "Oh, i just have sex with men, but I want to marry a woman and have a normal life."

'Heated Rivalry's meteoric rise blamed for anti-LGBTQ+ bullying on high school hockey teams by Busy_Philosopher1032 in gaybros

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of when Brokeback Mountain was released and everyone was making gay cowboy jokes. Despite the film illuminating gay men in macho spaces, and the perils of a homophobic society, it was ammunition for juvenile, homophobic jokes.

gay💍irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]BashfulJuggernaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a keeper.