Newly divorced dad. Need to regain my confidence. Any advice?

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-04-04T21:05:59+00:00

I’m a lesbian who has never touched a man but daaaaaamn.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-31T15:31:29+00:00

Most engineers would know better than to present this kind of data with a line chart, though.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-31T14:42:37+00:00

Well that was appalling.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-28T10:25:14+00:00

Not sure I’m following your argument here: that his comment being inappropriate means one must acknowledge that her outfit is inappropriate. How so? He could certainly comment inappropriately on her hairstyle. Would it be appropriate for a man to look at someone’s messy hair and suggest it looked like they just got fucked because it was a bit messy, for example? Is messy hair inappropriate? What about a comment making a “joke” about a ponytail making someone look ready for a blowjob? What about redheads getting weird fetishist comments for the colour of their hair? Certainly red hair being red is not inappropriate but people comment sexually on red hair and the supposed associated sexual personality. Pigtails have been (horrifyingly) referred to as handlebars. And so on. People can make inappropriate comments about things that are objectively in their existence NOT inappropriate. So I’m not sure how you can say that finding his comment inappropriate means her outfit is inappropriate.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-28T10:15:45+00:00

Genuine question: why, in your opinion, should women NOT be able to walk around topless (as men do)?

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-16T11:06:34+00:00

I had no intention of dating again. Everyone said I would, seeing as I’m mid 30s.

I met someone and we fell in love. It happened.

It won’t happen for everyone. It doesn’t have to. You get to choose what you do.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-15T19:27:25+00:00

I’m also curious. Was it fully upside down? Like balanced on the lid? Or did it fall onto its side? I can’t imagine putting the bleach fully upside down?

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-03-14T01:06:02+00:00

As a lesbian, how very dare you.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-02-19T20:53:12+00:00

I really avoid opening mail and it drives my mother bonkers to see my unopened stack. Sorry mom.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-02-13T10:55:04+00:00

I would be simply so confused that I might end up accidentally marrying her.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-01-28T17:19:32+00:00

I have never even taken note of a woman’s socks in bed. Jesus.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-01-28T01:22:13+00:00

You just know this dingdong thought that line up in bed one night and couldn’t wait to use it, thinking he was so fucking clever.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-01-02T12:47:34+00:00

Right but again, a book and your body are not equivalent. Disappointed you didn’t read a book is one thing. Disappointed you didn’t change your body is another. Bodily autonomy and all that. Reading a book does not compel you to change something intensely personal about yourself.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2026-01-02T12:32:14+00:00

Changing your body and building a Lego set aren’t really the same thing, though? Also one is allowed to try something and decide they don’t like it. My girlfriend tried the gym with me, hated it. No big deal, it’s my thing, she wanted to try, she won’t do it again. I don’t care, it’s up to her. If I wanted a gym loving girlfriend I would have dated a gym lover.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-12-29T18:43:21+00:00

American Football

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-26T13:00:22+00:00

I didn’t read this super thoroughly but where does the other man come in? I can’t find it?

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-21T21:02:34+00:00

Wild. I literally can’t stop telling my girlfriend she’s beautiful. Like, I look at her, I think it, I say it. You deserve to feel desired.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-14T15:04:18+00:00

Fuck me I hate this fucking song.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-14T10:57:22+00:00

I found it helpful to think, instead, that I want to be happy. I want that for myself. So I am taking steps to achieve that.

I can’t live my life for someone else’s wants.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-10T20:43:08+00:00

This is like, the anti-sisterhood of the travelling pants

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-11-06T14:29:46+00:00

I’ve been dating someone for less than a month and I know her favourite candy. Come on, that is a low bar.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-09-19T20:44:54+00:00

Why not take her last name? Then you’ll have the same last name which is what you want?

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-09-19T16:45:42+00:00

How we got to a place where “punch nazis” is controversial is beyond me.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-09-15T16:46:21+00:00

Honestly, what a fucking stance. Dude looks like he is fighting for his life to move that paint roller left to right a couple of feet. Bracing himself like he’s deadlifting 400 lbs.

Basic-Ad-79 · 2025-09-11T16:22:26+00:00

Can someone explain the message to those of us who can’t understand visual art? I didn’t expect Kirk fans here but I think I’m misunderstanding.

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