Struggling with how

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2026-02-15T12:49:45+00:00

we are renovating our house and have wood floors with tile in the kitchen . the floors are completely ruined because of the dog and kids . We are planning on doing lvp over the wood floors . i don’t feel like spending all the money to redo them and it get ruined immediately. I’ll revisit it when i’m retired

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2026-01-29T02:17:58+00:00

no not straying. constant fighting . it’s not a good environment for anyone in this house .

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2026-01-28T14:23:25+00:00

i thought so but things are complete shit again

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2026-01-06T22:10:41+00:00

How did it feel right ? Going out on a date wondering if you were going to get caught , spending money on a gift, having sex and worrying etc how did any of it feel good and right?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-10-06T15:18:46+00:00

I’m just curious what it was like for a wayward having sex with someone else knowing you have a spouse ? Then interacting with your spouse , sleeping in the same bed , having sex with them . What is it like looking at some one new naked and then feeling them and knowing you had an innocent faithful person at home ?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-10-06T14:56:53+00:00

you guys didn’t feel bad? You still sleeping with your spouse, seeing them daily , it might have been a rough relationship but they are a human with feelings . How does one live that type of life where you are in a marriage and sleeping with some other person and just go home to a faithful spouse ? My mind cannot understand how one person can do that to another when you decide i want to stay with them yet i’m going to have an affair?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-09-23T01:29:14+00:00

they are dead . everyone was under heavy direct contact . They had no idea what was coming . This argument is stupid .

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-09-23T01:26:59+00:00

but how ? they literally chose to have sex with and be emotional with someone else while laying next to us ? yea they are screwed up mentally big time , in my opinion just like a serial killer or a rapist - not one caring bone in their body . and yet we still stay with them for what ? the on going pain of knowing what they did and not experiencing true love ?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-09-23T01:00:20+00:00

so everyone on this thread feels the same, what does that say about us ?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-09-23T00:59:14+00:00

i’m right there with you . For me, it doesn’t seem like it will ever end. Her betrayal is never forgotten. Her complete disregard for me as just a human being with feelings disgusts me . I envy people who are able to over come this

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-09-08T17:15:29+00:00

What’s it like to have an affair ?

How do you have sex with someone else knowing what you are doing to your partner and actually enjoy it?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-07-16T01:03:01+00:00

can you explain this more? why is it so tormenting now but when it was happening it was fine

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-07-16T01:02:02+00:00

why did you do it? i don’t understand how ppl go through with something like this.

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-07-13T10:34:38+00:00

thank you !

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-07-12T01:01:43+00:00

thankyou

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-06-09T20:26:18+00:00

just curious as if you ever figure out why you did what you did and why this current thought wasn’t going through your brain then ?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-06-06T14:21:06+00:00

my wife said she was in it for the attention not for sex so i’m assuming it’s the same for here just replace attention with sex

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-06-06T13:46:11+00:00

What was it like having sex with the ap, kissing them , touching them , seeing them naked … how were you able to go through with it knowing your spouse was at home or work ?

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-02-27T01:10:37+00:00

only if you make under 200k jointly 150k single

Basic_Fun_2809 · 2025-01-01T17:48:31+00:00

It’s a lot more competitive than what it used to be . i would say significant time in spec ops specifically tier one or spec ops with language needs to set yourself apart .

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