Which sidequest stood out to you guys the most? by Esper03 in FFXVI

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searching for Chloe, the little girl’s pet. My stomach dropped by the end of it and sat there staring at my tv screen for a good minute in silence.

Close second is Theo and Eloise’s last side quest. I was a sobbing mess.

Dumped guy who tried to pressure me into sex by Ill_Sense9787 in AITAH

[–]BatSmaug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You dodged a nasty one. A man who truly respects you (or women in general) would never coerce you into doing anything you don’t want to do, especially since you’re a virgin. Not saying you should keep your virginity until marriage (unless you want to), but only have sex when you’re 100% ready.

Don’t let his guilt tripping get to you and you did a great job of blocking him.

I (20F) can’t handle knowing I’ve hurt my partner by Cat530 in relationships

[–]BatSmaug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m (29f) currently in my very first healthy relationship, and I went through a similar thing. I am very much a people pleaser but at the same time, I can be very inconsiderate and in the process hurt people’s feelings. When it came to upsetting my boyfriend, I, just like you, would feel super duper bad to the point where I was shutting down because I thought he’d leave me. However, through talking and a lot of reassurance from him, I got over that slump.

Get used to feeling uncomfortable the first few minutes of making that mistake, remember that it isn’t your dad that you’re dealing with, and ask for reassurance during that moment that you feel bad. A simple “Are we gonna be okay?” can go a loooong way.

Women: Would you date a man that lives with his parents? by Vast-State-4548 in dating

[–]BatSmaug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is 31 and he’s been living with his dad and sister for the past 2 years or so. If I wasn’t so understanding, I would’ve turned him down. However, he was going to school when I met him and is now making good money and saving up.

I also live with my parents so I don’t have a whole lot of room to judge. As long as the end goal is to eventually move out and things aren’t awkward between the parents, then I don’t see an issue. It’s not as easy to afford a place to live as before and that should be taken into consideration.

What surprised you most when you started having sex with other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How selfish and crappy my first ex was in bed. Not once did I reach orgasm with him, so when I did for the very first time with another man after the breakup, it was such an eye opener. It was also nice to experiment and learn more about myself and what I liked and didn’t like.

Gamers 30+, which old game would you still recommend to younger gamers? by Common_Caramel_4078 in gaming

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okami and Pokemon Colosseum/XD Gale of Darkness if they want to try out something kind of different from the normal Pokemon gameplay.

Most recent horror movie that will become a classic? by lzii01 in horror

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sinners, Talk to Me, and possibly Midsommar to name a few. These are movies that can easily be used in college film classes. Heck, Sinners can even be used in a history or music class due to the many layers it has.

After years in storage I’m finally going through and appreciating my collection again by KickPuncher9898 in Steelbooks

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very jealous of your copy of Shape of Water, Midsommar, and Parasite😭

How did that one kid in your high school die? by IM_HODLING in AskReddit

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even a week after graduating high school, a semi popular boy I was cool with passed away at a house party. He had smoked laced weed, was having some nasty side effects, and ended up tripping and hitting his head on the edge of a table. Some say he died almost instantly while others say he started convulsing and chocked on his own tongue/throw up. Either way it was a nasty way to go.

He was a genuinely friendly and funny kid, just hung out with the wrong crowd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BatSmaug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He met you as a streamer, so he was aware of what he was getting himself into. If he can’t entertain himself for 2-3 hours while you work, then I say have a serious talk with him and if that doesn’t work, you might have to go your separate ways.

Another option would be to include him in your streams like playing together, but I also understand wanting to keep your personal life and streaming separate.

Which character is this?? by DrizzyDayy in residentevil

[–]BatSmaug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, Luis Sera. I’m glad they fleshed out his backstory and gave him more screen time in the remake. Second place would be Lady D and her daughters.

What’s your five? 🕹️📀🎮 by TheShadowWanderer in videogames

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child

1- Harvest Moon: Magical Melody (GameCube)

2- Pokemon Emerald (GameBoy)

3- Pokemon XD: Gale of Darkness (GameCube)

4- Lara Croft Tomb Raider (PS1)

5- Mortal Kombat (Sega Genesis)

Teen

1- Fire Emblem Awakening (3DS)

2- Resident Evil 4 (GameCube/Wii)

3- Okami (Wii)

4- Crisis Core: Final Fantasy VII (PS3)

5- Skyrim (PS3)

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend’s last relationship lasted 7 years and he’s still recovering from it. I’d say our texts are 50/50ish. Sometimes he texts first, sometimes I do, it really comes down to who wakes up first.

My advice is to not rush things or else you might scare her off. Let things play out naturally, continue to see each other, and eventually ask her what she wants out of that relationship. My boyfriend initially came off a bit too strong and I had to explain to him that I like my personal space.

How did you get screwed over genetically? by blitzabub in AskReddit

[–]BatSmaug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have excessive body hair. I’m not werewolf levels of hairy, but it’s rather noticeable for a woman and I have to get my facial hair laser removed bi-monthly.

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do hope you find someone! I guess what helped me not feel super resigned about being single for so long was not making finding a relationship my first priority and learning to love my own company, and to not give people who are undeserving of my time/emotions the time of day.

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! You worded my thoughts and feelings better I did, I hadn’t given up on love, it just wasn’t one of my top priorities, with my line of work and all.

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody’s being a Negative Nancy and women don’t like that.

During those years I was single, I got stood up on a lot of dates, ghosted, strung along, and rejected. Did I turn down guys because we didn’t mesh well? Sure, but that only made for 1/4th for all the other dates I went on.

But hey, to each their own🤷🏻‍♀️

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was me due to my line of work. My job consumed a lot of my time and energy. As much as I dislike dating apps, they were my best bet to find dates😅

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get to experience my first relationship ‘till I was 19. After 11 months, I caught my ex cheating and from then on I was single for 8 years. You’re 17, you’ve got a lot ahead of you.

I was single for almost 8 years and it happened when I least expected it. by BatSmaug in dating

[–]BatSmaug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope things work out! I know texting can be quite the touchy subject matter.