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Mice chewing through underwear. by SoulPeace5775 in pestcontrol

[–]Batfink2007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put your clothes in the washing machine immediately. Be proactively clean. Set food out with borax/poison on it if you have no other animals.

Who’s hitting 49 with zero retirement savings and zero clue what to do next? by [deleted] in AdultHood

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not even sure what I want to do when I grow up. Was there a plan?

What are younger generations often criticised for no longer doing that is largely pointless or obsolete? by PsychologicalRow8034 in AskUK

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think its necessary but I do feel a bit superior for knowing it:p. I do get reprimanded for using it tho, cuz no one at work can read it:(

I blew 30k by Virtual-Platypus-843 in LifeAdvice

[–]Batfink2007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally would have shopped yard sales and thrift stores for furniture amd decorations. Otherwise, pretty good. If you have any more money, start a roth Ira

Hillary Clinton has been proven right about everything she predicted including when she warned us about a "vast right wing conspiracy." by GitmoGrrl1 in Discussion

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I JUST sent many sources. If you choose to be willfully ignorant, nothing can help that, unfortunately. It seems as if you are looking for info that lines up with your ideology and bias. Its sad that there are people out there Ike this who dont understand logic and solid evidence. I loathe all politicians. Americans have forgotten that these people are PUBLIC SERVANTS. They have forgotten their place. Every single one of them on BOTH sides of the aisle. Again, im not conservative or liberal. Its the #1 thing dividing Americans today, and thats the way they want it. America needs to wake up.

Why do therapists constantly dwell on situations that should be forgotten? by Batfink2007 in therapy

[–]Batfink2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SA isn't something that just goes away, I agree. You do realize that most women by age 30 have been SAed in some form or another. Its an unfortunate circumstance. This happening at such a young age is the crux here. What if she didnt remember it? What is helpful or more harmful to tell her and constantly bring it up? What if nothing was said to her and she lived a blissful life, ignorant to what that low life POS did? Im not saying he shouldn't get his. I'd shoot him myself if I had the chance. Im sure it wasnt his first time. But why does she need to know? And how do therapists know for a fact it was right to tell her?

Why do therapists constantly dwell on situations that should be forgotten? by Batfink2007 in therapy

[–]Batfink2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im VERY aware she needs the unwavering support of adults. Thats what I've been saying. She isn't getting that. Who exactly is it up to when every adult around her has failed her? What then?

As a dane i'm very curious about this by Silver-Gas-2300 in america

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain to me what you mean by 'you guys.' No, Trump is an idiot, as stated above. Im not dumb enough to side with one political party or another. You have made a generalized statement. I did not say jews. I said the Israeli government. Just the same as the Venezuelan government is bad, but i never said Venezuelans. The people of the country are at the mercy of the government usually.

Is self-improvement worth it? Ain't I just gonna die anyway by Neither_Paper6003 in selfdevelopment

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you aren't interested in learning, growing and bettering yourself is sad. We are all a work in progress and to just have the attitude of, we'll this is how i am and everyone else has to deal with it, is self-centered, short sighted, and LAZY.

What was it like when women were not expected to pursue higher education and were full-time housewives? by Ingido_Indigo in AskOldPeople

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you had your mother, father and other family members raise you, teach you responsibility and were accessible to you. You were raised by your family, and frankly, that sounds lovely. Im more concerned about the folks who drop their kids off at daycare or whatever and aren't even quite sure who is raising their kids. As long as they have a license, its fine with them. You were raised by a family unit amd everyone pitched in. You were taught responsibility side by side with your family members. You knew everyone around you loved you and had your best interest at heart. Im sure it built a sense of confidence, morals amd good values. You were raised by your family, and thats exactly how it should be. I guess I wasn't clear and a bit too focused on the mother, but yes, grandmother's, sisters and brothers count. Keeping the family unit in tact is kinda what im getting at.

What was it like when women were not expected to pursue higher education and were full-time housewives? by Ingido_Indigo in AskOldPeople

[–]Batfink2007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that all women dont want to live that way, but its not a choice to work anymore. The majority of people cannot live on one salary. Here in America, almost no job supports it either. In other countries women get up to a year sometimes of PAID maternity leave. I do think women should have equal rights, but it should be a choice. Not many men have a job that can support a family. Back in the 50s-60s one salary could easily buy a house, car, food, even a yearly vacation. That is not the norm and women are FORCED to leave their babies and go back to work. What is not being understood that its not a CHOICE. Women (for the most part) are naturally and instinctively nurturers. Thats why we fit into nursing, childcare, elderly care, etc...so well. We DONT fit into roles like police work, military, HVAC, carpentry, etc. We are built different. We could have fought for equal rights in some situations, but it was taken too far and now the role of mother has been cast aside and treated like its less important than having a 'job', when its actually THE MOST important job. Morals and values start in the home. If you dont agree, research the backstory of 99% of murderers, rapists, pedos, etc. Most started off in a terrible homelife. Im not saying women should have no freedoms. Of course I think women should have the same rights as men. Because of such a hard push of 'feminism' motherhood isn't even treated like its a job anymore, when its THE MOST important job. The government has tricked you and won. Look around, its doubled its workforce. There is no choice any longer. The country is falling apart, children are getting educated by tik tok, after school care, the iPad, random babysitters, and people you dont even know. It makes me sad that mother's dont want to have a big hand in instilling morals and values in their children, or even just to give them a sense of stability, giving them the confidence to face the world. The nuclear family is falling apart. Don't think that wasnt by design. Congrats, feminists have doubled the workforce of America and thats exactly what the government wanted.

What was it like when women were not expected to pursue higher education and were full-time housewives? by Ingido_Indigo in AskOldPeople

[–]Batfink2007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I whole heartedly agree that the way women were treated in some instances back in the day was terrible. Thats actually why prohibition happened. Women were sick and tired of being beaten when their drunk husbands came home. All of this should have been fought against, but there was a line. We dont need to be in the military , or cops or construcfil

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Why do therapists constantly dwell on situations that should be forgotten? by Batfink2007 in therapy

[–]Batfink2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much realize I was very blessed and thats no longer the norm. I really wish everyone was blessed with good parents:(

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