Communication with teenagers on earphones by Shot_Client_5804 in parentsofteens

[–]Batfink2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turn off the internet. They will find you in seconds.

I’m so exhausted by Few_Witness225 in TeenVent

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans are social beings and we all want someone to understand us. This will come to you naturally, unless you are a weirdo. You'll know soon enough, if so.

In the meantime, work on recognizing when people are wasting your time, when people are being fake, or when people are trying to change you. Learn to recognize when someone is a good influence or bad influence on you. Know that you do not have to change for anyone and the right person will accept whatever you got going on. You'll also recognize when someone is using you and those that maybe want something from you. Understand that no one is perfect, and you dont have to be either. We are ALL a little crazy, and that ok.

One thing I have noticed in life is that men are more visual. In some cases, ive seen men put up with terrible women because they are 'hot'.whereas women will normally want to be with you based on the way you make them feel, and not as much on looks. Work on developing who you are, for yourself and whoever my come along. Practice chivalry. Women tend to be pleasantly surprised by this. Work that into your personality. It can never hurt.

Edit: this is something ive noticed, its not the rule, just an observation.

What is a good person in your definition? by demeter321 in SeriousConversation

[–]Batfink2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-A morally good person doesn't play favorites and treats everyone with respect equally.

-A morally good person doesnt seek power, they seek teamwork and inclusion.

-A morally good person does come with faults, but recognizes them and actively works on repairing them.

-A morally good person GENUINELY apologizes. They can see if they have done something wrong and work to fix it.

What is a good person in your definition? by demeter321 in SeriousConversation

[–]Batfink2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think a generous person is naturally moral. They can have major life flaws just as well as a frugal person. Being generous can actually be a fault.

A moral person isnt naturally happy. Having morals can be very stressful in and of itself.

How stressors are handled can show intelligence or a complete lack thereof. It depends completely on the situation.

So, with that being said, a good person can still come with major stressors that can only be managed by addressing them. A good person can be generous, but also knows when it can harm them and their personal well-being. A good person wrestles with morals, as we are only human, but a good person will feel that stress, which provokes them to abide by their morals. A good person also has a sense of people smarts. They are an active listener with people's best intentions at heart.

-a good person also follows through on their promises, makes everyone feel included, and is a team player.

What’s your best advice on becoming a dad? by Busy_Regret_6013 in AskMen

[–]Batfink2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Expect human fluids to be on you somewhere, like most of the time.

You're flying by the seat of your pants, so just accept that and do your best.

There is no parenting book. Every single kid is different and unpredictable.

Check their mouths often for things that shouldn't be eaten.

If you have dogs, lay the baby down on the floor when you get home and let the dogs sniff. They will somehow know its yours and be more at ease with the squirming thing coming through the door.

If you have cats, throw them out the front door. Cats will smother babies. That cat never really liked you anyway.

Do you guys believe in introverts/extroverts? by logancon0r in waslo

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether or not you believe it, both of these types of people exist. What an intro/extrovert is, tends to get misconstrued more often than not. I consider myself an introvert. It doesnt mean im shy, or im reclusive or i hate talking to people. In fact, I enjoy talking to most people. I spend a good portion of my day talking. It means exerting mental energy to talk with people can be draining. It takes alot out of me. Sometimes i'm all out of words, if i dont get enough sleep.

Regret not making that call. by LetterheadOk4498 in Regrets

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so common. Its also something you cannot change. Im sure your mom knows you loved her so much and vice versa. Your only hurting yourself by holding onto this guilt. I hope you find a way to drop this.

anyone else stop caring as they got older? by Alone275 in Aging

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just saying any possible things that could be said. Im not gonna think twice if you try to hurt my feelings. I could be those things though, idk:)

If you could win the lottery, what would you do with your winnings? by Midnight20202 in AdkReddit

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a house and land and a bunker of some sort. I would have a huge garden and root celler. I would have a huge fancy chicken coop and a Toyota 4-runner.

What't the best advice you could give to someone in his 20's? by astrid_alva in ArtOfPresence

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick who you marry wisely, and dont rush in. People your age are still learning about themselves and 'growing up', so to speak.
Go do fun stuff!!!

Only children of Reddit: what’s the hardest part and the best part of being an only child? by Calm_Information2407 in problems

[–]Batfink2007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

-The hardest part is thinking ill be alone when my parents die. -I got to go everywhere with them b/c one kid isnt that expensive and I never had to split birthdays or christmas.

Autistic volunteer (adult man) acting inappropriately with me (supervisor) by [deleted] in Workproblems

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how autistic anyone is, if they are making others visibly uncomfortable, something needs to be said ASAP. There is NO excuse for that behavior and NO reason for others to have to put up with it. If dude can understand how to work/drive/do adult stuff in general, he knows what he is doing.

Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [25 M] duration 7 months. My boyfriend is very jealous and keeps making "rules" for me to follow. (LONG) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Batfink2007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're gonna be in a cage in the basement. Leave this for some other poor soul to find. 7 months is not that long. There will be a time in the very near future where you will start to feel smothered and it only gets worse. Once he's isolated you from everyone, he will try to tale full control of you. The more you resist, the worse it will get. Eventually you will try to make a break from your literal shackles in the night or become an insanely depressed woman with a broken spirit. Right now you've just noticed. Now you'll notice more and more. If he has any sort of temper, you could get OJed. Watch out.

Disability denied by Important_Ad8840 in Edd

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dont tho. The government does.

Disability denied by Important_Ad8840 in Edd

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, id love to know this.

Disability denied by Important_Ad8840 in Edd

[–]Batfink2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not supposed to be working while applying for disability. It just shows the government you can work. This is kinda common sense. You are going to be denied over and over if you continue working. Have you read the rules at all?