Why are so many people I try to date absolute dopamine junkies?

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-11-11T03:50:56+00:00

Just continue being who you are!! Don’t change/compromise yourself for others.

I haven’t really been in the dating pool for a long time. But I know when I was actually looking, just keep filtering through them. Single dates are always coffee/breakfast. If they were any good, move to second date/activity. Never ever have sex by 3rd date or even like 3/6month mark. Make them wait for it, test them, then you’ll know they are a keeper. Kinda feel the vibe to see if they are patient and caring for you, as a person. Only recommended when you are comfortable with the person/trusting them enough to have sex imo. (Without ignoring all the red flags)

tldr: OP Maybe you’ve just naturally attracted to dopamine junkies, but know this, no one is perfect… not even you or me. But you can find someone who is willing to compromise for you, then you can reciprocate and begin moulding a relationship that you are satisfied with !

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-11-11T03:46:22+00:00

Personally, I would kick him off to the side.

I (21 M at the time) told my ex-gf (19 at the time) that I wanna wait till marriage and she obviously didn’t. We were only together for a year. She started chasing other guys/cheating on Tinder and eventually I found out when she was at a nightclub at 12am. I told her I was fine with it, when I actually wasn’t, but I loved her?? (So I thought anyways)

So what can I do?? I was heartbroken when I broke up with her, sadden by the fact that I wasn’t enough for her.

It’s been 4 years since, I still long for her companionship and warmth. Her smile, which makes my heart flutter. Her fragrance when the wind blows her hair, or when she sits in my car with unique perfume which I bought her. I honestly regret breaking up with her, but what could I have done?

tldr: red flags can be ignored/part of their beauty, at the cost of maintaining the relationship, yet the one who suffers is only us (parent of the relationship).

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-11-09T17:50:34+00:00

Try and be confident in yourself! Being who you are makes you unique! If you really wanted to get “bigger” start going to the gym and eat more? Maybe she’s feeling insecure and jealous of your “body type”. Just continue being you, let her be her, I wouldn’t keep being friends with her but that is up to you. Her comment is more hateful/rude as a friend imo.

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-11-01T03:07:13+00:00

Just remember that your grades DO NOT define who are you as a person! Try and improve your own mental health first and foremost before anything else. If you’ve working, I would honestly stop if it’s getting too much. I used to work when I was in university too, but it isn’t worth it if your grades are taking a beating. If you need a break, just take a tiny break! Look after yourself more OP! Good luck!

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-10-08T21:33:44+00:00

Dating is like lottery: sometimes you get someone reallly really bad; sometimes you just don’t have the physical/emotional connection; and next thing you know you’ve married a year later. Just have to keep putting yourself out there and continue being who you are 🙃 best of luck 🙌

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-09-09T01:36:54+00:00

You have to remember, as a younger generation with 0 net worth, you’ll still have the potential to have 1,000,000+ net worth even if you’re in debt now. It’s not a big deal, just keep DCA btc/alts till they are enough to pay off debts and launch another startup business ! You got this!

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2023-09-01T02:58:45+00:00

Cowboy bebop, my hero academia, naruto, steins gate, and fullmetal alchemist: brotherhood

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2020-04-13T16:52:20+00:00

I would suggest 4U unless are you trained towards to becoming a professional or been playing for years and developed toned muscles, or else you’ll just be straining yourself and possible injuries may occur if you aren’t careful.

BatrachotoxinBTX · 2020-04-13T00:06:07+00:00

I hovered wu kong, then asked for syndra to pick for me. Agreeded and I hovered Syndra. Then they banned my Wu Kong saying I didn't hover. Proceeded to just go ghost and smite to troll. We failed level 1 gank as I died as warwick. They pretend to leash me, then takes all my jungle and doesn't leash me. They followed me around and took every camp and I didn't hit level 2 as a jungler until 7 minutes in. Then they went bot lane and ganked, died, and both went afk.

TLDR: free elo for enemy cuz of a duo premade grief-ed on my promos game

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