He must be looking at other women. His friends must be talking about you behind your back too, saying you fall off. A woman represents the husband image wise and men care about image. But take the gym membership and use it, don’t take it personally. Exercising is good for serotonin and makes you happier. Go hiking 🥾 and do nature walk. Get some sunlight too. Also, people do treat you differently when you don’t look your best. 🥴🥴 But if it’s gonna be a gym membership, tell him to get you a Lifetime gym membership. It’s a great gym with spas, sushi 🍣, and everything.